Originally posted by: mahaan18
In this matter, I wouldn't call Goenkas hypocrites. See whatever the children do the blame will come on the parents only. Especially when they get involved in all these dangerous things which was exactly in the Luv-kush case. Surekha and Akhilesh are regretting now.
When it comes to this gun case all 3 of them were involved in it in which vansh was the main instigator. Krish should have made them understand rather than getting involved. Kaira should be strict towards kairav should make him understand what are good things and not to get involved in bad things (by giving luv-kush as an example). This applies even to Vansh and krish. Naksh and keerti should carefully look towards krish.
Gayu feels that vansh and vatsal are neglected because of kairav and akshara. Especially I remember that scene pretty well when keerti and naira were discussing about krish will also study in the same school kairav studies gayu hears it and she gets upset saying even vansh also studies in that same school you forgot about him. Gayu has this feeling from very beginning. Infact i feel especially kdadi rite she loves kairav akshara krish a lot because after all its her Kartik and keertis children. She's got this saying rite apna khoon apna khoon. Samarth is not her son. So she's got less concern for hm and their children.
Vansh feels neglected as he's not getting love from his father he's preferring vatsal over him. Only his mother loves him. I think at times He feels jealous of kairav when he sees him getting love from his parents. I feel sad for him. Samarth is very unfair why did he marry gayu if he's not able to accept vansh?
I do agree that the parents are to be blamed here. Whatever the kids did, like that gun matter, are not simple things. They should be severely reprimanded for it. But Karthik is being way too lenient with the kids and Naira is not able to do anything.
I don't know what to feel about Gayu's insecurities. Samarth is the one who is being most partial and she doesn't say anything much to him. On the other hand, she keeps blaming Naira who has not done anything wrong. If anything, she should make Samarth understand his mistakes instead of blaming the family. About Dadi, I have no hope from her character. Even after so much time, she still discriminates between their blood and outsiders. And I frankly don't think that is ever going to change. If anything, people should stop taking her seriously.