A used to abuse Ekta heroine in Making

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Posted: 7 years ago
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The cursed entry of Rajshree and her partnership with holier than thou Keerti Goyenka killed the remaining reason from the show. Wanted Kiara as the end game but with dignity restored post Karthik's redemption) But alas the makers were so engaged in showing Relationship do s and don'ts that they forgot their own plot.
Their convenient amnesia faded the constant humiliations from Karthik and his family, I thought Manish would taunt/blast at least Suwrana if not Karthik but it never happened. And rather always innocent and wronged Kittu was showered love and care by both the clans.👏 Because Naira's constant objectification by Dadi Suwarna, Karthik Rajshree and Keerti was not regressive enough. Keerti was mean and bizarre because Naira said no to abuse and did not let it reach where Karthik would hit Niara with a vase like Aditya.🥱

Was Kaira so important that human values lost their substance? Why could not they show a guilt free niara post divorce?Why couldn't Niara's family stop accusing herfor this divorce? Why did not a single character remember the actual cause of divorce and the ill treatment meted out to Naira by Kartik and Suwrana and even dadi in her selfish hypocrisy ?


It illogically it got projected as 'fault of them both' ( did they develop the plot in a way to make it fault of them both? The show taht I watched had just Karthik who was chartering domestic abuse and psychological violence) They had to show Naira humiliating Karthik and his family to make it appear their joint fault')

Why couldn't Naksh shout his sister never deserved the insults harrowed by her husband and family! She is pained is a different story AL together as it was once upon a time good relationship so its bound to cause pain but nowhere does that mean to tolerate present abuse for a good past.

Naira, guilt stricken for divorcing Karthik?? (for all the right reasons) what message do they wanna impart? Naira is the arrogant guilty who deserves to seek apologies for she refused to tolerate abuse and left him and who never realized his follies sand rather continued with his aggressive humiliation sessions.

For a change they could have shown Nayi soch by showing Naira strong. could have shown her pain after divorce! Her inner and social struggle. But could have made her firm and vocal that she did the right thing the way she said on video call to Singhaniyas that there was no hope in her relationship and Karthik himself told her so! Seeing a guilty Niara was really orthodox! This was not the Niara I loved, nor this was the show I have been an ardent fan of.

Will Niara ever assert that she did the right thing after she emerges out from this shock that it has ended and she gets time off her family circus. And rise to shine sooner and stronger?

For me the dignity of relationship is much more important than merely being together, one compromising her self esteem and another oblivious to it floating in his own delusional glory and playing himself a god beyond accusations or redemption requirements. .

Seems Suwarna opened a school for psychopaths (after mastering the art of Psychosis)
Karthik was the first to take admission and became her favorite pupil.
Nani and Keerti too joined the other branches of this school.

Now Naira who was feeling left out' too yearns to take admission in Suwarna's school. So she is practicing the ingredients of stereotypical Ekta heroine as the prerequisite to get admission as Suwarna's next psychopath she will have to quit membership of Rajan Shahi's positive and rationale school.

She has started her practice and first thing she is rehearsing is 'Stalking'' which you wud get to witness in Monday's episode.

All the best to Naira and the best of sanity to the loyal viewers.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Completely agree! I don't want KaIra on the sacrifice of self respect of Naira. I felt disgusted when everything blamed Naira too including herself. I don't know why CVs are trying to show that relationship is above all the abuses and insults. Hypocrisy in Goenkas' genes and even Keerti isn't out of it. Apna abuse abuse tha aur jo bhai kar raha wo pyaar. She divorced toh that was great thing and Naira divorced toh kitna bada gunaah kar diya usne. Mujhe kuch nhi kehna on CVs foolish thought.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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They have shown that for a marriage to be successful the woman has to make all the compromises and sacrifices and if there are problems the woman will get all the blame.

