Did Naira cross her line today ?

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: anu023
Naira is acting like an authoritative figure here.
In.our hindu families when we give donations to temple it is not for the temple or the priest but for the charity activities they conduct. The priest bashing and hindu ritual bashing by other religions and some extremely sickular people like naira in the society ignores the fact that we don't actually waste milk by doing abhishek. We dilute milk a lot before pouring it on the idol and that is very small amount, remaining milk is used to.make prasad that is distributed among devotees.
Ever heard of meals organised by temples for destitute and delinquent people? Ever heard of temple trusts running hospitals and schools and.employing 1000s of people ??
If u weren't busy doing hindu ritual.bashing u would have definitely seen it. What they showed in PK or what they showed in any other movies that.mocked our rituals is half baked knowledge of people from other religions making movies.

As it is goenkas are rich enough to do send goods to both temple and naira's ashram. Other than uttering pages and pages of dialogues about her suffering i haven't seen naira do.anything for ashram..it's always either singhaniya elders or goenka elders talking about sending things to ashram .also naira has no right to interfere in everybody's faith. If dadi believes in something let her believe. U are.independent enough to send gifts or food with ur money or ur husband's money .

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Tipsy11

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Yes she was wrong but her intentions were not wrong only her
Approach was

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Hi not a regular viewer of yrkkh but happen to see it yesterday,not commenting on Naira particularly,but rather than blaming the customs shouldn't we do something ourselves to improve the scenerio like to have a drainage system in Temples in shivling so that all the milk can be stored in one vessel and then it can be distributed into people as PRASAD. The temple I visit has planted plants in the area of Shivlinga so that plants get all the nourishment.

Secondly,I have a doubt why we always notice wastage when we are performing any religious rituals or customs or giving something to GOD, shouldn't it should be in our daily routine and everyday activities?

The people who are rich and affluent spend crores in their family wedding wasting a lot of resources like electrivcity,water and food to those people who are themselves rich, why not have a simple wedding and save the resources and give it to some poor or atleast send some food to them even if you are having grand celebration.

When food gets burnt most of the family throw it,why not give it to some animals or make a manure of it,why not arrange a lunch for poor as most of the family do it for Brahimns?

The intention that food shouldn't be wasted and helping people is the real religion is true for all the days in year shouldn't we practice it daily and lessen some of our never ending desires?

God doesn't need anything from us is true but even if we are minor and not having our own money don't we save our pocket money to bring gifts for our parents on their anniversary or birthdays?In time of need treating our parents as problem solver and rest of the days as affluent people not in need of anything isn't that morally wrong? If we have a budget of just 100 rs can't we distribute it in a way that both the parties get something?

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: incrediblycute
Hi not a regular viewer of yrkkh but happen to see it yesterday,not commenting on Naira particularly,but rather than blaming the customs shouldn't we do something ourselves to improve the scenerio like to have a drainage system in Temples in shivling so that all the milk can be stored in one vessel and then it can be distributed into people as PRASAD. The temple I visit has planted plants in the area of Shivlinga so that plants get all the nourishment.
Secondly,I have a doubt why we always notice wastage when we are performing any religious rituals or customs or giving something to GOD, shouldn't it should be in our daily routine and everyday activities?
The people who are rich and affluent spend crores in their family wedding wasting a lot of resources like electrivcity,water and food to those people who are themselves rich, why not have a simple wedding and save the resources and give it to some poor or atleast send some food to them even if you are having grand celebration.
When food gets burnt most of the family throw it,why not give it to some animals or make a manure of it,why not arrange a lunch for poor as most of the family do it for Brahimns?

The intention that food shouldn't be wasted and helping people is the real religion is true for all the days in year shouldn't we practice it daily and lessen some of our never ending desires?
God doesn't need anything from us is true but even if we are minor and not having our own money don't we save our pocket money to bring gifts for our parents on their anniversary or birthdays?In time of need treating our parents as problem solver and rest of the days as affluent people not in need of anything isn't that morally wrong? If we have a budget of just 100 rs can't we distribute it in a way that both the parties get something?

bold : it is already there. The theerth u get in the temple is the diluted milk, water, fruit juices poured on the idol. I saw when there was abhishek at home. My father transfers all the.milk and water approx 100 ml into another vessel as soon as puja is done. And left over thrown into the plant pots.

In the temples i visit, the milk poured on idols is collected in.several vessels. The part which is thicker is distributed as prasad, remaining poured into.plants. Almost all temples do that.only. That is what is writtern in.our scriptures too. It is considered sin to throw away all that water, milk. It is meant to be distributed among people.

Purple: for the last 10 years there are a few organizations collecting left over food( excess food) from wedding ceremonies , specially lunch items and distribute them among orphanages. We are nobody.to.dictate.people not to.celebrate wedding on.grand scale. Also, those people aren't happy wasting food either. That is how this.organization came up.

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incrediblycute

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Posted: 7 years ago

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@ anu023 I was not dictacting what to do or not rather I was saying that if we need change in the society then we have to be the torchbearer rather than expecting from others.

About the Prasad thing,it is followed in our home also and I am happy it is followed in other temples also.😃

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Charu

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Posted: 7 years ago

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A right message was sent in a wrong way to the masses..

One awareness on not wasting milk and chadawa is much more these days , I have seen community effort here...The temple in our neighbourhood has put up a sign board that milk should be donated separately and diluted milk should be offered (although I. Against that also, but it's a different matter..I can't change Anybody's faith so I don't argue ) ...The offerings and fruits are redistributed as prasad that very moment ..I can't say about the scenarios in small cities or villages .

