What is Naira supposed to do???

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Posted: 6 years ago
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So what is naira supposed to do....????

For giving kartik right of a father shud she leave her little child with kartik and new vedica mamma and go away.... That's all you guys want bcoz kartik has already said vedica is his wife.... Kartiks mahaan family want only kartik and kairav with vedica.... So shud naira commit suicide?????

Bcoz al mother can't leave without her child whom she has kept in her womb for nine months... Brought him up... Shud she leave kairav to the selfish goenkas???? Is all fault only naira's.... And kartik pure as angel.... If he loves naira so much... Why THE HELL DID HE AGREE TO MARRY AGAIN???... Is he a kid to marry under pressure?????💔😖....

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Posted: 6 years ago
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There's a concept known as joint custody and co-parenting where the kid stays with both his parents on days allocated by the court.

A pretty common concept in the West, maybe not so much in India if people are still asking the question you just asked.

You don't always have to be married or stay together to raise a child.

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Originally posted by: Fari_15

There's a concept known as joint custody and co-parenting where the kid stays with both his parents on days allocated by the court.

A pretty common concept in the West, maybe not so much in India if people are still asking the question you just asked.

You don't always have to be married or stay together to raise a child.

Naira is alone..... No one to support her.... And kartik has pura vansh.... Do you think naira can get joint custody.... Seeing how evil is dadi and how easily she manipulates her kittu.... They will never even allow to come naira close to kairav.... May be they will get a restraining order against naira.... I very well know about joint custody.... But here it is difficult... Bcoz everywhere money and power speaks.... I hope you are aware of that.... Here naira is weak with no support... Even her own family support kartik...

So case is difficult.....

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: arooshee

Naira is alone..... No one to support her.... And kartik has pura vansh.... Do you think naira can get joint custody.... Seeing how evil is dadi and how easily she manipulates her kittu.... They will never even allow to come naira close to kairav.... May be they will get a restraining order against naira.... I very well know about joint custody.... But here it is difficult... Bcoz everywhere money and power speaks.... I hope you are aware of that.... Here naira is weak with no support... Even her own family support kartik...

So case is difficult.....

Yea you are right. However, right now no one has mentioned custody and taking Kairav away from Naira. Even Naira herself hasn’t thought about the family demanding for custody.

In the future, if it comes to that, running away is still not the solution because that would just provoke Kartik and the entire family. They can always show Kaira having a mature discussion about sharing joint custody. Kartik is well aware of Kairav’s attachment with Naira and how he wants both his parents, not just his father.

Even if Dadi suggests full custody, it can be expected that he would oppose her decision, however, that’s only possible if Naira choses to confront the situation this time rather than running away like she always does.

It’s a very hypothetical discussion because right now Naira would be entering the Goenka Villa along with Kairav. Let’s see how the study proceeds.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fari_15

Yea you are right. However, right now no one has mentioned custody and taking Kairav away from Naira. Even Naira herself hasn’t thought about the family demanding for custody.

In the future, if it comes to that, running away is still not the solution because that would just provoke Kartik and the entire family. They can always show Kaira having a mature discussion about sharing joint custody. Kartik is well aware of Kairav’s attachment with Naira and how he wants both his parents, not just his father.

Even if Dadi suggests full custody, it can be expected that he would oppose her decision, however, that’s only possible if Naira choses to confront the situation this time rather than running away like she always does.

It’s a very hypothetical discussion because right now Naira would be entering the Goenka Villa along with Kairav. Let’s see how the study proceeds.

Naira moving into the Goenka home after 5 years of separation is a really bad idea and not a good move on her part if there is a custody battle. She has to establish her own home and show she can provide for her child. Her best bet would be to establish her relationship with the Singhania's and have their support to make her case strong. Just because Karthik says he wants Kairav to come live in his home doesn't mean he gets to dictate what Naira does. She has to let go of emotions and think smart with her head what is best possible for her and Kairav's future. She can't let her emotions for Karthik rule her brain. She can try to live with Singhania's and if Karthik wants to maintain a relationship with Kairav then visit them at their home. (otherwise Suhasini will do her manipulations)

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Posted: 6 years ago
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She is suppose to do whatever she wants to...but not by running away or deviating from laws...she must not stay around so called family...Singhanias....It would be great if she gives Kairav's custody to Kartik and than leave for Goa....Her running away with Kairav will have as bad circumstances as her running away after being considered dead by her family...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

She is suppose to do whatever she wants to...but not by running away or deviating from laws...she must not stay around so called family...Singhanias....It would be great if she gives Kairav's custody to Kartik and than leave for Goa....Her running away with Kairav will have as bad circumstances as her running away after being considered dead by her family...


She needs to get a lawyer ASAP to protect herself and then she has three options. If she really doesn't have support of her family go to one of those women run NGO's and they will support her.

1) Give up custody completely. 2) File for primary custody (Kairav lives with her) and Karthik gets visitation 3) File for joint custody where Kairav lives with each parent based on a schedule.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Naira is a selfish women! She runs away and does not think of what it will do to the family! She made everyone suffer for no fault of theirs. Yes kartik made a mistake but she could have divorced him! Why pretend she is dead and take his son away! And why make her father, brother and her family suffer. And even now she wants to leave with her son. She thinks she is being kind to vedika. But what about kartik? He has just as much right on his child as she does. He was right in his anger. He made a mistake by doubting her but what she did was selfish and unforgivable!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Naira is a selfish women! She runs away and does not think of what it will do to the family! She made everyone suffer for no fault of theirs. Yes kartik made a mistake but she could have divorced him! Why pretend she is dead and take his son away! And why make her father, brother and her family suffer. And even now she wants to leave with her son. She thinks she is being kind to vedika. But what about kartik? He has just as much right on his child as she does. He was right in his anger. He made a mistake by doubting her but what she did was selfish and unforgivable!

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Writer's want us to have sympathy for her because she is portrayed as bechari victim. I disagree with this as she is facing the consequences of her own actions. She does what she wants but is not able to face consequences of her actions.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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But will Naira get the custody at all🤔🤔 Given that she ran away and didn’t even inform her family about Kairav’s existence.. Again if she does not reconciles with Singhaniyas, she is at least right now not financially stable. The only card perhaps she can use her card of being accused of infidelity, but then will it really work in her favour 🤔 Right now Naira’s case seems to be really weak. Goenka can end up taking all custody rights and they might not even need to manipulate.🙄

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