Lovebirds are Cheating on Vulture?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Kartik has always loved Naira his wife more than anyone he ever loved...got married to Vedika due to family's pressure, emotional blackmailing and KD's fake health issues...Vedika knew Kartik lives Naira....she has seen him obsessing over his dead wife....Kartik never promised to love her back...he even clarified to MG who was among those who pressurized him to get married to Vedika..."I can never move on from Naira"...entire Goenka family knew they are forcing zimedari on Kartik in hope of getting "parpota"....Vedika's one sided infatuation didn't get infatuation or even friendship in return...who is at fault?....Kartik or family?....Goenkas in their inherent selfishness didn't think about him or even Vedika...and he got married to zimmedari...clarifying that he can't move on...couldn't it be better if he conversed with Vedika straightaway and told her he can't get married to her...as it will be unfair to her...if she will have to stay in loveless marriage for lifetime......Vedika knew he didn't promise anything...she knew what's ahead...but still one conversation wouldn't harm...Naira on other hand accepted that he moved on...by overhearing a conversation...admitted infront of Liza that she was wrong in hiding herself and their child after Kaira's face off...but than initially didn't accept it infront of him...recently she admitted her fault infront of him..and told him the fact that their relationship is now broken like broken mirror...she acknowledged Vedika as Kartik's wife...sought Vedika's permission before living in GV...she thinks that one accusation ended their relationship...but does she really believe it ended their love?...she kept reminding herself what they have in their heart are past memories only...but Naira kept teej or possibly KV's fasts for him during those 5 years and is still fasting for him...she fasted for him being his wife in those 5 years...but now why she is fasting for someone's else husband?....Teej is celebrated when Lord Shiv accepted Parvati as his wife...fast can be observed by unmarried women...it can be observed to have a good husband or can be observed for lover whom you consider your soulmate or life partner...Naira will also observe fast for Kartik...will she go against her inner voice...there is nothing left between them...and will fast for her lover and her child's father regardless of him not being her husband...will she go against her principles?....does Naira have any principles ever?...though not talking about her trying to help others come out of mess....Naira is not someone who follows rules and principles in life...unlike Kartik who has better sense of right and wrong and hate being lied and cheated on....she does what she wants to do...she doesn't need to justify whatever she did or is doing....whereas Kartik always tried to justify whatever he did by reasoning....she is inherently stubborn and someone who doesn't think about family and society...that's why Kartik calls her sherni a fighter...who doesn't like to please society by following their norms....Kartik will always be her lover but for her that one accusation killed the wife...in her conversation with Vedika she assured that she will leave GV or she is not there to stay...but did she assure Vedika she has nothing to do with Kartik?....or she doesn't love Kartik anymore?...she might have told her she is not there to destroy her married life...but did she assured emotional detachment from her presumed ex-husband infront of his presumed wife?...still her fasting for Kartik even if she will secretly fast without letting him know until she faints is wrong considering how she believes Vedika to be his wife...and him expecting her to fast for him knowing he addressed her his ex-wife is also wrong...specifically when he didn't clarify to zimedari that he can't let Naira go...he wants to live with Naira and Kairav...his original family...CVs are giving another lollipop as Kaira's teej celebration...wouldn't it be better if they showed second marriage illegal and nullified by law on 3000 episode celebration...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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my problem with this is the romantization of cheating(Like if kartik stole something because he is kartik does that make him less of a thief? in the same way he is cheater and so is naira) (I am for this argument going to be thinking from a perspective of kartiks legal wife being vedika)

We all want to see Kartik with naira. So vedika becomes the villain but if we look at this from a non shipper perspective. Its kind of awful...

Kartik told naira vedika is his wife now. He knows she loves him / has feelings for him. And he can never love her. By doing that was he not hurting and using her?

She who did not want anything from him but friendship who didnt insist on this marriage either i remember dadi literally forced all this. I remember she kept saying dont force him.

