Kairav forcing kaira to be a 'Couple' - Page 2

Naira, Karthik, and Kairav scenes looked so forced and cringeworthy. If Kairav spends a night at the Goenka's don't be surprised if he says he wants mom and dad to sleep with him in the bed. (and they will happily oblige) Showing Naira overdressed looks odd. It doesn't fit with the storyline. The only saving grace is Vansh who is cute.

More entertaining are the forum threads than the show.

Originally posted by: Fari_15

After that janmashtavi celebration, Kartik dancing with his two wives and doing pooja with them, I am looking forward to what they would dish out on Teej.

Naira and Vedika fasting for Kartik, Kartik breaking their fasts simultaneously, family just staring at them from the background? They can’t stoop any lower than they already have.

I don’t know much about Hinduism, but just out of curiosity, did Krishna love his wife Rukmini? Also, from what I have read Krishna and Radha were soulmates but never got married. Maybe the cvs forgot that Kartik-Naira have had 5 weddings till now and even have a kid. How does the religious reference even make sense?

The comparison of Vedika with Rukmini and Naira with Radha is not valid! Radha and Krishna never got married whereas Kartik and Naira are still married until their marriage is declared null and void by law. Facts can't be changed based on writer's convenience.

Agree to all ur points. They are trying to show only Naira's POV ignoring to maturedly deal with Karthik's char using him only to elevate Naira's plight.

Agree, i dislike Kairav and such kids on tv or movies. I like Vansh and the actor playing him. Hoping to see Krish too.

Kairav is 5yrs? Kids at such age are proved lot smarter than they're trying to portray. They observe alot. Better they do research. If he is real he must have knew by now that they are separated and moved on.

Originally posted by: Fari_15

The last line 🤣.

Totally looking forward to it because I need a break from the ongoing story.

As for Naira raising a bratty child, he was much better in Goa where he was shown to not have any idea about his family and actually act like a kid.

Now all of a sudden he knows about everyone and everything. He’s 4 for god’s sake.

The kid was bearable during the hospital scenes but now it’s tiresome to watch him. He looks too old to be a 4/5 year old, isn’t cute and doesn’t have any chemistry with Mohsin and Shivangi. Vansh is so much more cute and talented.

This! I watch only for him. Hoping they wud give more scenes to him.

Originally posted by: SanyaEterna

I agree! It looks so forced, they're using Kairav to push KaiRa closer while knowing that Kartik is a married man. It doesn't look emotional or romantic or bhagwan ki banai jodi at all, it just looks like Kartik is emotionally cheating on Vedika. If Naira wasn't back and Kartik still loved her (thus still cheating on Vedika emotionally) it would have still made sense. But now that Naira is here, they are showing all this and it's just ugh.

And Kairav, I understand he's a little kid, but if he's shown to be so mature at just 4 years, why can't his parents have a seat with him and calmly tell him that they can't live together and make a story? He's so smart, he's so sanskari and whatnot but Kartik and Naira have to do something quickly otherwise this kid will soon start crying for a baby sister again and God knows what will happen then😂

Yes. It is an old method. I want to share it here. For all.

It suits all platforms, all languages, since they all copy eachother.

https://www.thenewsminute.com/article/arrogant-wife-please-adjust-how-malayalam-cinema-has-portrayed-divorce-107581

In films, divorce is seldom seen as a valid option and women, especially, are required to stick through a marriage however toxic it might be.

Where children become the reason

As in real life, cinema too depicts children as a compelling reason for saving a marriage, however toxic it may be.

The 2008 movie Innathe Chinthavishayam, directed by Sathyan Anthikad, is about three women who are separated from their husbands, and the hero – Mohanlal – trying to reunite them.

“Innathe Chinthavishayam has a hero who takes it upon himself to mend the strained relationship between three married couples. While the reasons listed out by the married women are rather valid, he insists that divorce can never be an option, as it affects children and it would be selfish to simply think about oneself. In the end, he succeeds in bringing them back together,” says Neelima.

Children are often brought up as a reason in movies to justify the prolonging of unhappy marriages. Neelima mentions the 1990 Kamal movie Pookkalam Varavayi, in which Murali and Geetha are shown as a divorced couple, taking alternate custody of their little girl, played by Shamili.

“It typically talks about how divorce results in unhappy children. Their child runs away (and it's a hugely problematic narrative here) from the household to stay with a family who apparently showers her with love, and eventually, the parents and their decision to divorce are blamed for it,” she says.

The consensus being a woman should stay in a marriage, however abusive and unhappy it might be, for the sake of the children. The wife's trauma is never addressed,” Neelima says.

Films have rarely explored the effects that witnessing a bad marriage on a daily basis can have on children, choosing to focus on divorce as the villain instead.

Reading all this i realised why Sara Ali Khan said she was happy bcos she had 2 happy families instead of one ugly one.

The exceptions

Ozhimuri (2012), directed by Madhupal, came as a welcome change in this context because of the non-conformist stance it took. The wife in the film – played by Mallika – sticks to her stand till the end; she wants a divorce from the husband she has for long suffered (Lal) and does not waver even when her son asks her to reconsider.

There are other examples, more subtle ones. The character Manju Warrier played in Ennum Eppozhum, where the husband is never shown but is only talked about as an abuser, who stoops to hurting his own child to win a battle with his ex-wife.

