I would like to just add a point to His vs Her crime and justice record being discussed here. If we really get into the actual aspect of crime and justice, I think most of the characters from the whole show, would be spending their life time in jails and courts.
Originally posted by: rose2015
Being insecure doesn't justify her behavior. If she doesn't change she will never be successful in any relationship. She is not even able to manage her son properly and feeds him all sorts of stories and lies. She is causing more harm for her son who will one day find out the truth. He is already out of control and she needs to start acting like a responsible mom. Right now she needs to prove herself as a strong woman and should show Karthik I don't care you have remarried and I don't care for Teej. I am only here till my son's health improves.
You are right with the later part of your post. Naira needs to be the strong headed character. Five years, as a single mom, is something, I believe should have changed her stance on life. Creatives should work on character shaping of Characters, a tad more than working on just the plots.
A single mom, with history of accusations, returns, to get her child, her sole reason to survive, treated, under the hawk-eyed in-laws.
She needs to be strong yet scared, determined yet vulnerable. It's a serious plight.
But "moving away" from the her "intellectual" in-laws, just because, she should be strong on one aspect, is not the only decision she needs to take. Running away, has been her forte, and if she does it again it won't be any surprising, but she is just letting others rule over her, yet again. Since, she is already there, I would prefer her "roaring" back. If she is accepting the backlash because of her decisions, she has the very right to question each and everybody of their sincerity towards the righteousness.
Coming to the first part of your post, I am not sure from where you came to conclusion that she is feeding lies to her son that will harm him one day. Because of which "truth"? Is it, her "running away", THAT truth?? Or what is it?
And regarding Kairav being "out of control", is that one because of fact that he is demanding his mom of certain conclusive actions, so that his mom and dad be close?
If it is so, I would agree to an extent that it is "out of control", but only when, considering the fact that he is just 4-5 years old. Not demanding, but kids/babies, right from their birth, are very much observing everything around them. In this show, demands from Kairav may look illogical to many, but his demands out of him observing "family" "mom dad" "relations", is something I am ending up focusing on. He used to go to school, where one can easily see this reality of "being family" and "being lonely". And being a targeted child is something leaves scars for lifetime. It's scary.
If Naira, would have, let her anger or any displeasing memories against Kartik and her in-laws, get to Kairav, during the past five years, I don't think Kairav would be so adamant. He probably believes his dad and dad's family are good enough to be together with his mom. She used to share all good memories from her past.
Her being "not responsible" is not what I believe. She is being very much responsible. But, yes, her ways through the situation at the moment is not what I would prefer. Breakingaway is not only option, but trying to mend others relations is also not sensible one. I really wish for her to take a determined stand for something.
Edited by kairaccount - 6 years ago
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