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sam189

@sam189

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: _charu_
I dun consider her as the strongest and finest..She may be disappointed or dissatisfied but at the end of the day if she can't do anything about it , and have a grip of her life , how.is she strong ? Yeah it takes a lot to forgive , that way naira is great..she still loves and respect the one who is causing so much suffering to her , that's our regular tvpur heroine..ye rishta yahi toh kehlata hai..itni gaaliyan deke aur sunke , nafrat leke how they still love and respect each other ...I won't credit anyone with any honour in yeh rishta as all of them had their "suvarna" moment , they are so used to living with each other like that..Naira did the same with akshara , she too didn't listen to her...Bhabhi ma acted the same way, kartik too, and now suvarna..No matter how much we rant, suvarna won't be considered also for redemption ..She will be forgiven in half a minute . Yeah there may be some heated dialogues that's it..You failed me blah blah..And we will have a very strong na-su bond coming up ..

@bold agreed 100% 👏 After all this, our tv naari is up bright and early next morning and cooks food for every one specially Suvarna 😛 When will our ideal bahus be like " dude you have not been with me as my husband and I deserve better than being pushed in an out of your house at your family's whim" and divorce? Per the TV mahaan bahu standards, we know this will happen that Kartik+suvarna will be forgiven in half a second. Kartik is already in good standing without even explaining himself. Naira is just like " i totally understand Kartik" and I am sitting here like 😕😕

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Yourway

@Yourway

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yeah both are facts . Anyways I don't think naira should be hating her , after all its just a passing emotion which suvarna is going through ..She is not scheming against naira, she wants her out of sight...But to me, naira is strong only for others (tanvi, her blast from the past friend , the orphans , her college friends etc) but never for herself . We have been debating on it for quite a while 😆 yeah this time she tried to be strong but that was before kartik reentered her life..Thereafter she was the same old naira. ..And I sincerely belive , one has to find happiness and contentment within , we want to see naira happy, till the time her happiness depends on others , she will never be happy ..Her life may revolve around kartik and suvarna but that's not the beginning and end , at least they can show that much..Ke she finds happiness without them too ! She is such a bright smart girl ..I really admired her post aksharas death, how she matured in a day ..Kya reverse gear laga diya..Kartik kartik rona dhona..When it's not her fault she must not waste a thought over it..Kartik will come to her if he loves her..She doesn't have to do favors to them , even divorce ..Let him decide let them do it..

@bold: Although I am still with Naira on this divorce thing but Oh, I so wish the CVs show the scenario you mentioned. Her finding happiness without the Goenkas. She herself trying to move on with her other family members. Her being totally indifferent to Kartik now. Naira finding happiness on her own would be something really positive and admirable they can show with this track. But alas, its all just wishful thinking I guess. CVs are just depending on showing both of them sulking and crying. I so wish they show Naira actually trying to be happy now. Enough of feeling sad because of people who don't treat you right.

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aishwarya12joys

@aishwarya12joys

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

This dialogue teared me up. The way naira said this, for one second I wanted to slap Swarna and put sense in her for doing this to naira. I really wanted Swarna to shower naira with love and affection I know it's not possible. The way naira said it even stone could have melted. How could anyone hate this girl and not melt towards her?. Swarna does not have a heart of stone, she has a heart harder than stone to not melt towards naira.

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rose2015

@rose2015

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

I agree Naira needs to find happiness within herself first and not from others. I was hoping that was what she was doing the last two years. As a woman you need to create your own happiness and fulfill your own dreams. You cannot expect someone else to be the sole source of happiness in your life.

Many women feel that they need to be in a relationship or marriage to be happy. This is wrong way of thinking. When you do settle down you don't lose your individual identity. You have to still give yourself some priority and take care of yourself first. ( not be all self sacrificing for others)

As far as Suwarna being a replacement as a mom in Naira's life that is wrong way of thinking. She is not even 1/100 of Akshara. MIL can't replace your mom. You can maintain good relation with her but she will always be your MIL.

I didn't like Naitik's attitude about the divorce. After all your daughter has been through what are your doing? The decision to divorce is for Naira/Karthik to decide. The family is just too interfering. Why is Naitik so after them getting back together after all she has gone through?

Leave it to fate. If they are meant to be together divorce papers alone will not separate them. Destiny will find a way to bring these two together.

Karthik told his mother that Naira has no place in his life. His actions has to match his words. You can't have it both ways. Either be a man and be honest with your mother. He has to learn to balance things between mother and wife. His life is a seesaw where the mother takes first priority. You have to maintain equal value to both relations. Actually when you get married you have to put your partner first before any other relations if you want to make your commitment to each other a priority.

Enough said. If Naira and Karthik have signed divorce papers then don't take it as a joke and say in your heart "I love you" to each other. Don't be crying and sad. Use your brain to make decisions and stick with it. You can't have it both ways and torture the audience. That would drive anyone crazy.

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 7 years ago

#15

@rose I think naitik was also angry at her for taking this step without consulting him..And it's justified too, is this a samsung mobile which you decide and gift as a surprise to your parents ? I don't get this assumption streak in every tvpur personality ..Nai batana hurt hoga nai batana ,bata nai saki, nai batana woh nai samjhenge , nai bataya time nai mila mauka nai mila, hasnt naira got enough of it already? And then cant she convince her loving dad? So impossible these people are..

Also, i agree with him that if naira took this decision for herself then nothing like it..But she is sacrificing kartik for suvarna ..Without consulting kartik . Its somewhat stupid on her part..i support her decision fully, aise bhi , because "I" want kartik to suffer..storywise it could be better. She could have informed him , made him feel more and more guilty , and told him that she cant allow them to kick her around..Phir hoti na baat..She is letting all the blame come on her..Why blame dadi? Dadi or anyone will think like that, naira or someone must have been vocal about what she went through in these 2 years ..And now what kartik told suvarna..

@the last para 👏

Edited by _charu_ - 7 years ago

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