A happily divorced woman appeared in Ranjith Sankar's Ramante Edan Thottam (2017), recalls Neelima.

"Malini walks out of an emotionally abusive marriage, insists of divorce and tells her husband that their daughter can stay in two happy homes,” she says.

“I realise that we don’t have many narratives around divorce. A few notable ones will be Kaniha in Spirit--after getting a divorce from Mohanlal citing alcoholism, she remarries, and interestingly, they still share a warm and friendly bond. Similarly, Mohanlal also maintains a friendship with Kaniha's new husband,” notes film critic and founder of Fullpicture.in, Neelima Menon.

Spirit is an exception, points out an advocate based in Thiruvananthapuram. “In a conservative society, a commercial medium may not venture outside what sells. Divorce rates have increased and we also have some high profile ones (in recent times). It may be becoming normalised, but the time has not yet come when it is seen as an adult decision after which both parties can walk away."

These films are still few and far between, but you can see writers and filmmakers becoming more sensitive to the idea of divorce or a separation, and respecting an individual’s choice without judging them to pieces.

Perhaps this viral bit of internet wisdom, which prioritises justice in a marriage over its longevity, sums it up best:

Q: “Most marriages are not working nowadays. What is it that we are doing that our grandparents didn’t do?”

A: Daughters didn’t inherit the silence of their mothers. My generation is mastering the art of leaving, letting go.

Hopefully, filmmakers will catch up with the generation that is willing to break their silence and move on.

If what Karthik said hurt her that much, it is not wrong for Naira to move on. (It is other thing that she cudnot give quality time to him when he's awake) Except her mistake that she has no intention to inform his child's presence to him and also hiding her being alive and her existence from her own family. What did they do to bear that pain?

But this is all about their love story and they wud reunite in the end no matter how toxic their relationship is. Why did they even bring this track?

Instead of trying to show them as soulmates which Kaira are really not, i wish they show them having Kairav's custody shared and not try to use him to reunite them. They can be cordial and even friends but no more a couple.

But they'll reunite them (sice they r soulmates, how? They can't understand eachother)so from now on show them as mature, understanding couple. Small fights over daily life are ok, but not these large misunderstandings.

Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh

+_+

They are trying their best to milk him to force kaira together but we all are rolling our eyes because he is so annoying

Suwarna calling kartik krishna ...naira radha and vedika rukmani was sick to me like no religious offence to anyone but +_+ its disgusting to watch...Kartik knew full well he would never get it up for vedika but married her and ruined his life...for the goenkas they were more important to him than a girl who was innocent full well ...Naira allowed all of this to happen so she must not sit there and weep or blame kartik +_+ she must also go to hell she and kartik are awful people

they some what deserve each other and dadi +_+

Kartik uses vedika to hurt naira...

Naira +_+ acts like a devi on earth but causes her own problems

and the fam is plain downright ridiculous

Agree even after her frnd forcing her to go atleast for kairav, she went and still thought only for herself that he agreed for Vedika and returned. She is selfish. She didn't think then for Kairav nor for Karthik and now crying buckets as if she wanted to unite with him but he moved on.

It maddens me that everyone only sees Naira's pain not Karthik's. They conveniently forgot his 5 yrs pain. Just bcos it is he whom they married off and showed with other person, not Naira.

Coming to Dadi, not once she repented her decision to force marry off Karthik again now that she knows Naira is alive. It is all Naira's mistake for her.

Originally posted by: TeenRose1

Agree even after her frnd forcing her to go atleast for kairav, she went and still thought only for herself that he agreed for Vedika and returned. She is selfish. She didn't think then for Kairav nor for Karthik and now crying buckets as if she wanted to unite with him but he moved on.

It maddens me that everyone only sees Naira's pain not Karthik's. They conveniently forgot his 5 yrs pain. Just bcos it is he whom they married off and showed with other person, not Naira.

Coming to Dadi, not once she repented her decision to force marry off Karthik again now that she knows Naira is alive. It is all Naira's mistake for her.

@bold brown -

I had all the sympathise for kartik..but the day for the surgery...he kept taunting her. And if i were at the place of naira... i would have left. There is a whole khandan who has taken care of kartik including singhanias.... i havent seen one person happy when naira was back...this is not how you react when your daughter comes home....you hug her first and then give a tight slap. No one has ever took a stand for her... i also had my all sympathies for kartik till the timw i saw behaviour of goenkas towards vedika. Naira did one mistake of running away... fine ..she should be punished but in every single track whether its nairas fault or not kartik has been played the victim...

And when swrna can be forgiven for lying to the faces of everyone for 20 years ...then why cannot naira.. also i see kartiks pain but he was off for me from the moment he taunted a mother whoese child is having a heary surgery. No matter how much anger...no matter what that was awful.

Also he is getting everyone sympathy already no....one. not single person has taunted him...for asking that question. Thus the reactions of people.

Ps - I am not justifying any character but they both were wrong...and one persons wrong and other persons bada wala wrong cannot cancel each other out.

Originally posted by: TeenRose1

This! I watch only for him. Hoping they wud give more scenes to him.

Yes! I want scenes between Kartik-Kairav-Vansh. Cvs should stop the crying and ugly fights for a while. It’s been three months already.