Is Naitik behaviour post coma justified ?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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That's the question running in my head since long. A husband, a lover, a father, a son who had missed 4 precious years in his life would behave this way? Initially I thought he is not able to adjust with current and sudden changes in his life and overall surrounding. But, incident after incident his behaviour seems very strange and undigestable to me.

First, his again and again mentioning to Akshara and sometimes taunting her on his coma state. His desire of being dead than getting sympathy after getting out of coma. He should also have realised life was not easy for akshara, how she has managed, her efforts and will power that her husband would get up one day and call her name. It is not easy sleeping with same hope and enthusiasm for 4 rigorous years. Before saying those words he should have thought about his beloved wife.

Second, I agree he loves akshara and wants to spend some alone time with her but then he should also realise she also has equal if not more responsibility. She is not doing it intentionally to run away from him. Also, when Akshara realised that she made blunder of their plan, she tried to make up for it but what he did just blasted on her. She is trying to be communicative but he does not want to reciprocate. Naitik should realise that life never goes according to plan and he is the best example for himself. If he gets angry on small small things then he will miss these beautiful moments which he has already missed for 4 years.

Third, Naitik's behaviour towards Duggu. This is most unjustified according to me. Ok fine he is angry with akshara so he is being indifferent to her but what is duggu's mistake in all this. He behaving very strange and weird with him. You have already missed his initial growing years and made so much efforts to come term with him. Why will you wash out all the hardwork by being indifferent with your own kid.

These are my views and hope members here will respect it.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Naitik behaviour after comma...is still a question mark?...
i wud say he gave all his influence in estabilishing relation with duggu...which is a good thing bt in all he shd also realize that Akshara also lived without him 4yrs...
and i also want akshara to tallk to naitik..and tell whateva she missed...and still wht she is missing...
and the thing Naitik said to akshara few epi ago..that dont wait 4 me on dinner...then few small small things...WAS IT THAT MUCH EASY 4 NAITIK?...

hope every thing got sorted out soon...
Edited by NaKsHina.Sadi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I compleletly agree Naitik behaviour with duggu is very weird i am not liking it at all 🤢 i mean wht ever it is between u and ur wife but then again its human nature we always tend to behave wierd ,second i dont think coma thing shud come i think its Naitik nature only from start he get angry woh jata nahi woh nature isme coma se bahar aana and all isnt needed just cuz he is out of something can never change once nature nature is unchangeable but Naitik shud learn how behave and keep his anger within him and not make its obvious and what i dont agree is symphaty part as he jsut said that he wish he cud die and stuffs coz he was treated in diff way but after that he didnt say wanted die things .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Naitik has always been this way.
Ungrateful.

Personally I never found him to be a perfect husband just Akshara a perfect wife which is why he just cares right back. If he would have gotten some other nakhreli wife .. his ego would have turned him into a monster.

Seriously the way he cuts her off every single time is too much.
THen says sorry.

She cared for him for 4 years with soo much hope..
I just foward the scenes with him
I like gayatri more .. she is at least caring towards Akshara now..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I wont talk about coma and the scenes we got after it, CVs just messed it up and still doing it.
Even I wont blame alone naitik or alone akshara, both are equally responsible. But i agree to one point of urs, why naitik is behaving weirdly wid duggu.

The day wen she planned surprise, i thought everything would be normal, but what did we get, agn arguments.
I dont know where did the understanding has vanished from their relationship.
When naitik had to go to office agn, they could have planned something else, but nahi ek dusre ko sunana hai bas...

They both are just pinpointing each other aapne ye kiya, maine woh kiya, aapke saath ye hua mera saath wo hua, aap mjhe kyun suna rahi hai, mai aapko bata rahi hunn...what is this??

Naitik always feels akshi is blaming him god knows why??
Communication is lacking between them, definitely work is important, but what kind of work is this wen u dont have time to spend wid ur loved ones

Edited by janhavi58 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: janhavi58

I wont talk about coma and the scenes we got after it, CVs just messed it up and still doing it.
Even I wont blame alone naitik or alone akshara, both are equally responsible. But i agree to one point of urs, why naitik is behaving weirdly wid duggu.

