Being blamed for everything: Is Naira's life going to be happy

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dadi blamed naira for all that happens in the world

Is this a good way to start a relationship what I going to be the future of keesh as naigra will be blamed for what ever happens to keerthi dadi in goenka family is trying to blame naira for everything that happens in this life!!!

I hate that Naira acts as though she has to prove everything and why is she over doing everything if you are feeling sleepy sleepy its your body your body is going to be sleepy your body will give away why do you need to act Mahan in that!!! I didn't like it!!!!

Today she blamed naira for dressing more that keerthi now that her problem. She and her issues!!!!

This is not going to be a easy way. If dadi is wrong why isn't the family telling her when she is wrong atleast naitik talks to buadadi when she is wrong

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Posted: 8 years ago
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bcoz bua dadi is head of the family by age n kdadi is head of the family by status.the whole goenka khandan's nam n all is basically established by her.so she has that control of family affairs since start n shes the only decision maker of goenkas.everyone fears her that has lead to dictatorship of dadi.now the prob is naira genuienely thinks goenkas as her own family just like singhus.she respects everyone n dadi out of her love towards this family not out of fear.shes innocent to understand certain norms of being a daughter in law.n thats y just like in her own family here too she keeps on doing things aacc to her heart n unknowningly coming in the way of dadi's dictatorship rules.she aint no mahan,she was always over enthu.they arent showing a goddess FL who knows everything n nvr went wrong.i loved how the fire incident was shown..she was at fault but then thats how we all r.this is the story now how dadi's dictatorship control chnges into a happy family.ups n down ll come but then kartik is thr to b always with N 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think dadi is controlling naira.naira just got married into that house and needs to learn their way of life.
That is what she is doing.Naira actually had no mother figure before marriage to have taught her how a newly wed has to behave.
Newly wed girl until atleast 1 year has to not interfere while two elders are talking or back answer which naira always does. She even talks in a higher tone while putting her point forward.
Having said this, i find naira slowly improving in this aspect though given her upbringing in orphanage has made her wild she is changing for good.

On a side note
Even i found naira's head jewellery a bit too much..though i loved the kamarbandh and necklace.she could have removed the mang tika instead of necklace..the neck piece's design was actually matching with her lehenga motifs.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Still

All goenka bahus are like slaves there what are they showing if you have some money u can like wear designer stuff and stay still with no mouth to talk coz only dadi can talk in that house

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Naira has changed that no bahu can speak infront of KD...she spoke infront of KD several times and she is happy in her life also has happy or normal expressions most of the times...she doesn't cry in every single scene...khair regarding KD yess elders like KD are quite irritating but they exist...Overdoing something beside ur capabilities not thinking about health is not mahan act at all...If I'm studying for a test or exam entire night or doing a project entire night that doesn't have much effect in terms of marks that doesn't mean I become mahan 😆 Its all matter of priorities you try harder when u want to achieve something the way Naira want to share same bond with Goenkas Karthik shares with Singhanias...She want to become a responsible person...who is loved and appreciated by Goenkas specifically KD...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu023

I don't think dadi is controlling naira.naira just got married into that house and needs to learn their way of life.

That is what she is doing.Naira actually had no mother figure before marriage to have taught her how a newly wed has to behave.
Newly wed girl until atleast 1 year has to not interfere while two elders are talking or back answer which naira always does. She even talks in a higher tone while putting her point forward.
Having said this, i find naira slowly improving in this aspect though given her upbringing in orphanage has made her wild she is changing for good.

On a side note
Even i found naira's head jewellery a bit too much..though i loved the kamarbandh and necklace.she could have removed the mang tika instead of necklace..the neck piece's design was actually matching with her lehenga motifs.


What century are you living in? Education teaches us all to treat each other equally, no matter what the age. Your mentality "married women does not interfere in elder talks until one year" is totally absurd. Just because she is daughter in law she doesn't even have basic human rights? This is the reason why such a large population of india still has such conservative thinking. No wonder this show gets high TRPs now as regressive aunties rule TRP charts
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Naira is cool with it she doesn't take stress for such unnecessary things according to her
"dadi dantey gi toh kya hua woh toh waisey bhi danti hai thori aur dant kha loon gi" 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I however feel, though naira and karthik are cute together.. she tends to behave pretty immaturely, in her acting too, it's pretty reflective.. :/ them being a real life couple is diff, but when she on reel, she should act and behave more maturely.. ESP when she is the daughter-in law, regardless of how her upbringing was.. some things are just common sense ! :| that you behave appropriately, when wedded into a new family.

As for dadi, I feel like she has good intentions though! She wants naira to improve and glove into the family, as per their standard.. true she may be hard on her, or even rude, at times.. but it is just so that she matures out.. and becomes more responsible..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bansari7


What century are you living in? Education teaches us all to treat each other equally, no matter what the age. Your mentality "married women does not interfere in elder talks until one year" is totally absurd. Just because she is daughter in law she doesn't even have basic human rights? This is the reason why such a large population of india still has such conservative thinking. No wonder this show gets high TRPs now as regressive aunties rule TRP charts

Sorry aunty..but i am.not an aunty.
I have seen my aunts still cooking for their kids and daughters inlaw..those girls don't even get their kids ready to school.it's my aunt who does everything at an age of 70.
And mind u those daughters in law are not evenworking women.they are housewives who sit watching tv as their mother in law cooks. And if they are asked to do any help all they do ia complain to their husbands .
So please..girls or boys should learn to respect elders and it's not maanners to interfere or cross talk while elders are talking.
New bahu needs to observe hw her new family works atleast for anyear instead of trying to become mahan atma.in my family new bahu is taught everything before she starts doing things herself. First 1 year of marriage for every festival or celebration either her mother or mother in law go help her do everything. I have nott seen my elders discriminate between daughter and daughter in law but its common sense that u don't back answer or interfere when elders are talking.


Reporting ur comment for calling me aunty

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover

I however feel, though naira and karthik are cute together.. she tends to behave pretty immaturely, in her acting too, it's pretty reflective.. :/ them being a real life couple is diff, but when she on reel, she should act and behave more maturely.. ESP when she is the daughter-in law, regardless of how her upbringing was.. some things are just common sense ! :| that you behave appropriately, when wedded into a new family.

As for dadi, I feel like she has good intentions though! She wants naira to improve and glove into the family, as per their standard.. true she may be hard on her, or even rude, at times.. but it is just so that she matures out.. and becomes more responsible..

Exactly.. the reason i said for atleast 1 year a new bahu should be observing things rather than trying to dominate that family.u need to blend with ur new family not stand out as the.odd one!
Dadi is realistic.when u have elders at home kids should let them take decisions and not try to dominate them

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