I wish instead Singhania's were supportive of Naira moving forward in her life instead of showing anger towards her. Help her move forward without Karthik. Be proactive in diverting her mind. Take her away from this place for awhile so she gets a change and doesn't keep bumping into him.
Edited by rose2015 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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CVs wants to increase the number of episodes so that's why they keep stretching this track.
All of a sudden both families started blaming Naira for a divorce.
Naira should also tell her family that Suwarna is reason for their divorce. Naira should also give her family members the speech she gave to her classmates in freshers party in Mumbai that marriage doesn't define a person. Naira should tell them that as family if they can't understand and support her decision than they don't have a right to question her decision. At the end if the day it's her life she can do whatever she wants. Her family is dumb for not being able to figure out the real problem is Suwarna and Kartik's blame game.
Edited by kinjal812 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I completely agree. I feel this time we are gonna get Kaira at the cost of Naira's self respect...which doesn't exist for makers. N they are making it non existent for Naira as well. 😡
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Posted: 7 years ago
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i agree but i get naira as well
She always does the right thing (which kartik finds annoying and endearing(only in the beg when she was helping phungi) he has pointed out in her need to do the right thing she hurts alot of people...JKG track before the shiv parvati wedding, also during the ragav track she chose a friend over her whole family, basically... or the whole strike where he told her in that in her mahaanta ka chakar watch out she doesnt destroy someone's life)
But sometimes the 'right thing' for you can be wrong and you only realize it when its done.
She asked god to make her strong. But was unprepared for the consequences. Sure logic doesnt follow in here where we all think this guy was an asshole to u...but for naira she loves him so much she doesnt care if he hates her or loves her as long as they had that rship.

I preferred her when they first showed her in the leap when she would slyly taunt him for not listening to her and say wahts the point of saying anything when no one listens...they should have kept her like that to me. Silent it would have drove him nuts.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yourway

I completely agree. I feel this time we are gonna get Kaira at the cost of Naira's self respect...which doesn't exist for makers. N they are making it non existent for Naira as well. 😡


What could be more disgraceful for the loyal viewers than to watch its iconic strong lead falling prey to self pity and compromising her dignity and self respect for 'love' which is nothing but sheer abuse in the other side. 🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh

i agree but i get naira as well

She always does the right thing (which kartik finds annoying and endearing(only in the beg when she was helping phungi) he has pointed out in her need to do the right thing she hurts alot of people...JKG track before the shiv parvati wedding, also during the ragav track she chose a friend over her whole family, basically... or the whole strike where he told her in that in her mahaanta ka chakar watch out she doesnt destroy someone's life)
But sometimes the 'right thing' for you can be wrong and you only realize it when its done.
She asked god to make her strong. But was unprepared for the consequences. Sure logic doesnt follow in here where we all think this guy was an asshole to u...but for naira she loves him so much she doesnt care if he hates her or loves her as long as they had that rship.

I preferred her when they first showed her in the leap when she would slyly taunt him for not listening to her and say wahts the point of saying anything when no one listens...they should have kept her like that to me. Silent it would have drove him nuts.


Me too preferred a silent Naira over this self pitying obsessive lover /stalker of Karthik. That silent treatment was actually working but then the dragon appeared and stabbed him straight at brain again.
Makers are doing the opposite to what we expect of them.

A jealous Niara.
A sobbing in misery Naira.
A blasted by family Niara.
The most pathetic coming soon, Loitering around his street...didn't we want to see Karthik loitering around her and she shunning him firmly!

I thought Devyani wud be with Niara in hospital and would blast Karthik after seeing him around Naira but phew it was a scared teeny veeney Naira and that selfish hypocrite Goyenka Dadi!

Cvz are so hell bent on decaying Niara's character. whats the point in wasting such a beautiful tune for such a pathetic 'fall'

I still hope one day they will make Naira assert for one and all that its she who is been wronged!
Makers really have a magic spell t make us hate a character in teh very spur of moment. .