He doesnt have the decency to just be honest with her. It is cheating. He is letting his family treat her as his wife and treat naira like shit. Because he thinks naira is wrong and this is her punishment. He knows we all know he isnt even going to touch vedika. He will never go and tell vedika to leave because he still using her to hurt naira. Forgetting conveniently that its a form of cheating.

Naira can observe a fast for kartik...sure guys but imagine how ick we felt when gayu kept one for him...thats how his new wife would feel seeing naira do it...

just because we ship it and think they are destined to be together doesnt take away the fact it is wrong...

If you cheated on ur husband with ur ex because you thought your ex was your soul mate then is that not cheating? is it dubbed true love??

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh

my problem with this is the romantization of cheating(Like if kartik stole something because he is kartik does that make him less of a thief? in the same way he is cheater and so is naira) (I am for this argument going to be thinking from a perspective of kartiks legal wife being vedika)

We all want to see Kartik with naira. So vedika becomes the villain but if we look at this from a non shipper perspective. Its kind of awful...

Kartik told naira vedika is his wife now. He knows she loves him / has feelings for him. And he can never love her. By doing that was he not hurting and using her?

She who did not want anything from him but friendship who didnt insist on this marriage either i remember dadi literally forced all this. I remember she kept saying dont force him.

He doesnt have the decency to just be honest with her. It is cheating. He is letting his family treat her as his wife and treat naira like shit. Because he thinks naira is wrong and this is her punishment. He knows we all know he isnt even going to touch vedika. He will never go and tell vedika to leave because he still using her to hurt naira. Forgetting conveniently that its a form of cheating.

Naira can observe a fast for kartik...sure guys but imagine how ick we felt when gayu kept one for him...thats how his new wife would feel seeing naira do it...

just because we ship it and think they are destined to be together doesnt take away the fact it is wrong...

If you cheated on ur husband with ur ex because you thought your ex was your soul mate then is that not cheating? is it dubbed true love??

Before showing Naira observing fast for Kartik...Goenkas or Singhanias lawyer should have clarified their marital status and legal aspects infront of all...only than it would appear right or oh so romantic...Gayu's fast was broken by Rama dadi whereas Vedika's fast will be broken by KD...neither Gayu was destined for Kartik nor Vedika is destined for him...but the point is...both Kartik and Naira are letting Vedika believe that she stands a chance whereas they know she stand zero chance....that's where they are cheating....BV conveniently make Kartik/ Naira scapegoat for her regressive and morally challenging writing...as she know whatever they do they will receive least backlash by SM viewers as compared to other characters....maybe TRP viewers won't accept it...khair....what they are promoting bigamy through Kaira....and they won't even oust Vedika till October...so the bigamy game continues...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

Before showing Naira observing fast for Kartik...Goenkas or Singhanias lawyer should have clarified their marital status and legal aspects infront of all...only than it would appear right or oh so romantic...Gayu's fast was broken by Rama dadi whereas Vedika's fast will be broken by KD...neither Gayu was destined for Kartik nor Vedika is destined for him...but the point is...both Kartik and Naira are letting Vedika believe that she stands a chance whereas they know she stand zero chance....that's where they are cheating....BV conveniently make Kartik/ Naira scapegoat for her regressive and morally challenging writing...as she know whatever they do they will receive least backlash by SM viewers as compared to other characters....maybe TRP viewers won't accept it...khair....what they are promoting bigamy through Kaira....and they won't even oust Vedika till October...so the bigamy game continues...


I think that it would appear romantic to us even if kaira were murderers because they have chemistry and are young and good looking

Naira keeping a fast for kartik is wrong...Kartik fasting in any way shape or form will be confusing! because he has two wives (Kinda)

Nobody deserves to be cheated on even if they are delusional

Does that mean by bringing in a lawyer and claiming naira is the legal wife to make it romantic i dont think so. There is so much that needs to be fixed before morally and logically romance between them would make sense

But thats the thing about love nothing makes sense. Right/wrong etc

U forget everything

I would have liked to see on some level that these two matured and would put their child before their petty fights etc... but there isnt that type of growth with them because beyond loving themselves and what they want their child isnt even important. (they really should not be parents)

This is proved by kartik allowing vedika to think she is his wife rather than out right tell her she is wasting her time and in turn protect his child.../ and using the child to keep naira with him

Naira allowed her self respect to be bigger than her child for five years and spite-ing kartik to run supreme...

