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Posted: 7 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: _charu_


Why should he ? He,In full senses promised her that there won't be anything between him and naira ..Him lamenting for naira beyond this point will not make sense ...He has made his choice , the second time..Now he shouldn't be surprised why naira changed her surname...does it matter why he said this to suvarna today , under what circumstance ? Does it matter to them why naira hid the truth ? Does it matter to him why suvarna hate naira and he never tried to explain her or put up a fake smiling face for her ? So abhi divorce is the best step but please CVS make naitik and the singhanias including naksh kirti and naira blame goenkas as much as possible




But ain't keerti is goenka daughter as well , how Will she hate her own family 😆 though she is not a typical selfish goenka 😕 who thinks they owned the entire world, but yeah I wanted keerti to knock some senses down for suwarna coz at the moment she is the problem that happens for the both family.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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At the same time i cannot fault her. because we all saw how she felt seeing him that broken and vulnerable. She wants him to not have to be in pain. Naira will never hurt kartik she wants to help him and will always be like that. Sure he wont see it like that but its heartbreaking...Watching both of them like this so yes divorce is a good idea...( finally suvarna will get what she wants ) while both angels are utterly destroyed by her selfishness
I cannot fault him either for loving his mother. Which child does not love their mother.
Suvarna on the other hand is selfish. After everything kartik did for her, living in pain, barely even able to breath under her suffocation just so that she would not be in pain. threw him away why because he was near naira?
Because for a moment he felt weak? And wanted to be happy. I found suvarana extremely selfish firstly for calling him nothing to her. And secondly for behaving the way she did.
She does not love anyone as a mother. she loves the idea of a being a mother but not doing the actual work... making sacrifices etc..


@bold when parents are selfish...children take their own decisions..the way Karthik considered Manish and his family selfish...he lived away from them for his own sanity..than he made Singhanias his family...he never let KD affect him to this extend...this love that make him give in to Suwarna's selfishness is making him weaker and more vulnerable day by day..destroying him more and more...Karthik who can see selfishness..is unable to see it now...because he is still same Karthik who wants to have his mother...

I think in that situation he blamed manish for his mothers death it was different. despite once being close to him, he overlooked everything and hated manish...
In this situation he blamed naira...Considering how much he thinks she did for him...plus his anger with naira then it made his decision easy... To chose his mothers side over her...
Now that naira is in front of him. Even dow for the past two years he desperately tried to hate her and whatever he cannot stop himself from wanting her and loving her after seeing her.
Naira gives him peace.
He cannot lose his mother again. So even though she means so much to him, he will chose her over naira.
And i really dont see anything wrong in it.
Everyone loves their mothers

Everyone loves and should love their mother- but with Kartik it was different before so I would expect him to use some critical thinking around Suvarna's madness and possessiveness. He is a grown man capable of identifying possessiveness from love- she is smothering him. She did ignore her child and that was selfishness to the extreme- I do understand she did it with a purpose, but it seems her purpose was always a selfish one- earlier she rejected her child just to ensure that her own position in the Goenka household was safe; then she tried to get Kartik to call her mother again to experience motherhood vicariously; never told anyone about her child- what mother other than the very selfish one would do that- no mother even in the most desperate state would do that for a long time as she did; for all this she should be taken to task by the Goenka family and stripped of the title. The most extreme was her treatment of Naira who called her mother before Kartik did and brought them together.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Henriette


after todays episode i really dont want to see kartik pining for naira... he made the choice to be with his pagal mother after saying there is nothing between him and naira and never will be... there is no point in him dreaming and thinking about her... clearly you dont want her so shouldnt be dreaming about her.

and really want naira to fully move on now... and just like accept that kartik will always choose his mother over her... even with the 6 month court order (i know that is in a way to help rekindle their love) but it would be nice to see naira ignore him and be like im only doing this since the court ordered it... she should just stay away from the goenkas even though she has to live in their house


@red: Like how insensitive of him to say that, dude your sister killer her mother.. she has to live with that fact for her entire life.. she forgave your sister in one day. And he has the galls to ask her if she understands the pain? She lost her mother twice.. once when she left home.. and then your sister killed her mother in a freak accident. So yes she knows the pain.
What even?

And why shouldn't Naira believe that he will always choose his mother over her? Wasn't he the one who said I can't take Naira's name in front of Swarna?
Posted: 7 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: vellainsaan


@red: Like how insensitive of him to say that, dude your sister killer her mother.. she has to live with that fact for her entire life.. she forgave your sister in one day. And he has the galls to ask her if she understands the pain? She lost her mother twice.. once when she left home.. and then your sister killed her mother in a freak accident. So yes she knows the pain.
What even?

exactly... i was like what is he trying to do?? rub salt on her wounds 😕😕.. that was the most ridiculous thing that came out of his mouth... and if he did say that like turn your brain on now and think naira actually forgave your whole family for her mothers death... first she forgave mansi for doing the deed and then the rest of the family for trying to hide the fact... and here you are blaming her for something she didnt do at all????😕... found kartik to be really insensitive and pathetic in that scene

And why shouldn't Naira believe that he will always choose his mother over her? Wasn't he the one who said I can't take Naira's name in front of Swarna?

yeah thats why i just want her to accept it and be like to him go live with your mom... and he shouldnt be having dreams of naira or imagining her because he chose to cut her out of his life... his dreams and imaginations will not be justified... hes just going to come across as an idiot if he keeps dreaming about her after having decided to cut ties with her

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Posted: 7 years ago
#35

Seriously, all that pining for her, saying I love you in dreams was meaningful before he made it clear that he can't take Naira's name in front of his mother. Now it's just plain annoying. Neend mein yaad karo and usko dekho toh uski feelings ko garbage ke jaise treat karo.
Makers ruined whatever progress they had made after drinking and leg-injury conversations. Pathetic.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Yourway

I feel Kartik's love for his mother doesn't justify her failing as a husband to Naira. For me Kartik isn't the same Kartik anymore, the one who used to be very logical in his approach to what is right and wrong, even when his other family members were concerned. He loves his Dadi as well but in previous instances whenever Naira and Dadi were at loggerheads, he managed both sides sensibly. His love for Dadi didn't mean he was going to be against Naira. Then why now? Just because of his overdramatic mother?? I understand that but still that love doesn't justify his failure as a husband for me. I am actually angry at Kartik this time.


Very well said & completely agree!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: A HUGE FAN


Very well said & completely agree!


So that he can continue his life guilt free and play the victim card.. crying and drinking... kyun chali gayi mujhe chhod ke.. 🤔

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