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Posted: 11 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: *Dev.*



its the same, like I was ranting in my thread. anyways, I dont want to reply you because our views never matches like you told earlier. so better we skip talking!. Because I dont want anything which makes me sad for no use.
:)

I got no interest in talking to you either but you said she is ranting which is not right hence I told you. You said you are ranting so if you got right to rant so has she therefor there is no need to question her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: ..Laxmi..

Is naitik behaviour justified with devyani,is she is not elder to naitik..

Exactly. He still hasn't apologised for yelling at her in the hospital and accusing her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: -Maryam



Minterpreting?
I'm sorry if I'm interpreting his character in a different way than yours doesnt mean Im misinterpreting.
Well why on earth should Naman bear with naitiks anger when he has done nothing to deserve it? Naman can stay silent and bear with all that like Muskaan but whats so wrong if he's speaking up for himself? He's just questioning naitik why he's behaving like that!?
I am not questioning his upbringing I'm just stating what his character has been like. Naitik himself admitted in the past that sometimes his ego comes in the way.


yes, you were, It was shown as if only he was wrong in all this. But the case is different.

Naman and Muskaan LIED , first wrong thing, so anger is justified, but over anger is not, I agree.

Naman questioning Naitik - is fine, but why was he instigating him upon same? In precap its quite Clear that Naman was instigating Naitik even if he said that ''mera mooh mat khulwao''.

you questioned his upbringing, thats done and cant be changed now. Playing with words is not my forte!
yes, his ego does come in between but not here. Case is different because they are his step siblings.:)


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Posted: 11 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: ..Laxmi..

Is naitik behaviour justified with devyani,is she is not elder to naitik..

he never Hurted her but once due akshara health condition. According to me is not easy to see some one in his mothers place. Its one of painful thing. Personnaly i cant see m'y father with another lady
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Posted: 11 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: ..Laxmi..

Is naitik behaviour justified with devyani,is she is not elder to naitik..

people will say it is coz Devyaani is the STEP-MOTHER 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: -Maryam


No one is asking naitik to accept them. He can take his time and do that. Just expecting him to behave maturely. Why can't he just avoid Naman and Muskaan?
If one doesn't get along with someone than it's better to ignore them?
He doesn't care about how all this is gonna impact devyani coz he doesn't care about her!


wasnt akshara doing all this from start?

how much he should avoid them in his OWN house! you tell me!
he cannot ignore them all the time and why? he is not free in his own house now.

well, he does care for devyani and respect her. I disagree.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: *Dev.*


And I'm annoyed with the continous misinterpretation of Naitik's character here in this forum!

its not about upbringing, the relationship of Naitik with Naman-Muskaan is the thing which annoys him alot and why not?

They are his step mother's kids who have no rights to be there plus Like Rashmi said, devyani should find a way t meet them.

agree that Naitk was angry with them but because they LIED thats why he was angry! and even Akshara agree to this with Naitik! so who are we to prove him wrong and question on his upbringing?


and if that was wrong, what Naman was doing in precap? wasnt that question his upbringing?

I'm not bashing Naman's character but just annoyed with his behaviour with elders!

same way I also disagree with you in your own words maryam;).



Yes they lied but technically it wasn't as big as it is being made out to be because their grand dad was going for his patient anyway.


Also yes you are saying Naman spoke to Naitik like that is wrong, if this was an isolated incident and everyone was normal with them and Naitik was only angry due to the lie I would agree with you. However how long were they going to take the way they were being treated like they are of no value and the fact they came there is like they did a big crime.

Dev I just want to ask your opinion because you said that they don't have right to be there. Why don't they have a right to be in their mother's home? Mohit isn't a singhania he was there, biggest of all they accepted Chikki and Yash as their own. Whereas Naman and Muskaan were just wanting some love from their mother but were being treated like it is a massive crime to have your kids living with you if you married again. I understand they were not there when they married but still, don't be this mean to them. The only one who can decide if they can stay is RB if he wants to accept them or not, it has nothing to do with Naitik.

I also want to say that just because I want them to be nice to Naman and Muskaan does not mean I expect Naitik and Rashmi to accept them as their bro and sis. That is totally fine, no one should expect that. I even was annoyed at Akshara when she kept telling Naitik to accept Devyani as his mum when he doesn't need to.


I also don't understand it isn't like RB did a second marriage without anyone's consent nor did he bring her home suddenly so I don't get the hatred for Naman and Muskaan. You are saying he was upset because of their lie, he was already irritated by them for no reason, and just needed some ammunition to target them.

Naman and Muskaan have been walking on egg shells for them, but I just don't see the reason for being upset, or annoyed or embarrassed. I must be missing something! They are not saying RB become our dad.

When two people have come together for a second marriage just to be each others support I don't understand why they can't accept them as family members in some way. They are family now, through Devyani.


Edited by noor321 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: *Dev.*


yes, you were, It was shown as if only he was wrong in all this. But the case is different.

Naman and Muskaan LIED , first wrong thing, so anger is justified, but over anger is not, I agree.

Naman questioning Naitik - is fine, but why was he instigating him upon same? In precap its quite Clear that Naman was instigating Naitik even if he said that ''mera mooh mat khulwao''.

you questioned his upbringing, thats done and cant be changed now. Playing with words is not my forte!
yes, his ego does come in between but not here. Case is different because they are his step siblings.:)


I would appreciate if you wouldn't target my views like that. Everyone has a different opinion and a right to state it.
Step siblings step siblings step siblings!! If only the Naitik would stop thinking like that! It'd make it easier for him only.
How is Naman instigating naitik?
Edited by -Maryam - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: _Amina_

I got no interest in talking to you either but you said she is ranting which is not right hence I told you. You said you are ranting so if you got right to rant so has she therefor there is no need to question her.


but still you tend to reply me everytime, great!😆

I try to ignore you as much as I can but you always do something which makes me reply you anyway even if I dont want to but have to because I cannot tolerate things which is wrong in my perspective.

Well, read my reply again, it was in funny sense and not in question sense. Ranting means something which we say continously which me and topic make are doing from past days but on different views, so please do not try to misinterpret the situation.

period.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: naksh_manju

he never Hurted her but once due akshara health condition. According to me is not easy to see some one in his mothers place. Its one of painful thing. Personnaly i cant see m'y father with another lady


I understand I know no one can accept someone else in their parents place. That is what everyone on this forum has said that no one should force Naitik to accept her as his mum. Fully agree with this because even I was annoyed with Akshara for that.

However, that doesn't mean you stop acting civilly with someone and make faces. His father didn't run away or have an affair with her that he hates her guts and makes faces. That is the problem I have. If he really didn't want his dad to have another wife he should have put his foot down, even RB wasn't wanting it as much as they all forced him. He should have said no to Akshara if he was going to treat Devyani like this.


That is why even before the second marriage happened I didn't want it, because they did it way to fast, and RB didn't really need one straight away his loneliness was being exaggerated just for the story, when in reality the guy could have joined back work and let some routine come in his life and then think whether he really needed someone.

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