At the end of the day i feel like kaira have become so unlikable but then at the same time humans are like this...Confused, selfish, preachy...so it is on a very human level if u take out the faked deaths etc...very real thats what i have come to realize....But i dont buy sacha pyaar nonesence ...its just whats sold to us

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Posted: 6 years ago
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A woman always scores over a man because she is gifted with instinct. What a man can not understand,a woman can instantly does,just by applying her eyes and mind..

It is too easy to gauze through the heart of a man to know whether he has feelings for her or for someone else.

I don’t think Vedika is that immature or childish to think that she has a bright future ahead with Kartik. Specially she could sense the way he roams around Naira and prefers not to look at her atleast once in a while.

Kartik did not find it exciting to look at Vedika Who is applying mehandi for himself but he is so curious to see his son apply mehandi on Naira’s hand that too the letters ..KARTIK

The whole Goenka family understood his disinterest towards Vedika in this particular scene but not Vedika?

Who is at fault? She Who is dreaming with eyes wide open.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

A woman always scores over a man because she is gifted with instinct. What a man can not understand,a woman can instantly does,just by applying her eyes and mind..

It is too easy to gauze through the heart of a man to know whether he has feelings for her or for someone else.

I don’t think Vedika is that immature or childish to think that she has a bright future ahead with Kartik. Specially she could sense the way he roams around Naira and prefers not to look at her atleast once in a while.

Kartik did not find it exciting to look at Vedika Who is applying mehandi for himself but he is so curious to see his son apply mehandi on Naira’s hand that too the letters ..KARTIK

The whole Goenka family understood his disinterest towards Vedika in this particular scene but not Vedika?

Who is at fault? She Who is dreaming with eyes wide open.


I know this might annoy some but Kartik literally uses/ used her

If she is even dreaming a little bit its his fault...

She never was a syko bent on obsessing over him

He used her so dadi wouldnt get sick

and he is using her now to hurt naira(think about him dancing with her like they are best friends...)


sure she is dreaming with her eyes wide open but who is at fault?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh


I know this might annoy some but Kartik literally uses/ used her

If she is even dreaming a little bit its his fault...

She never was a syko bent on obsessing over him

He used her so dadi wouldnt get sick

and he is using her now to hurt naira(think about him dancing with her like they are best friends...)


sure she is dreaming with her eyes wide open but who is at fault?

A girl can be so delusional that she cant see the pain behind the eyes of the person whom she wants to share her life with ? I understandwhat you are trying to say...but as a girl leave dadi or naira or kartik... what was vedikas role i ask then my mind answers that she if wanted then could have studied and built a hobby. She wants kartik as a husband ok...but as you put it she asks frndship .... but friendship is something which when you understand the other person. She expects kartik to spend a night with her...and longingly sees the bed of suhaagrat. Men literally never express emotions in the indian society mainly unless and until its their lover or parents. So vedika is not fully at fault....but to imagine and think about a guy who weeps for his wife.... to see the truth and still ignore it.... she knew what she was getting into. For a moment if we assume naira is dead ...then what did she expect ? That is how she is wrong. She knew ...she saw and as a friend you dont see the pain in the eyes ? Or as a one sided lover..if she really craved kartik she should have been able to see how kartik is with naira and without her. She pretending to be hurt is like kartik was all lovey dovey before and now that naira is back he doesnt glance. That is cheating. Everyone is so sympathetic towards her. Kartik and naira have not been close.... you cant let go of your love no matter how much anger and misunderstandings you have. This is what love is. Also i hate how singhanias have accepted vedika as their daughter but when naira needed them..naksh was jealous or keerti was telling that naira comes between them. Even after naira is alive they rubbed it on her face by giving so called shagun. I am not telling that no one is at fault ...everyone in some or the other way have created this situation and mainly kdadi. Its her that played biggest role.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh


I know this might annoy some but Kartik literally uses/ used her

If she is even dreaming a little bit its his fault...

