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Posted: 7 years ago
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I just need to get this off my chest!!!!!!

I know Naira is wrong in hiding about the illness. But I do understand where she is coming from and I don't hate her. I am not saying that her decision is right but I am not expecting her to be making any sane decisions given that she found out a few hours ago that she is going to die(probably). That kind of shit messes people up and they sometimes become self-destructive. She is not thinking clearly and the only thing she is focusing on is how to protect Kartik and her family from the agony that is heading their way.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Will kartik never know she died?
When he finds out unexpectedly after living in america naira died how hurt will he feel that those last 3-6 months she had left he left her and was living in america...
I think the reason why kartik has issues is because everyone hides things from him...
His father never told him the truth about his mothers death to somehow ensure it doesnt affect him
Naira lies all the time to make him happy
But have they not noticed there is a reason he hates lies it makes him miserable...
Why does everyone else decide what makes him happy be it suwarna thinking aashi would make him happy
does his own opinion and choice not matter at all?
before i go more off point let me go back to my main point there is far more pain in not knowing than there is in knowing something is coming and being prepared for it...
sudden deaths are heart breaking shocking...how will he feel knowing the last time he saw u he was possibly angry with u and said something (i am assuming cvs will make him say something like this at some point) i wish i never met u...and then all of a sudden hearing she died...

Naira thinks shes doing whats best for him but as he repetitively told her that whatever she thinks is not always right
She learned nothing from shubham...

I get shes shocked and everything but honestly so easily ditch him at the alter eat kachoris and calmly tell him we should stay apart

what if while he was looking for u he got knocked or something?

I think its utterly idiotic that she thinks that by pushing him away hel feel better about it when she dies...coz when she dies... ( just saying we all know she wont die)
but if he never knews it wid destroy him...
I am pretty sure
he will be suicidal...
Like kartik can take everything but i think if he just suddenly found out she died after being mean to her hel kill himself ...
He wouldnt be able to deal with the guilt ...her mahaanta comes with...



one plus point someone pointed out i also want to point out that maybe this track will be suwarna now being able to understand what naira went through...god i hope she hides it and kartik finds out and blames her left right and center and throws her out of goenka house
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh

Will kartik never know she died?

When he finds out unexpectedly after living in america naira died how hurt will he feel that those last 3-6 months she had left he left her and was living in america...
I think the reason why kartik has issues is because everyone hides things from him...
His father never told him the truth about his mothers death to somehow ensure it doesnt affect him
Naira lies all the time to make him happy
But have they not noticed there is a reason he hates lies it makes him miserable...
before i go more off point let me go back to my main point there is far more pain in not knowing than there is in knowing something is coming and being prepared for it...
sudden deaths are heart breaking shocking...how will he feel knowing the last time he saw u he was possibly angry with u and said something (i am assuming cvs will make him say something like this at some point) i wish i never met u...and then all of a sudden hearing she died...

Naira thinks shes doing whats best for him but as he repetitively told her that whatever she thinks is not always right
She learned nothing from shubham...

I get shes shocked and everything but honestly so easily ditch him at the alter eat kachoris and calmly tell him we should stay apart

what if while he was looking for u he got knocked or something?

I think its utterly idiotic that she thinks that by pushing him away hel feel better about it when she dies...coz when she dies...i fell if he never knows ( just saying we all know she wont die) but if he never knows it will destroy him...
I am pretty sure
he will be suicidal...
Like kartik can take everything but i think if he just suddenly found out she died after being mean to her hel kill himself ...
He wouldnt be able to deal with the guilt ...her mahaanta comes with...

one plus point someone pointed out i also want to point out that maybe this track will be suwarna now being able to understand what naira went through...god i hope she hides it and kartik finds out and blames her left right and center and throws her out of goenka house


I agree with you, Anya. I never said that her decision is right. All I am saying is that she is not in the right state of mind to make informed decisions. So, I am not going to hold it against her.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hiding the reason from Karthik itself is wrong.

I don't understand why does CV's always feels that true love is proved when the female lead decides to hide her agony and illness and tries to create hate in the male lead for them.


This thoughts does more harm than the truth as it means playing with lives.


The man might start an affair with another girl to make the FL jealous but when they get to know the truth they dump the other girl as they realize they were not in love with her or the ML submerges themselves in guilt for no reason and the other girl suffers.


In order to show FL as great , I feel they are the main vamps in such situations.


The best way to portray is tell the truth and then allow the person to take their own decision whether they want to be your strength or walk out of your life.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Lol i love ranting about it 🤣
As for the right frame of mind i wana see how suwarna deals with it...
i want naitik to blame her and kartik

the same way she was behaving for shubham i want naitik to rip her apart and then afterwards i want kartik to go hulk on her neck vein bulging and tell her naira was not in the right frame of mind how could u support her and let her do this!!!!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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While keerti can go to naira's funeral and look at her dead body accusingly as well
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Secondly, she hid it from Karthik as her brain is not working right and she feels Karthik would never get to know as he will leave for US but WHAT ABOUT FAMILY ?

