Is Suvarna really responsible for Karthik and Nairas separation ?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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After Shubham's death , Suvarna was broken. She started hating Naira as she feels Naira is responsible for her son's death, but is she the real reason behind Karthik and Nairas broken relationship.

I don't think so.


The only 2 people who needs to be blamed for this broken ties is Karthik and Naira themselves.


Karthik could have kept a distance from Naira for sometime but secretly could have spoken to her. They could have fought and sorted their differences but instead they decided to part after 2 meetings. Then in Mumbai also - They never - ever did sit and tried to sort their differences. They got innumerable chances to talk to each other but every time they either kept quiet or fought with each other. Each fight escalating the previous one.


Suvarna hates Naira and so she doesn't try to make amends between the 2. Yes ! She gets upset when Karthik gets close to Naira but if Karthik takes a firm stand , she would just be broken and nothing else .. Secondly, she never did ask Karthik and Naira to take divorce, even before she started looking for options , it was Naira who decided to take that extreme step.


It's up to Karthik and Naira , how much do they want others to influence their relationship. Such problems would keep arriving and so if they keep giving importance to every other opinion , they can never lead a happy life.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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If Suwarna didn't cut her calls and deleted his call logs or voice notes 2.5 years back ...let them communicate that time...or let Naitik communicate with Karthik that time...

If she didn't scratch same wound every single moment...if she looked beyond her hatred for Naira...if she was able to see her own set of flaws...her son son cried in her lap a day before his death...but she stayed ignorant...she was feeling something bad is going to happen but she stayed ignorant...she herself chose path of destruction for her two so called sons...one she abandoned when he was born...than pacified him by never showing him right path...concealed his flaws...gave him lolipop Suhana...than witnessed his destruction...but never tried to get close to him...to listen to him...she never saw Karthik's pain either...

If Suwarna didn't emotionally blackmailed Karthik and called her step son..."tum mere bete nahi ho Karthik"...If she didn't lie that she has no problem with Karthik and Naira being together...if she didn't burden him with the debt and make him remind what she did for him...

If she spoke up knowing why Naira is divorcing Karthik...


If she woke up from her slumber on knowing her second son also became addict...alcohol addict...instead of justifying his actions that Naira gave him pain...she understood how her hatred for Naira is taking away everyone's peace...


If she didn't blame Naira repeatedly on knowing Karthik is an alcohol addict...she had simply no effect on bring revealed about Karthik's addiction as she got chance to blame Naira more...she breathes by blaming Naira only...

Story would have been different...


call me biased Suwarna hater...but Suwarna's role and her hatred...her not being true to herself...her being the failure mother and selfish VAMP can never be overlooked...her fears of seeing Karthik and Naira together can never be overlooked...Karthik are Naira are majorly responsible for whatever happened with them...but one person knew...what they are going through but stayed ignorant...she want to believe that Karthik hates Naira...can do anything to believe her delusion...


Choosing Naira means giving up on MKD...giving up on step mother who abandoned her son for him...giving up on mentally sick patient...he already lost his mother because she was mentally sick and committed suicide...he can't give up on her...but at the same time he failed as a husband...the way she failed as mother...he held same belief that she killed Shubham...he repeatedly chanted "I hate u"...how can any person consider Naira responsible for Shubham's death?...how can he forget she forgave his sister?...how can he blame her for moving on?...best way was to get his mother treated...but he himself needed to trust Naira...which he didn't...he didn't trust her...he behaved as if she hide truth of making Shubham drug addict herself...if she had ulterior motive behind making Shubham drug addict...
Edited by CaptiveFreedom - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Swarna is to blame. She is the biggest catalyst and reason for naira deciding that divorce is the only solution when swarna was never going to forgive her and she heard karthik say to swarna that he chooses her over naira.

Naira thought that after two years of waiting and putting up with accusations, there was no scope of her being forgiven and taken back by karthik because of swarna's ego and hatred, and because karthik failed to stand up to swarna to fight with her for what he really wanted, which was to have naira back in his life.

Even if naira hadn't given the divorce, all she would be able to do then was either keep waiting like she had been for swarna's forgiveness or for karthik to speak to swarna, which given his behavior he wasn't going to, or keep grovelling and begging karthik-swarna to listen to her side of the story, which they wouldn't have as they would not even let her get a word in by continuously screaming at her and accusing her.

So regardless of whether naira was the one to give the divorce papers first, it doesn't change the fact that kaira getting back together would only be possible if either karthik stood up for his wife and put his foot down to get naira back in the house, or if swarna just got the hell over shubham's death and forgave naira, or if one of the goenka's finally had enough and just brought naira back in the house by standing up to swarna.

Naira is the one constantly being accused without being given a chance to speak, naira was the one slapped and thrown out of her house, naira was the one whose husband gave up on her by not contacting her once, and she was the one who was heartbroken and disappointed at her in-laws and husband failing to trust her or understand. For this reason, it was karthik's responsibility as a husband to stand up for naira and not let his mother take the decision that naira isn't allowed back in her husband's house or life, it was swarna's responsibility to give her daughter-in-law a chance to explain her side of the story and to try to patch her son and DIL up instead of ordering and/or emotionally blackmailing her son to stay away from his wife. It was also the responsibility of the other goenka's to ignore swarna's unreasonable behaviour and get naira back in the house.

The solution wouldn't be as simple as naira deciding she wants to get back to karthik and begging him to take her back after the way he has treated her, because she has been wronged by karthik, and by begging him to take her back and forgive her, he would never realise where he has wronged her, also karthik would not take her back because of swarna, and swarna wouldn't forgive her. So naira isn't the cause of their divorce/ separation, and neither is she a hindrance in their reunion. It is karthik's spineless and cowardly attitude as well as his inability to listen to naira and hear her out, as well as swarna's selfish attitude that is stopping kaira from getting back together whether naira decided to divorce karthik or not, or whether she decided she wanted to get back with him or not.

Karthik and the goenka's have given all the leverage to determine the future of kaira's relationship to swarna, because they are too cowardly to stand up to her and her maa-ka-dard emotional blackmailing behaviour. That's why karthik silently let his realtionship with naira fall apart just to please maa-ka-dard, and goenka's are too sympathetic towards maa-ka-dard to go against her to save kaira relationship.
Edited by sammy17 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Kartik feels sorry for her ...
she gave up shubham for him...
SO he gave up naira for her...
she repeatedly told him theres no place for naira in their house...

Everyone pointed out he only thinks what suwarna wants him too

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Suwarna tells him things like how could u betray ur mother by meeting naira
acts like his gf
stalks his life...


kartik never meets her eyes
he looks uncomfortable around her

that hosp scene when he finds out shes sick he lost it
he was terrified she would die and it would be all his fault for being weak
and meeting naira...
seeing naira
loving naira...

if suwarna died everyone would be happy
Manish could get a new wife
one who actually knows how to be a mom and stops being a gf

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