She never was a syko bent on obsessing over him

He used her so dadi wouldnt get sick

and he is using her now to hurt naira(think about him dancing with her like they are best friends...)


sure she is dreaming with her eyes wide open but who is at fault?

And to be clear about who is at fault . I personally think about kdadi and manish ...it all started because of them. Naira and kartik had been immature but a family needs to be supportive or else ears get filled and you get insecure which happened with them

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fireiswithinus

A girl can be so delusional that she cant see the pain behind the eyes of the person whom she wants to share her life with ? I understandwhat you are trying to say...but as a girl leave dadi or naira or kartik... what was vedikas role i ask then my mind answers that she if wanted then could have studied and built a hobby. She wants kartik as a husband ok...but as you put it she asks frndship .... but friendship is something which when you understand the other person. She expects kartik to spend a night with her...and longingly sees the bed of suhaagrat. Men literally never express emotions in the indian society mainly unless and until its their lover or parents. So vedika is not fully at fault....but to imagine and think about a guy who weeps for his wife.... to see the truth and still ignore it.... she knew what she was getting into. For a moment if we assume naira is dead ...then what did she expect ? That is how she is wrong. She knew ...she saw and as a friend you dont see the pain in the eyes ? Or as a one sided lover..if she really craved kartik she should have been able to see how kartik is with naira and without her. She pretending to be hurt is like kartik was all lovey dovey before and now that naira is back he doesnt glance. That is cheating. Everyone is so sympathetic towards her. Kartik and naira have not been close.... you cant let go of your love no matter how much anger and misunderstandings you have. This is what love is. Also i hate how singhanias have accepted vedika as their daughter but when naira needed them..naksh was jealous or keerti was telling that naira comes between them. Even after naira is alive they rubbed it on her face by giving so called shagun. I am not telling that no one is at fault ...everyone in some or the other way have created this situation and mainly kdadi. Its her that played biggest role.

If u like chocolate and u told someone u ddn want it but it walked over and fell into ur lap and unwrapped itself and jumped in front of ur mouth would u give it to someone else ?

No matter how selfless u r... I just dont see someone doing that easily...

Sure we all cant be naira who will sacrifice her love for vedika, gayu, aashi, suwarna ... without even thinking twice ...


As for dadi she thinks marraige fixes everything and in some cases she was correct

Look at keerti forcing naksh to marry her worked out shes happy

sure a logical person doesnt think like this....but its what she thinks ...kartik who was in depression being so young just force him on some girl who loved him maybe he would love her

so for me she isnt wrong in loving kartik enough to think and want him to be happy...

Naira pretending to be dead was the worst in all of that...(not manish dadi anyone just naira)

Kartik knows himself best and should have said no...Its not like he hasnt refused dadi before i remember her getting sick during the whole divorce and he still did it... so yeah...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I feel Karthik and Naira have no moral compass. I don't know what else to say. It is wrong to put Vedika in this situation and seeing Naira fasting for Karthik well it just seem so wrong. It comes across as she is backstabbing Vedika. It looks like she is taking advantage of Vedika's kindness in allowing her to stay at the Goenka home. It definitely comes across as Karthik is cheating on Vedika with his estranged first wife. With Kairav pushing his agenda on his parents overall it is a very bad look for Karthik and Naira. I really am disappointed in their behavior and how these characters are portrayed.

Even if they get back together Karthik won't have any feeling of guilt for playing with Vedika's sentiments. For a girl to get married and then later divorced is a very big deal and even society looks down on such behavior.

In a way maybe these two deserve each other because they are two of kind. Very selfish people that have put their family and Vedika through a lot of emotional trauma. For this reason I have lost interest in this couple as they have been a true disappointment as far as being good human beings.

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