Did anyone feel sympathetic for Swarna ?

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 7 years ago

Suwarna's crying and reasoning is not invoking Any kind of sympathy in me for this character. If anything I feel is it is sheer disgust for this character.

Suwarna could have easily aborted the baby if she did not want the child. Later on she could have used some birth control pills so that she doesn't conceive anymore.

Her reasoning that Karthik and Keerthi required her more at that time is not wrong but what about a new born baby whose first requirement is mother . Karthik and Keerthi were atleast 6 or 7 when their mother died but that new born could not even move his limbs properly.

Her saying that she has put in lots of hard work to get Manish closer to his kids, Karthik and Keerthi. I want to ask what did she do ? Karthik was not even living at Goenka mansion forget about talking to his father before Naira got the truth out. Keerthi, the nubile one also doesn't talk to her or share her problems with her or Manish. 🥱

Turning her face away from the child, Aryan whenever he required her and then crying behind really doesn't invoke any sympathy from me atleast coz she is capable of helping him, but chooses not to. Even now she could have used her power to get him bailed as she still doesn't know that he is pitted against Karthik without even coming in front but she simply denied. Pathetic

There are many who give away their baby to their relatives who are childless and then give their love as that relative, she doesnt even do that.

Basically Suwarna is a failure as a mother as she just couldn't become anybody's mother.

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Miss-Behave

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Posted: 7 years ago

To answer your topic question... The answer is a big fat NO! You can't feel sympathy for somebody who willingly is the cause for their own life being a mess due to unjustified actions.

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ErisedWitch45

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Posted: 7 years ago

Agree with you word for word Abhilasha. I don't feel even an iota of sympathy for Suwarna's character. As you rightly said, she could have easily not had the child if she was going to give him a motherless life like that. Her constant crying for her kid but not even wanting to look at his pic or know how he is doing is not sitting well with me.

And like you rightly said - she gave up Shubham for Kartik and Keerti so that they are close to Manish but in reality, even that didn't work out. How was giving up her child productive in any way?

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P.D.S

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Posted: 7 years ago

I think she wanting the child is another matter but the fact that she kept him from mahish is completely wrong. She has absolutely no right whatsoever keeping shubham from manish. She made manish believe their child was dead for god's sake. That's just horrible!

Her crying and kindness in no way makes up for what she did. I'm quite happy with manishs reaction and I agree with chachu's stance. Karthik is obviously emotional in this instance becasue the women he hated for all these years put him before her own child- that's huge! So I get why he can't hate or be disappoointed with suwarna. But suwarna is wrong here and manishs reaction is completely justified.

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springkissed

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Posted: 7 years ago

I have no sympathy for Swarna right now. Though my one question is why is Aryan being so nice to everyone? What is exactly his ulterior motive?! I was expecting more rage, but he is like a subdued puppy with everyone except suvarna, kartik and naira, though even with them he is being tight lipped about his motives. I guess he is genuinely happy to be home and has forgiven them all?

Edited by springkissed - 7 years ago

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springkissed

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Posted: 7 years ago

Alright, I'm gonna rant a little more here. In addition to not having a drop of sympathy for Swarna, I was also annoyed with kriti and her holier than thou attitude when she came to the house. Like W*F, she was mad at aryan and was like whatever my mom did was for the right reason. Umm... whatever your mom did was to an innocent child's life. She had no right to separate him from his rightful family for so many years. And she would have kept them separated if kartik hadn't found out the truth. Why are these people so hell bent on showing swarna as some kind of devi? It seems the show is going towards making Aryan get revenge at this point because Kartik/naira/kriti are pushing the swarna is guilty free narrative so hard.

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ErisedWitch45

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: springkissed
Alright, I'm gonna rant a little more here. In addition to not having a drop of sympathy for Swarna, I was also annoyed with kriti and her holier than thou attitude when she came to the house. Like W*F, she was mad at aryan and was like whatever my mom did was for the right reason. Umm... whatever your mom did was to an innocent child's life. She had no right to separate him from his rightful family for so many years. And she would have kept them separated if kartik hadn't found out the truth. Why are these people so hell bent on showing swarna as some kind of devi? It seems the show is going towards making Aryan get revenge at this point because Kartik/naira/kriti are pushing the swarna is guilty free narrative so hard.

