Back-tracing the amazing life lessons from YRKKH post Kaira

So here are the mind blowing life lessons our favorite/positive/different/sensible show has given us in last three years:

1. Its ok for a 5 year to hold grudges at his father , for days may be weeks or months 👏

2.If you dont like your parent , get them replaced. Buy a new one online. Your parents are there to fulfill this wish. Emotions of father doesn’t matter at all, he is the punching bag forever. I wonder if can they do this to a mother in any show?? And also its OK for a woman to loose her self respect for the welfare of her ex husband and wishes of her in laws.

3. Its completely ok to ogle your ex wife when your wife is not around , you have all the rights. Doesn’t matter if you questioned the character, got married to someone else , made her go through so much humiliation after she came back , you have all the rights just because Kartik to bas Naira se hi pyar karta hai.

4. Prioritize your Sautan’s happiness above everything, above your child, above the love of your life 👍🙌.

5. Its ok for an educated, rich, modern, classy family to get their widower ghar ka chirag marry against his will. All the parents these days are mad who are not putting any pressure on their children for arrange marriages, instead asking for their choice.

6. Its ok for the current wife to put pressure on the husband to start a new life with her, knowing that he always loved someone else, with all his heart and soul. Its perfectly ok to jump on his bed against his consent and everyone should sympathize with her 🙏.

7. Its ok for in laws to feel threatened about their DIL making a name for herself, just because she is a woman and no man can see his wife getting successful 👏.

8. Its ok for a most loving and trusting husband to go full 360 and start doubting the wife, just because he got triggered by some jealous woman.

9. Its ok to not give your DIL any place in your heart, even if she did so much for you. Loved your son like no one, saved life of two of your daughters , mended relationship between you and your son, forgiven you for all the false allegations you put on her. She should always remain an outsider and wo ladki.

10.Its ok to kick out your DIL out of the house because your son got himself killed of drug abuse. She is the culprit because she got to know the reason before you all. Its ok for a husband to break all ties with the love of his life because his mother hates her now 👏👍.

11. Its ok to kick out the DIL Infront of everyone if you got to know that she had a past and is not virgin. You dont even have to ask the husaband as the DIL is the property of you khandan , nothing else.

12. Its ok to blame the new bride if the son leaves your house to live alone with her . Doesn’t matter if he had same attitude before the wedding also.

13. Its ok get angry on your wife , make her beg and apologize to you , just after she forgave your sister for her mother’s accident. You shouldn’t ever have a big heart, but always have a big ego, because she is the wife, and how dare she doubted you and got angry on you, she has no right to have any misunderstanding.

14.Its ok to humiliate and hate the girl you love, who has also just lost her mother and going through so much of grief , because she blamed you for something you never did. Doesn’t matter if all the proofs were against you, doesn’t matter if you were actually drunk because of your friends and doesn’t matter if she is the one who got you out of that mess. Only your ego should matter. You expect her to understand everything without even saying, but that doesn’t apply on you or your family 👏. You and your family has all rights to blame and humiliate her, and she will come running once you apologize, and she herself will also apologize even if there was no mistake of hers.

So these are the learnings i got , let me know if you also feel the same , and have to list some other learning which i missed 😀.

Elaborate and required. Guess you have covered everything! This show is taking such an upsetting turn.

We turn to shows like these for an escape from the regular world and to get entertained. But this is what they dish out now. I'd take regular life any day!

Very entertaining post. But according to me daily soap not for teaching values but for entertaining purposes . Many daily soap where there concept was good but in middle of series they always introduced love triangle, double marriage sautan fights kitchen politics and blah blah. That's y never expect any logic's from these kind of shows!! Actually yeah rishta mai naya dikhane ko kuch hai hi Baja shliye kaira ke purane episode ke scenes ko thora twist deh kar same scene hi dekha rahe hai. Vedika nahi hai. Phir bhi uske track ko bina matlab stretch kar rahe hai. Uski kami pallavi puri kar rahi hai. Means pankuri ki shooting puri hote hi phir se vedika ka track start kar dega. Kdadi ne selfishness Mai PhD kar rakha hai. Show se kuch khas umeed Karna bekaar hai. BTW vansh ke saath sach mai bura Ho raha hai!!!!

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Very entertaining post. But according to me daily soap not for teaching values but for entertaining purposes . Many daily soap where there concept was good but in middle of series they always introduced love triangle, double marriage sautan fights kitchen politics and blah blah. That's y never expect any logic's from these kind of shows!! Actually yeah rishta mai naya dikhane ko kuch hai hi Baja shliye kaira ke purane episode ke scenes ko thora twist deh kar same scene hi dekha rahe hai. Vedika nahi hai. Phir bhi uske track ko bina matlab stretch kar rahe hai. Uski kami pallavi puri kar rahi hai. Means pankuri ki shooting puri hote hi phir se vedika ka track start kar dega. Kdadi ne selfishness Mai PhD kar rakha hai. Show se kuch khas umeed Karna bekaar hai. BTW vansh ke saath sach mai bura Ho raha hai!!!!

I agree yar, every show does this. But i feel bad because I considered yrkkh to be different and it was indeed different. They always tried to give a message and that too in a positive way. I used to feel light and happy after watching the episodes. But since last few months it has become so negative and stressfull. The way they showed Kartik’s love, their friendship, the proposal and the things he said during the proposal , confession of Naira, i mean no other show had ever handled the progress of love so wonderfully. But everything looks like a lie now, because they introduced a third angle and made Kartik actually marry her. Separation tracks tak sahi, rakho door jitna rakhna hai, but why to destroy the soul of the relationship, why to destroy their character development, why the destroy the meaning of your own show.

Haan yar, I really feel bad for Vansh. He is such a sensible child, treated so badly still loves and respects everyone and throws no tantrums , though he has complains but still longs for his father. I feel bad for Gayu also. Manish, kdadi and even suwarna are the worst and most opportunistic in laws in tv history, dont know why in hell Kaira has forgiven them so many times. They never leave a chance to hurt Kaira , mauka milte hi Naira ko blame krna suru kr dete hai. Vedika ka ab kya hi bolu, she is not there but i still feel her presence in every scene, specially Kaira scenes. Trp ke liy kuch ka kuch kar dia in pagal cvs ne. I feel bad for Mohsin and Shivangi, they are such wonderful actors, and are getting wasted here, in a show which has become complete crap and non sense.