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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover

I however feel, though naira and karthik are cute together.. she tends to behave pretty immaturely, in her acting too, it's pretty reflective.. :/ them being a real life couple is diff, but when she on reel, she should act and behave more maturely.. ESP when she is the daughter-in law, regardless of how her upbringing was.. some things are just common sense ! :| that you behave appropriately, when wedded into a new family.

As for dadi, I feel like she has good intentions though! She wants naira to improve and glove into the family, as per their standard.. true she may be hard on her, or even rude, at times.. but it is just so that she matures out.. and becomes more responsible..



@bold Naira is the most mature character I've seen in past ten years...If she doesn't have sad expressions or cry 24/7 that makes her immature...if she do efforts to apologize to her husband and to make him feel loved...if she behaves a girl of her age and not sati savtri types than she is immature?? Gone are those days when maturity was defined by weeping 24/7 getting worried or panic over smallest of issues...behaving like a super woman and not committing a single mistake and being always right...KD want Naira ti improve? KD going against Naira's career, blaming Naira even if her kittu left her by his own decision...how this is going to improve Naira? I'm not against KD as I know elders like her exist but her ways are definitely not right...The entire globe is changing so I want KD and Naira both to change for good...not that Naira should behave like abla nari...or become mature as she is already very mature...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu023

Exactly.. the reason i said for atleast 1 year a new bahu should be observing things rather than trying to dominate that family.u need to blend with ur new family not stand out as the.odd one!
Dadi is realistic.when u have elders at home kids should let them take decisions and not try to dominate them


I disagree here a bit...when Naira wanted to take any decision on her own? she she tried to dominate KD? I think there is nothing wrong in stating ur POV in a polite way infront of elders...just a girl should know when to speak and when to stay quiet...Naira knows that well...It was the decision of her brother getting married to her SIL and no girl would like to make her brother a scapegoat only because she is a part of family who is giving marriage proposal KD was wrong in rushing things...Not only Naira but Suvarnish too spoke infront of KD that time...Keeping quiet and letting elders do injustice and wrong isn't also a good thing...A few elders get their sons and daughters married without their consent which leads to divorces or loveless life where two people don't even respect each other throughout their lives...Is this way right? Naira is wrong at times like during staying up for 1 hr she slept it was her fault and that's what I'm liking a FL can have FLAWS she is not flawless abla nari she is growing that's why her character is relatable ...People like to compare themselves their situations with characters...Having a DIL like Naira who is trying and committing mistakes here and there this can change people's perception that this happens...and they need to overlook certain things...Also KD was the one who pressurized Keerthi to stay in abusive marriage...Is that right? In real life if such thing happens that elders do warn their SIL but here dadi never inquired anything from him infact she never stopped her damad pooja which was exceedingly wrong approach because of Aditya knowing nobody will do anything to me as I'm damad they worship me..He stooped to an extent of attempting to kill Keerthi...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bansari7


What century are you living in? Education teaches us all to treat each other equally, no matter what the age. Your mentality "married women does not interfere in elder talks until one year" is totally absurd. Just because she is daughter in law she doesn't even have basic human rights? This is the reason why such a large population of india still has such conservative thinking. No wonder this show gets high TRPs now as regressive aunties rule TRP charts


ML throwing, pushing, manhandling FL is quite progressive thinking isn't it??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bansari7



What century are you living in? Education teaches us all to treat each other equally, no matter what the age. Your mentality "married women does not interfere in elder talks until one year" is totally absurd. Just because she is daughter in law she doesn't even have basic human rights? This is the reason why such a large population of india still has such conservative thinking. No wonder this show gets high TRPs now as regressive aunties rule TRP charts



Lmao if only the man on ur display pic wasnt an mcp or the show very regressive.

YRKKH is one of the most progressive shows on indian TV especially when it comes to the relationship between husband and wife.

Equality is not the same thing as lacking manners or leaving behind the respect your elders advice we've been taught.

Yes speak against wrong doing but to speak out at every turn is not the same as standing up for equality. Theres a way and time and place to speak to your elders.

Naira is a balanced individual, she still respects her elders and speaks out when it's right. She doesn't bow down or cry when she's wronged, she fights for herself.

Yes she makes mistakes and she tries for things that are out of her capabilities like staying awake all night on fridays epi but not to prove she's mahaan person or out some kind of weird pride.

Only cos she cares about KDadi and her health.
Edited by Ahlaam5 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Naira chose to live in a joint family despite knowing what kind of a family they are and what kind of person Dadi is.

Naira knows how to deal with KDadi and is not unhappy in that household...no I do not agree with KDadi's rules and her behaviour towards Naira but Naira is not blind to the person KDadi is.

The show is currently about showing showing how regressive The Goenka's are despite being very rich and modern and is slowly changing their regressive behaviour.

Look at how The Goenka's used to be and how they are now...things have changed and will change some more.

The Narrative does not support KDadi or BDadi most of the time...the other Goenkas always have bowed to Dadi's rules so they wont change over-night but Kartik always speaks out against her when she's wrong.

Even Manish did which he has never before during the wedding conflict.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I won't say naira wasn't mature but there are times when they behave immaturely
Like staying awake when you are super tired

Trying to climb a tree with all that ghagra choli who does that
(Some romantic gestures everyone like mostly the cute ones every one is fan of that) but climbing the tree in that dress!!!!!!

KD makes sure 'sab reethi riwaz se hona chahiyr' and she keeps insultinh all along the way!! Maybe she is right bring the experience d person in the family but there is a way to behave with everyone

She gives importance to only men in the family noticed that? Not even daughters are given much importance!!!

I felt if this marriage goes on this saga of being puppet goes on still keerthi being in singhanias house naira is going to questioned every time

I support this marriage but not like this maybe as Karthik said if this was a love marriage it would have been better!!!

Maybe then singhanias will have a stand of their likes and dislikes !!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: craziekudi

I won't say naira wasn't mature but there are times when they behave immaturely

Like staying awake when you are super tired

Trying to climb a tree with all that ghagra choli who does that
(Some romantic gestures everyone like mostly the cute ones every one is fan of that) but climbing the tree in that dress!!!!!!

KD makes sure 'sab reethi riwaz se hona chahiyr' and she keeps insultinh all along the way!! Maybe she is right bring the experience d person in the family but there is a way to behave with everyone

She gives importance to only men in the family noticed that? Not even daughters are given much importance!!!

I felt if this marriage goes on this saga of being puppet goes on still keerthi being in singhanias house naira is going to questioned every time

I support this marriage but not like this maybe as Karthik said if this was a love marriage it would have been better!!!

Maybe then singhanias will have a stand of their likes and dislikes !!!


@bold situation demanded it...with rest I agree

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