..~~Joint Family~~.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: bebo.

Im 4rm a joint family woh bhi typical joint family,dada dadi,chachas chachi's every1.my bachpan i don't rmbr but ya joint family wll have no no privacy,whnevr i was scolded are something i always had one are the othr in support but this never took me in wrong direction ,i was never never stubborn Instead i have been taught to earn up things i want,but ya i have bro how is the youngest of all ,he was just pampered endlessly was given everything he want which really spoilt him up ,i can see his shadow in duggu, yet personally i love joint family its always fun ,and life seems to be way good,it do have its disadvantages
now i really want to see how will naksh handled duggu and whts solution for it

thanks 4 sharing ur views...😃...

Originally posted by: NaKsHina.Sadi

ya...agree wid u...!!!

@bold exactly...😊...

meri bhi chote huay bohat fights hoti thi apni cousines k sath...😆😆...jab wo rote they tou darr lagta tha k..ab bas wo chup ho jaye...🤣

@sadia ...i liked ur new username dear ...
@jahnvi ...i agree its all abt atmosphere ...i ve a younger bro although he is only one yr younger ..but still we esp i pamper him lots ...but v know ...kahan usse laad karna h n kahan pe punish karna h

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

@sadia ...i liked ur new username dear ...
@jahnvi ...i agree its all abt atmosphere ...i ve a younger bro although he is only one yr younger ..but still we esp i pamper him lots ...but v know ...kahan usse laad karna h n kahan pe punish karna h

@NaKsHina.Sadi

Everyone is different therefore everyone has different experiences..l also live in a joint family but none of my siblings or me have ever been pampered.. Just cuz our parents dont pamper us doesnt mean they dont love us... They do everything for our benefit but with duggu its way different, hes actually never had any restrictions and obviously itll take a bit of time for him to become a good boy and to realize that his parents want him to succeed and love him a lot. I guess its easy for us to understand considering we are adults but then i have seen a lot of kids these days who behave this way.. Also , along with being deprived of a father in a way naksh was also deprived of a mother so obviously he must be hurt in someway!

Originally posted by: Mayo2424

Everyone is different therefore everyone has different experiences..l also live in a joint family but none of my siblings or me have ever been pampered.. Just cuz our parents dont pamper us doesnt mean they dont love us... They do everything for our benefit but with duggu its way different, hes actually never had any restrictions and obviously itll take a bit of time for him to become a good boy and to realize that his parents want him to succeed and love him a lot. I guess its easy for us to understand considering we are adults but then i have seen a lot of kids these days who behave this way.. Also , along with being deprived of a father in a way naksh was also deprived of a mother so obviously he must be hurt in someway!

But i think together naitik and akshara can manage to change duggu into the swweet child he was 4 years back!

i agree with u😃

Originally posted by: janhavi58

yeah when to punish and whn to pamper is important...

every now and then if elders go and pampering fir toh bacche bigdenge hi..

I too have younger brother 3yrs younger to me...he too was very pampered but not spoilt like duggu, infact my parents wer working wen we were growing up, we were left in baby sitting, still they gave us nice values.

agree jahn ...even mine r working parents but still duggu is very much spoilt ...but hope ...ad nw naitik is involved to g3 ll keep her mouth shut

good thread sadia 👍🏼
i don't think the reason behind Duggu's behavior is join family! the blame purely goes to the bad time and situation during the last 4 years the only thing gave ss happiness is Duggu so they over pamperd him. Duggu basically grown up without parents. yes akshara was there but coz of other responsibilities she couldn't give him time so g3 was everything for him and at times i don't blame g3 either. she was finding her son in Duggu so i feel we only got the bad time and situation to blame

For me behaviour is no wer related to joint family i guess it is in way you in built things for duggu reason is not only gaya3 but he has been alone i mean gaya3 hasnt let him free for duggu whts imp his video game his toys and when comes to fulfilling his demands is dadi so here i am not telling that if kids dont behave well its parents fault no but imparting of values yea gaya3 fault is over pampering which has made duggu like this.