IF Kairav was my son - Page 2

Originally posted by: Fari_15

That’s actually a good point. Naira said she doesn’t want to work in the field of designing again because of what happened last time. By her rejoining her own academy, how does that gain her confidence back which she lost because of Kartik?

It’s not about her working in the same vicinity as Kartik but it’s like she’s going back to her comfort zone. She started designed, something which was new to her, got her character questioned because of that, lost her self-confidence, but instead of pursuing what was left incomplete, they are showing the easy way out.

Idk if I am making sense but Naira was always a dancer, so Kartik supporting her in her dance career doesn’t really make up for what he did when she joined another field.

Naira and kartik and kairav plus everyone else looks dumb they are not putting enough effort into their writing and churning out anything.... its so disappointing not seeing them think things threw and shove a bunch of crap down our throats because theyr putting more effort into abhir and mishti

Naira going back to the dance academy is just too convenient. If she wants she should do some work with Naksh but she doesn't need to be tied to Karthik as far as her career. That is one thing she should keep separate from him. She has help at home and she can work a fulltime job. She needs to give her career path some importance for building her own self worth.

As far as Kairav is concerned look at the behavior of his parents. Enough said.

I am so sick of this show.

From naira being a dumb helpless girl , kartik getting no taunts and is still is not over his ego....not caring about responsibility.....singhanias being cringe.....to kairav being a spoilt brat.

I have so many problems regarding this trend that i have made an assumption of writers being changed or swapped so that yrhpk writers are the ones who wrote yrkkh.....and then there are new and sorry to say dumb and illogical writers.

Because nothing is connected...everything is a raita.... for anyone who said about kartik ogling naira.... that she is his wife in his head...then pls dont read further...but ewww....yuk. you are married to someone else.... no mattwr how vedika is...... no matter what circumstances lead you to your marriage...you dont disrespect a girl like that.... whether it is vedika or naira for that matter.

Vedika did wrong by jumping on his bed..but kartik ogling was so cringe....something was so off about watching a girl dress up through mobile. That is my main problem...if she was in fromt of him that wS ok....but to look so longingly makes you feel that kartik will always see her like that and will not even hesitate to make it clear..what about naira ? What about her...thoughts on her ex ogling like this ? For me it was cringeworthy.

Second about naira being a oblivious person....i hate the hypocrite writers...who make her observe every single problem of every single family member but fails to see when her son looks evily at his papa. That is not what a mother does. I have sided with naira post leap...but now it is getting so irritating...she behaves like a dumb ...uneducated girl....

Also about kartik giving naira her dance academy ..and all that was total crap. It was like in kartiks head...she will always stay there. .

What about making her own identity....or for that matter finding something that makes her happy....kartik doing it was as awful....as it could be.

For kairav i have no words....he is just like a evil person....right now.

To whoever is writing or is on pr team...and who reads all india forums threads...i sincerely urge you to change the storyline....kindly bring someone else to dress up characters....and stop stripping down the positive things left in the serial or else just like my grandmother said today that she thinks yrkkh has become bekar...she was a loyal viewer until this week...you are going to loose fans real fast.

Ps - momos attitude is becoming rude day by day...dont know what is wrong.

Firewithinus - you said most of what I was thinking after I made the mistake of watching the last few episodes under the sad delusion that things would be better with Vedika (temporarily I guess) out of the picture. But the wtf moments just keep on coming. Vedika haring off to America at a moment's notice (uh, visa anyone?) and the Goenkas not being even a little suspicious of this sudden trip and out-of-nowhere dying aunt (how did they suddenly become so gullible ).

And then there's Naira - so many irritating things but yesterday's episode man, I was really annoyed by her glorifying how she delayed a medically recommended C-section to give her son and estranged husband from whom she ran away (!) the same bday. A C-section is major surgery and not recommended just for kicks. Prolonging labor like that is not only risky but stupid. Between her coddling Vedika and her misguidedly self-effacing decisions all which either actually or potentially have terrible consequences, I am just about done with her.

And then we come to the infamous videocall scene... I really don't get this argument that Kartik has only ever loved Naira/never had eyes for any other woman/is her ex-husband, therefore it is ok for him to ogle her through a phone camera without her knowledge or consent. There are stalker exes who use the same justification to spy on women with whom they are obsessed. I'm not saying Kartik is a pervert but his voyeurism is not okay with me either. I cringed through that scene (and his expressions were - I'm sorry- just ugh so creepy!). In general I feel Mohsin's portrayal of Kartik has lost a lot of its charm. I watched three years worth of YRKKH in about two months and my personal opinion is that the chemistry between Mohsin and Shivangi went noticeably off in the mid/late 2018 episodes. Before then, there used to a real intensity and love-light in Kartik's eyes when he interacted with Naira. I loved how sometimes he would almost catch his breath at the sight of her. At some point (maybe right around or before the Puru Mama episodes), their love scenes just became less convincing to me (including the recent dori and drunk scene). Instead of that realistic punch-drunk-love look, his 'loving/adoring' expressions were just kind of dead-eyed and flat. Can't really describe it but the difference from the earlier episodes is like night and day.

As for Kairav's behavior, I'll just say this - child behavioral specialists will evaluate children under the age of six with unusual anger issues who also show capacity for self-harm to get what they want, as high-risk for sociopathic/psychopathic behavior in adulthood. The way the writers are portraying Kairav, entitled spoiled brat is the best case scenario. The worst case scenario is him stabblng Kartik in his sleep in a few years...