Every year on the day of ashtami pooja(navratra) I feel so sad ...We make prasad poori and distribute it to poor girls , most of it is lying on the roads outside the temple , they just take the money with them..Because they are getting too much of food from everyone ...We donate them old clothes and shoes , they sell it and roam around like that..So the problem is both ways..It's a very very deep rooted problem and the solution isn't easy..

.But naira did bring a valid point about wastage of food and milk flowing in drains...she can do as much charity as she desire but her way of doing it is wrong..., it's wrong to force your thoughts on someone else ...I liked the use of word chaudrain..lol...However I wanna know who donates truck load of chadawa..Woh bhi 3...Yeah naira can actually help the needy by donating her designer clothes and jewellery because she never repeats them...Form trusts, build schools hospitals , orphanages, adopt children , teach the students in her acDemy for free..There arr many ways

The view of suhasini and manish are completely wrong here ..Just because they are rich they can donate as much chadawa..They are only showing off and it's a matter of pride and ego , not faith...They are promoting discrimination ..

Everyone is equal in the eyes of god , and by doing this you are insulting your god and not following your religion as this is not what our religion actually teaches us...

I wish the Cvs brought this up in a sensitive manner so that right message is sent across..Naira was so right but oblivious to everyone around her..Still I liked what she did..

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Posted: 7 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: incrediblycute
Hi not a regular viewer of yrkkh but happen to see it yesterday,not commenting on Naira particularly,but rather than blaming the customs shouldn't we do something ourselves to improve the scenerio like to have a drainage system in Temples in shivling so that all the milk can be stored in one vessel and then it can be distributed into people as PRASAD. The temple I visit has planted plants in the area of Shivlinga so that plants get all the nourishment.
Secondly,I have a doubt why we always notice wastage when we are performing any religious rituals or customs or giving something to GOD, shouldn't it should be in our daily routine and everyday activities?
The people who are rich and affluent spend crores in their family wedding wasting a lot of resources like electrivcity,water and food to those people who are themselves rich, why not have a simple wedding and save the resources and give it to some poor or atleast send some food to them even if you are having grand celebration.
When food gets burnt most of the family throw it,why not give it to some animals or make a manure of it,why not arrange a lunch for poor as most of the family do it for Brahimns?

The intention that food shouldn't be wasted and helping people is the real religion is true for all the days in year shouldn't we practice it daily and lessen some of our never ending desires?
God doesn't need anything from us is true but even if we are minor and not having our own money don't we save our pocket money to bring gifts for our parents on their anniversary or birthdays?In time of need treating our parents as problem solver and rest of the days as affluent people not in need of anything isn't that morally wrong? If we have a budget of just 100 rs can't we distribute it in a way that both the parties get something?

A very thoughtful post... Even in my place the temple I go, devotees break a lot of coconut, so it's not done inside the temple. They have appointed a particular basin near the courtyard for devotees to break their coconuts and they have attached that basins pipe to vessels so that coconut water gets collected in those vessels which is later distributed among the beggars who sits outside the temple. Now this can be done for Shivlingas milk also.

And very rightly said, why look at wastages of only during Hindu puja's , why not look at it overall. The question which they have raised through Naira, I would like CV's to answer it also through Naira as what do they do with the wastage which they do on everyday basis in Goenka house. Why spend lakhs on decoration of a simple festival, why not she give it away to some charity, who will be able to eat with it for months.

Its easy to target on things which are common but not on daily basis. As you rightly said humanity is daily job and not once in a year custom.

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Charu

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Posted: 7 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: incrediblycute
Hi not a regular viewer of yrkkh but happen to see it yesterday,not commenting on Naira particularly,but rather than blaming the customs shouldn't we do something ourselves to improve the scenerio like to have a drainage system in Temples in shivling so that all the milk can be stored in one vessel and then it can be distributed into people as PRASAD. The temple I visit has planted plants in the area of Shivlinga so that plants get all the nourishment.
Secondly,I have a doubt why we always notice wastage when we are performing any religious rituals or customs or giving something to GOD, shouldn't it should be in our daily routine and everyday activities?
The people who are rich and affluent spend crores in their family wedding wasting a lot of resources like electrivcity,water and food to those people who are themselves rich, why not have a simple wedding and save the resources and give it to some poor or atleast send some food to them even if you are having grand celebration.
When food gets burnt most of the family throw it,why not give it to some animals or make a manure of it,why not arrange a lunch for poor as most of the family do it for Brahimns?

The intention that food shouldn't be wasted and helping people is the real religion is true for all the days in year shouldn't we practice it daily and lessen some of our never ending desires?
God doesn't need anything from us is true but even if we are minor and not having our own money don't we save our pocket money to bring gifts for our parents on their anniversary or birthdays?In time of need treating our parents as problem solver and rest of the days as affluent people not in need of anything isn't that morally wrong? If we have a budget of just 100 rs can't we distribute it in a way that both the parties get something?

Excellent post ..

Naira made.a.correct point that donations given to rich temples are of no value ..But the complete truth is max people just act ignorant when it doesnt suit them ...They pay for special darshan in temples , those who donate gold and cash get the highest honor or aarti and standing next to the idol..What kinda bhakti is this..And will god be more kind to them or those who stand in queue for days to get the same darshan ?

The kinda message you are trying to give will possibly not be shown in yr because yahan toh shadi hi sab kuch hai..Woh bhi grand lol..