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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: vellainsaan

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SilentDreamer

@SilentDreamer

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

What annoyed me was how conveniently when it has something to do with them, they easily put the blame on Naira or the Singhania's. Naira has constantly been trying to figure out how she is going to get Karthik to stay at GV. She doesn't know the entire story, so how can she be able to convince her husband, who has disliked staying in that house for years. Wasn't it Naira who saved Karthik in the sand storm? How conveniently has he forgotten how exactly He (Manish) and Akhilesh have manipulated Naira in the whole Akshara's death fiasco? Karthik isn't wrong. The Goenka's have a habit of manipulating people and situations for their own benefit overlooking the consequences of those things. When Naira spoke up regarding Keerti and Aditya, she was this Ghar's bahu, and should stay out of the adults talking. Well this is also said adult's problem to deal with. He is your son, and he has a problem with you, therefore it shouldn't necessarily fall on Naira to fix your mistakes and clear your misunderstandings.

I'm sorry for the length of my post, it's just i'm kind of tired of seeing all these problems non stop one after another and with Naira being blamed for it all. I think the Goenkas need to have a reality check and need to get their attitude adjusted. There's a reason Karthik likes and respects the Singhania's and Maheswari's more then his own family. Because they aren't manipulative and as dysfunctional as them.

I am a silent reader of the forum, but guess couldn't really keep silent watching this nonsense.

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Zara

@Zara151

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Poor bachi was getting blamed for something she didn't do. Seriously im fed up of Suwarna pressurizing Naira, its too much for her to bear!!

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Tabatha

@Tabatha

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Kartik, take Naira and go to your own peaceful home. The Goenkas do nothing but fight and have misunderstandings. It's exhausting to watch this. I miss the early days when Kartik was happy and at peace. The Singhanias were never a match with this family. They are good people. The Goenkas have infighting all the time. What a sad way for the young couple to start married life.

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anu023

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Singhus are good agreed but too much sugary sweet is ott.

The exact reason i hated akshara..trying to be mahaan and great..

And kadwa ghut definitely because singhus always interfere..

If maheswaris n sighanias act like single family instead of samdhis..it developed over a period of 2 or 3 decades .but they expect goenkas to treat them as equals n family just after kaira marriage got fixed..

No offence but..to glorify singhus the writer is showing goenkas in a poor light..

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SilentDreamer

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: anu023
Singhus are good agreed but too much sugary sweet is ott.
The exact reason i hated akshara..trying to be mahaan and great..
And kadwa ghut definitely because singhus always interfere..
If maheswaris n sighanias act like single family instead of samdhis..it developed over a period of 2 or 3 decades .but they expect goenkas to treat them as equals n family just after kaira marriage got fixed..
No offence but..to glorify singhus the writer is showing goenkas in a poor light..

I get that the Singhania's and Maheswaris has issues in the beginning too, and that over years they have come to such an understanding. But individually they never were dysfunctional or manipulative. I'm not saying that the Goenkas and Singania's/Maheswaris should be best friends, but I think the level at which the Goenkas think they are is over the top. Maheshwaris and Singhania's have always been on an equal footing and understanding even when they disagreed. They might have had unreasonable expectations, but I still think the Goenkas have a very different way of thinking, and that too one sided. If it works for them, then yes, if not, then no. that's not how it works when you have two families united in bonds through marriage. This track needs to kind of cool down. I think the creatives need to start having Naira winning them over, and Karthik needs to get his misunderstanding cleared up, or at least begin to. It's kind of getting old.

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Hayaa.m

@Hayaa.m

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

She just saved her skin to be honest and first time i highly disliked her. Manish and swarna are two characters that even though u want to sympathize with them but their selfishness makes them negative and hateful. In dadi case we know she is extremely dal badlo ..manish has his shortcomings he is full of attitude but expecting this from swarna is like nooo she is not like that. Anyway lets see humarai bachee keb in goenkas ko insan banati hai.

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Miss-Behave

@Miss-Behave

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: anu023
Singhus are good agreed but too much sugary sweet is ott.
The exact reason i hated akshara..trying to be mahaan and great..
And kadwa ghut definitely because singhus always interfere..
If maheswaris n sighanias act like single family instead of samdhis..it developed over a period of 2 or 3 decades .but they expect goenkas to treat them as equals n family just after kaira marriage got fixed..
No offence but..to glorify singhus the writer is showing goenkas in a poor light..

What you are not seeing is that every family is different, with a different approach and view to things. The major differences between the goenka's and singhania's is that for the former, money, status and influence is their priority, and for singhania's it is the opposite. All families are not the same and it would be boring if the goenka's were shown not to be so drastically small-minded, because with the goenka's the cv's have shown that money and a lavish lifestyle does not make a person open-minded and forward-thinking, and through the singhania's they are showing that just because you are traditional, doesn't mean you are conservative thinkers and don't keep up with changing times. You are not seeing it from this view, but rather are just seeing it as goenka's being show intentionally in poor light to glorify singhania's. Dadi believes she changes with time, but the truth is she only makes silly lifestyle and trend changes, not changes to her attitude and views, but the singhania's with time, change on the basis of attitude and beliefs in contrast.

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anu023

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: sammy17

What you are not seeing is that every family is different, with a different approach and view to things. The major differences between the goenka's and singhania's is that for the former, money, status and influence is their priority, and for singhania's it is the opposite. All families are not the same and it would be boring if the goenka's were shown not to be so drastically small-minded, because with the goenka's the cv's have shown that money and a lavish lifestyle does not make a person open-minded and forward-thinking, and through the singhania's they are showing that just because you are traditional, doesn't mean you are conservative thinkers and don't keep up with changing times. You are not seeing it from this view, but rather are just seeing it as goenka's being show intentionally in poor light to glorify singhania's. Dadi believes she changes with time, but the truth is she only makes silly lifestyle and trend changes, not changes to her attitude and views, but the singhania's with time, change on the basis of attitude and beliefs in contrast.

Its intentionally showing naira's sasural in poor light so as to make her next akshara..so that singhanias remain relevant to story and develop keerti naksh story..

Otherwise a lot can be shown.. like naira struggling to adjust in a nuclear set up with kartik..with.no elders and initial issues.. and then the dance academy and difficulti3s in managing it ..instead of showing dadi-swarna kitchen politics..yeah no.kitchen involved ..but this is what u call kitchen politics..

And so far naira had been balanced..and is trying her best 5 to adjust.. but kartik is just being blind in his anger. His family's indifference isn't helping either..

And writer is doing a blotchy job..

Every family is different..but that doesn't mean u show one on exrremely bad light and one in extreme good light..

Let's agree to disagree on this.

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anu023

@anu023

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

My views are different and i'd only says singhanias..specially senior gayatri was similar to k dadi in the initial years..so i think everyone changes with time..And i would really be happy if naira isn't made into akshara part2.. else i.might end up hating naira though i love shivangi's acting..

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