In short, I really wish I had not paid for Hotstar this month👎🏼

Originally posted by: Prettywitty

And then we come to the infamous videocall scene... I really don't get this argument that Kartik has only ever loved Naira/never had eyes for any other woman/is her ex-husband, therefore it is ok for him to ogle her through a phone camera without her knowledge or consent. There are stalker exes who use the same justification to spy on women with whom they are obsessed. I'm not saying Kartik is a pervert but his voyeurism is not okay with me either. I cringed through that scene (and his expressions were - I'm sorry- just ugh so creepy!). In general I feel Mohsin's portrayal of Kartik has lost a lot of its charm. I watched three years worth of YRKKH in about two months and my personal opinion is that the chemistry between Mohsin and Shivangi went noticeably off in the mid/late 2018 episodes.

As for Kairav's behavior, I'll just say this - child behavioral specialists will evaluate children under the age of six with unusual anger issues who also show capacity for self-harm to get what they want, as high-risk for sociopathic/psychopathic behavior in adulthood. The way the writers are portraying Kairav, entitled spoiled brat is the best case scenario. The worst case scenario is him stabblng Kartik in his sleep in a few years...

In short, I really wish I had not paid for Hotstar this month👎🏼

I have been saying these two things again and again , but getting full on defensive responses by few people. I am so glad that other people are also voicing their opinions here 🙌. They need to make the story progress now, Kaira cant be behaving immature all their lives, they are already married for about 11 12 years now and even have a kid.being a mother Naira not understanding and denying kairav’s behavior is completely indigestible but she immediately got why Kartik thanked her, wow 👏. And please get that kid treated by some good child psychologist, its high time now.

So agree with you all.... such a spoilt brat!!

Originally posted by: Kaira4ever

So agree with you all.... such a spoilt brat!!

Yeah, guess what,today he even pretended to sleep when the Goenka’s came to wish him. Yahi dikha dete that he was actually sleeping, i completely was ok with it . But the moment they showed him pretending i was like aaaarrrrrgh , have never seen such a dramatic kid.

And everyone has forgotten that he was angry with Kartik the other day because he shouted on him. No one, not even his mother tried to ask why he did that and make him understand what he did was wrong thats why Papa shouted.

Like seriously, itna degrade karoge show ko ab . Kartik shown over happy only because makers know they are going to take away his happiness 😅. Otherwise itna khus kyu bhai?? Is everything sorted in your life?? They are showing this just to make us feel bad for Kartik , again the sadist approach.

They can Only show one good thing in the end. Goenka’s being the Goenka’s, blaming Naira for everything then Shinghania’s taking a stand and telling them the truth about Vedika’s suicide attempt and blackmailing, baki agar ye nahi dikhaya to itne drame ka koi use nahi. Its baseless track just to drag the show.

Originally posted by: Sur89

Yeah, guess what,today he even pretended to sleep when the Goenka’s came to wish him. Yahi dikha dete that he was actually sleeping, i completely was ok with it . But the moment they showed him pretending i was like aaaarrrrrgh , have never seen such a dramatic kid.

And everyone has forgotten that he was angry with Kartik the other day because he shouted on him. No one, not even his mother tried to ask why he did that and make him understand what he did was wrong thats why Papa shouted.

Like seriously, itna degrade karoge show ko ab . Kartik shown over happy only because makers know they are going to take away his happiness 😅. Otherwise itna khus kyu bhai?? Is everything sorted in your life?? They are showing this just to make us feel bad for Kartik , again the sadist approach.

They can Only show one good thing in the end. Goenka’s being the Goenka’s, blaming Naira for everything then Shinghania’s taking a stand and telling them the truth about Vedika’s suicide attempt and blackmailing, baki agar ye nahi dikhaya to itne drame ka koi use nahi. Its baseless track just to drag the show.

All these tracks are being added to divert the audience’s attention from the real issue in hand; Kartik and Vedika’s marriage.
Once the marriage issue is resolved, there’s nothing left to prolong the separation, so they are just ignoring it till they can.
I am hoping once Pankhuri returns to shoot, Vedika’s track is wrapped up ASAP. Till the time Kartik is shown married to Vedika, Kaira can never make progress as a couple and quite frankly, the patience is wearing down now.

I have no issues with the Kairav behavior but i have issue with the current writer. They started the custody track and all of sudden without any proper reason they changed the track and shut it off. They started showing Vedika karira trio triagle but with out any proper reason they show that she ran away. Which husband or in law in the world are not bother about there so called illegal daughter in law. At least they should have showed Kdadi whose is her ladli try to talk to her but no. Instead of giving they started Birthday track and Kariav hatred towards Karthik. Even that also for sure they will make kachra.

Reason behind the Kariav behavior is he for 5 years missed his dad love and affectionate and he also saw how Naira took care so there will expectation from Karthik but instead showing the affectionate side of KArhtik they showed anger side of him which eventually he will forgot. For Kairava Nair is whole world and if someone else even maybe his dad scold her he cannot take and he will form a opinion. We should at least happy that they not showing possiveness war between dad and son.

The writer may be trying to show that Karthik and naira again coming close and the boom vedika entry and again her taunting. My issue is if you start a track just give a proper closure.

Excuse me, for trying to find any sensibility in the Characters of this show, previously. I joined watching yrkkh few months back and got too emo post the leap for the eternal couple here. Creatives got me there. 😆

I feel funny for having any expectations from the "love" that supposedly exists between Kaira. I feel funny for supporting Naira's Kairav upbringing. I feel funny for I was trying to "understand" the current track (Minus the Vedika track, coz that track is utter nonsense and just incomprehensible). I feel funny for deciding to watch this show post the 5 year leap.

Don't these Creatives and Production review the reviews? Or if they do, which/what kind of reviews are they reviewing, considering the claptrap plots they are continuing to write for over 5 months by now!

P.S. IF Kairav was my son he wouldn't have dared to mess up with a "pretty" cake in front of me.

P.S.S. I loved reading this thread. Ok thanks bye. =))