What was the point in hiding the truth from them coz eventually they only will have to take care of her .


By hiding the facts she is SLAPPING on their face to be always standing with her like a ROCK in all her decisions.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

Hiding the reason from Karthik itself is wrong.

I don't understand why does CV's always feels that true love is proved when the female lead decides to hide her agony and illness and tries to create hate in the male lead for them.


This thoughts does more harm than the truth as it means playing with lives.


The man might start an affair with another girl to make the FL jealous but when they get to know the truth they dump the other girl as they realize they were not in love with her or the ML submerges themselves in guilt for no reason and the other girl suffers.


In order to show FL as great , I feel they are the main vamps in such situations.


The best way to portray is tell the truth and then allow the person to take their own decision whether they want to be your strength or walk out of your life.


This is the age old formula for Indian TV to make shows work.

ML treats all the girls in the world(and sometimes people in general) like shit because they "don't know better" so it gives them the right to take everyone for granted. And then one day they find that one girl who deserves to be treated as a human with respect. And voila, you have a transformed soul!!

FL who would be shown as the smartest person in the world but making the dumbest decisions just to bag the mahaan aatma award. Logic, sensibility, character arc, everything thrown out of the window just to show that she is oh so selfless!!! Why take the easy path and say the truth when you can go the twisted, illogical route and be tyaag ki Devi!!!

Despite all of this, all I am trying to say here is a person who just found that she is about to die is bound to make wrong decisions(most of the times). If you have seen Iron Man 2, that is basically half of the plot. Stark finds out he might die soon, hides it from Pepper and then goes on a downward spiral. Death is a lot to process and takes time. I know since this is an Indian TV show, I can't expect Naira to take a few days and sort her head out and then change her decision. But for now, I am not blaming her for not making the right decision.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mauli09


This is the age old formula for Indian TV to make shows work.

ML treats all the girls in the world(and sometimes people in general) like shit because they "don't know better" so it gives them the right to take everyone for granted. And then one day they find that one girl who deserves to be treated as a human with respect. And voila, you have a transformed soul!!

FL who would be shown as the smartest person in the world but making the dumbest decisions just to bag the mahaan aatma award. Logic, sensibility, character arc, everything thrown out of the window just to show that she is oh so selfless!!! Why take the easy path and say the truth when you can go the twisted, illogical route and be tyaag ki Devi!!!

Despite all of this, all I am trying to say here is a person who just found that she is about to die is bound to make wrong decisions(most of the times). If you have seen Iron Man 2, that is basically half of the plot. Stark finds out he might die soon, hides it from Pepper and then goes on a downward spiral. Death is a lot to process and takes time. I know since this is an Indian TV show, I can't expect Naira to take a few days and sort her head out and then change her decision. But for now, I am not blaming her for not making the right decision.



Yes ! This is the age old formula of all TV serials but then this is YRKKH in which they have always moved ahead without using the tricks of every serial.


YRKKH has always followed realistic approach and I expect it this time too.

I agree with you on the fact that one goes blank after getting tk know about a terminal illness but looking at Precap says YRKKH is turning towards age old methods used by every serial.


In fact all of KaiRa problems are being shown in the same way S it's being done in other serials. With KaiRa although Rajshri Productions were successful in making new generation work but it has lost its uniqueness for sure.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with your point, Naira may have been shocked upon knowing about her illness and that's why this stupidity. But I still don't believe hiding it from family or even Karthik will bring any happiness to them. Instead she should prepare them for what's in store and also they would support her at this time irrespective of whether she makes it or not (we all know she'll make it). But at least they'll be at peace that they have tried to move mountains but god's Grace wasn't with them. There won't be any regret.
If we look at Shubham's death and how post incidents unfolded, more than him, his family has suffered. It took a toll on Kaira's relationship, Swarna's mental health, Karthik & Naira were miserable without each other, Keesh's relationship, Singhanias-Goenkas drifted apart, Luv-Kush were packed off to some boarding school, Surekha-Akhilesh had to compromise on their kids happiness. Now both the families will be pushed to the same point but for a different person. One person's stupidity, will bring endless pain & agony to both families. Naira should consider families's reaction to her death news and should be realistic in her expectations from Karthik & others too. He's not a robot to reformat the disk, erase memories and start off with clean slate.
Precap is giving me more chills, now that Naira & Swarna have teamed up to redesign Karthik's life & erase memories from his heart. Don't you think it's heights of idiocy by these 2 ladies to continue to play God in his life ? Only fault of Karthik was that he loved one madly & trusted the other one blindly. God save this man!! And us too. Becoz no matter what happens to Kaira, we'll still watch for Shivin.

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