The day wen she planned surprise, i thought everything would be normal, but what did we get, agn arguments.
I dont know where did the understanding has vanished from their relationship.
When naitik had to go to office agn, they could have planned something else, but nahi ek dusre ko sunana hai bas...

They both are just pinpointing each other aapne ye kiya, maine woh kiya, aapke saath ye hua mera saath wo hua, aap mjhe kyun suna rahi hai, mai aapko bata rahi hunn...what is this??

Communication is lacking between them, definitely work is important, but what kind of work is this wen u dont have time to spend wid ur loved ones

work and spending time can go hand in hand but sig cv's had to mess it up 🤢 but now i literally feel dragging kuch zyda hi ho raha hai i tired seeing both fight 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pree4ru

I compleletly agree Naitik behaviour with duggu is very weird i am not liking it at all 🤢 i mean wht ever it is between u and ur wife but then again its human nature we always tend to behave wierd ,second i dont think coma thing shud come i think its Naitik nature only from start he get angry woh jata nahi woh nature isme coma se bahar aana and all isnt needed just cuz he is out of something can never change once nature nature is unchangeable but Naitik shud learn how behave and keep his anger within him and not make its obvious and what i dont agree is symphaty part as he jsut said that he wish he cud die and stuffs coz he was treated in diff way but after that he didnt say wanted die things .


I'm not saying that he is behaving this way coz of coma. What I intended is that accident and then being in coma for 4 years is a life changing incident. I had hoped that he would be more considerate, compassionate and patient with people around him but he is still impulsive and sorry to say very arrogant, who still wants things to go according to his plans. Best e.g. was when he had some urgent important and sudden work he left his romance with akshara and when akshara tried to make him realise that she had some responsibilities due to which plan was cancelled and she's sorry about that. At that time he was very inconsiderate towards her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Naksh_Duggu


I'm not saying that he is behaving this way coz of coma. What I intended is that accident and then being in coma for 4 years is a life changing incident. I had hoped that he would be more considerate, compassionate and patient with people around him but he is still impulsive and sorry to say very arrogant, who still wants things to go according to his plans. Best e.g. was when he had some urgent important and sudden work he left his romance with akshara and when akshara tried to make him realise that she had some responsibilities due to which plan was cancelled and she's sorry about that. At that time he was very inconsiderate towards her.

well akshi point was right but the moment was wrong see i am not telling dont say but it looked like pinpointing whoever does even naitik does that which is wrong see wht happened past happend repeating again will look like ur pinpointing which will spoil things and not make now fights y it happens either their plan fails or they pinpoint hence now both hv left things communicate nai karna hai dono ko .And got ur point but we say but that is human nature only ki hum kuch cheezen apne aap nai change kar sakthe hi irrespective of things happened in past . Bitter truth
Edited by pree4ru - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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first cvs messed up few things..there is no comunication gap between naitik and akshara, there silly fights and arguement is too much and both naitik and akshara wrong in their part one hasnt a time and other showed busy, they both need to bit mature more..
I agree naitik behaiour towards duggu not gud but thats men nature..
i find both naitik-akshara failed has a parents so they need more careful and responseible for their kid
Edited by -Puja- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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omgg i just just cnt believe it was naitik today 😭 😭
firstly though he was angry , seeing akshara sneezing continiously naitik would have said akshara atleast ones to come n sleep up , he just slept 😭 i seriously taught tll date ki how much ever naitik is angry wht akshara if thngs would come taking akshara's health naitik forget everything and come to akshara per no . duggu conv wht g3 clearly clearly said ki akshara was sneezing whole night 😭 😭
and naitik dint dint do anything 😭 😭cv's it just the greatest fall of naitiks character ever 👎🏼
i just just hate this thing of naitik if ever he is angry wht akshara he treats her worse thn a stranger and today toh it cross a saturation level
its high time naitik should start balancing his relation , he cnt let his disputes with akshara to effect his n duggus relation
itna bhi kya gussa the frnt one is dying and wont even bother for them 😭 😭
i just cnt believe it was naitik who just slept tht way , leaving akshara suffering 😭

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