@bold - that I completely agree with. It's like Suwarna is being portrayed (way too hard) as some devi and that her deed was in some way justified! And to highlight Suwarna's "goodness" I think they are showing Aryan as a (start of a) negative character. That way Suwarna get more sympathy (?) Coz God forbid we get the story of 2 grey/normal characters. Nope, one has to be mahaan and the other with hidden motives.

Kirti's behavior with Aryan was quite uncalled for - he had been abandoned as an infant by his mother for a reason which doesn't even hold any water. How can anyone see Suwarna's selfish deed as "sacrifice" is beyond me.

Also what Suwarna did with Manish is as horrible as what she did with Aryan, if not more. She made him think that his child was dead! To make a father think that his child is not alive is abominable. Is father's love and pain not as imp as a mother's?

But then again all the "good" characters are with Suwarna so it's being spoon fed to the audience that we are supposed to side with her. And if that was not evident, lo and behold! Aryan is now acting shady.

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P.D.S

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: springkissed
Alright, I'm gonna rant a little more here. In addition to not having a drop of sympathy for Swarna, I was also annoyed with kriti and her holier than thou attitude when she came to the house. Like W*F, she was mad at aryan and was like whatever my mom did was for the right reason. Umm... whatever your mom did was to an innocent child's life. She had no right to separate him from his rightful family for so many years. And she would have kept them separated if kartik hadn't found out the truth. Why are these people so hell bent on showing swarna as some kind of devi? It seems the show is going towards making Aryan get revenge at this point because Kartik/naira/kriti are pushing the swarna is guilty free narrative so hard.

I was also pissed at Kirti and Naira. For once in her life, Dadi was right. Maybe her reasons are wrong but she's right in saying suwarnas decision was wrong. And that fact that this is a personal/family matter. Why should they be airing their dirty laundry? Every house/home has boundries. Some things you don't share even with your relatives. This is something that asksharas dadi had said when she gave advice to akshara before her marriage. I'm not saying the two families should compete with each other like dadi likes to do but they should respect each others privacy.

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anu023

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: *KT*~Lakshya*

I was also pissed at Kirti and Naira. For once in her life, Dadi was right. Maybe her reasons are wrong but she's right in saying suwarnas decision was wrong. And that fact that this is a personal/family matter. Why should they be airing their dirty laundry? Every house/home has boundries. Some things you don't share even with your relatives. This is something that asksharas dadi had said when she gave advice to akshara before her marriage. I'm not saying the two families should compete with each other like dadi likes to do but they should respect each others privacy.

but isn't kirti a goenka too? Do daughters lose right to know about their siblings and turn of events at their maayka?

For people here naira worrying about singhanyias or keeping tabs on her maayka is nayi soch andkartik involving himself in singhamiya issues is being a caring son in law but kirti getting to know about aryan who is her brother from her father and step.mother and a blood relative becomes intruding goenkas privacy???

Hypocrisy.. Naira kare toh acha kirti kare toh intruding privacy..

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ErisedWitch45

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: anu023

but isn't kirti a goenka too? Do daughters lose right to know about their siblings and turn of events at their maayka?
For people here naira worrying about singhanyias or keeping tabs on her maayka is nayi soch andkartik involving himself in singhamiya issues is being a caring son in law but kirti getting to know about aryan who is her brother from her father and step.mother and a blood relative becomes intruding goenkas privacy???

Hypocrisy.. Naira kare toh acha kirti kare toh intruding privacy..

I don't think the issue that KT-Lakshya means is Kirti knowing about it, rather Kirti telling the Singhanias about it. Yes, Kirti has full right to know and be involved in everything related to her family and her husband. But Manish didn't want anyone else outside the family to find out. and since Manish is a equal victim of his wife's delusional "sacrifice" it was not advisable for Kirti to disclose everything with her in-laws. Naksh being involved is also right as long as Kirti feels comfortable but others (?)

Edited by ErisedWitch45 - 7 years ago

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