I so love Devyani now a days but I do curse Rajshree (I so loved the character in Akshra Natik saga) and Keerti too sounds mean to me.
I think cvz do read forum rants and grant one wish out of lakes unread. Thats why they gave that Suwrana Keerti phone scene last night but Keerti character is already damaged when she partied with illogical Nani..
Ps- I am loving teh outfits Keerti is preparing for Nani. I hope the duo gets busy in themselves and don't annoy the viewers.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well problem here is divorce itself is considered wrong unless husband is abusive like Aditya...toxic relationship only means a husband would be verbally or physically abusing his wife...emotional/ psychological abuse by any of spouse is not taken into consideration...though it sucks out life of a person more like verbal or physical abuse...
A relationship where she know he has chosen his mother...she can't live in same house where his emotionally and mentally unstable mother is living...what would be better option?...after few months of mutual separation...she should have contacted him again to decide future of their relationship...asked for apology when she herself believed she was not the murderer...Naira's mistake was she delayed revelation of a sensitive matter...Shubham might have overdosed even after truth revelation infront of Goenka family...but human nature is...they think they can change destiny...which is wrong...destiny can't be changed...does that mean the murderers should be forgiven because destiny can't be changed?...NO...they should be punished for their deeds...but Naira was being punished...as if her deeds...her intentions were wrong...as if she was Shubham's guardian or she showed him wrong path...the base of Kaira's separation was lack of trust...but that matter wasn't about trust...it was about series of unfortunate events that led to Shubham's death...

I couldn't connect to Mansi repeating if she was forgiven than Naira should also be forgiven...Mansi hit Akshara with her car...Naira concealed a sensitive matter...both situations are different...Naira didn't confront Karthik before divorcing him or never told him about reason of divorce...that was somewhere wrong...maybe if she confronted him...only than he would woke up from slumber...and known his responsibility as a husband...he can't give up on their relationship only because his maa was dying...or she indirectly asked him to pay the debt...


Karthik's denial plays major role...his constant denial regarding his never ending love for Naira infront of Suwaarna mata is the sole reason of their separation...Naira is not in denial...she accepts that she loves him...she understood him when he chose his mother...she showed her disappointment as a lover or as wife...but at the same time...Naira wanted him to trust her words regarding Anmol and Ruku dadi...more than his own instincts...that was wrong move...the way Karthik treated Naira...blamed her or acted victim make him more responsible...though Naira also has her share of flaws...but not even 20% closer to Karthik flaws...woman should never ever leave her in-laws home...regardless of the situation...even if she is thrown out...Suwarna decided her boundaries not her husband...her husband only asked her to leave if she want to leave...he only said there is no trust, love or understanding left in their relationship...she replied him back...he lost his brother that time...she should have understood and never left him...even if she had to sacrifice her self respect every single day hearing u killed by brother or u killed my son...

After watching so in love stalker Naira I also think her decision of asking for divorce was wrong...if she couldn't live without him...than she should have confronted him regarding future of their relationship...
Edited by CaptiveFreedom - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Frankly I feel Akshara's death was a much bigger issue because Mansi hit Akshara with her car which led to her death.

Naira didn't do anything. Did she force drugs on Shubnam? No.

So what they are showing is complete bakwas.

I have already lost respect for Karthik and now I am starting to lose respect for Naira each time she falls into Karthik's arms. She has some serious balance issues that she keeps falling. It has become a joke now.

Even if they get back together I don't care anymore because in my eyes both of them don't have any sense. Naira is showing it more after the divorce. I wish Manish would send Karthik on some business trip abroad for awhile because I don't see them as a couple anymore. They never acted like husband/wife but more like teenage boyfriend/girlfriend. I would rather see Naira with a new guy if they want to save the show. Show less of the Goenka's. (Keep it to a minimum) Karthik is a loser (not a dream guy) and now they are making Naira one too. (which is disheartening)
Edited by rose2015 - 7 years ago

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