..~~Joint Family~~..

hello guys...

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

ll comment in sum tym

😊...my user name😃

Lol u changd ur name? Y? Eh. Ya i agree . I always lovd joint family but didnt got chance as all live alag alag places.

ohhh u changed ur user name ...i dint notice dat earlier ...
i ve also never got d chance to live in joint family ...
everything has its advantages n disadvantages ...
no doubt duggu has bcum spoilt due to joint family only but it is also true ki akshara was able to stand dose four yrs just coz of joint family ...she concentrated on naitik n business coz she knew ki her mil is dere to tc of duggu ...
g3 has just over pampered duggu ...although she has alwaz pampered duggu ...but after naitik going to coma ...duggu was d only one dere n dere only happiness so everyone in d house pampered him ...ek ne kuch kaha to second person came to pamper him ...n he never gotta realize if he has done sth rong ...
n dis happens in most of d family ...ek daantega to doosra manaayega ...so d kids automatically bcum stubborn ...koi ek unki baat nhi maanega to doosra maanega ...
but yes d only thing dat can b done to avoid dis is ki irrepective of hw much to luv d kid dont give up to his unreasonable demand ...
in d show also dj never said anything to g3 or bm in front of kids ...just to make sure ki kids respect dem ...but g3 failed dere ...she never allowed akshara to handle duggu her way ...alwaz imposed her deciaions on her ...so nw duggu has bcum a kinda person for whom only he is ryt ...he cant stand anyone denying him or speaking against him ...which is a very rong habit ...although he is at such a age ki he can b moulded ...so he ll change

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

sry for such a long post

hehehe!😃

Im 4rm a joint family woh bhi typical joint family,dada dadi,chachas chachi's every1.my bachpan i don't rmbr but ya joint family wll have no no privacy,whnevr i was scolded are something i always had one are the othr in support but this never took me in wrong direction ,i was never never stubborn Instead i have been taught to earn up things i want,but ya i have bro how is the youngest of all ,he was just pampered endlessly was given everything he want which really spoilt him up ,i can see his shadow in duggu, yet personally i love joint family its always fun ,and life seems to be way good,it do have its disadvantages
now i really want to see how will naksh handled duggu and whts solution for it

Originally posted by: DevvivekAshNI

Lol u changd ur name? Y? Eh. Ya i agree . I always lovd joint family but didnt got chance as all live alag alag places.

ya...i changed my username.because i like changes😆...

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

ohhh u changed ur user name ...i dint notice dat earlier ...
i ve also never got d chance to live in joint family ...
everything has its advantages n disadvantages ...
no doubt duggu has bcum spoilt due to joint family only but it is also true ki akshara was able to stand dose four yrs just coz of joint family ...she concentrated on naitik n business coz she knew ki her mil is dere to tc of duggu ...
g3 has just over pampered duggu ...although she has alwaz pampered duggu ...but after naitik going to coma ...duggu was d only one dere n dere only happiness so everyone in d house pampered him ...ek ne kuch kaha to second person came to pamper him ...n he never gotta realize if he has done sth rong ...
n dis happens in most of d family ...ek daantega to doosra manaayega ...so d kids automatically bcum stubborn ...koi ek unki baat nhi maanega to doosra maanega ...
but yes d only thing dat can b done to avoid dis is ki irrepective of hw much to luv d kid dont give up to his unreasonable demand ...
in d show also dj never said anything to g3 or bm in front of kids ...just to make sure ki kids respect dem ...but g3 failed dere ...she never allowed akshara to handle duggu her way ...alwaz imposed her deciaions on her ...so nw duggu has bcum a kinda person for whom only he is ryt ...he cant stand anyone denying him or speaking against him ...which is a very rong habit ...although he is at such a age ki he can b moulded ...so he ll change

@bold...yuppp...every1 should understand this thing😊...

Originally posted by: janhavi58

i wont say children in joint family are stubborn and pampered and those of nuclear family are well behaved, coz i have come across which was opposite to this.

Younger kids are mostly more pampered so that they dont cry and throw tantrums. Having cousins or siblings is actually an advantage, kids get to know the importance of relations, the value of sharing things is learnt otherwise duggu jaise hota hai, tune mera toy kyun toda and stuff

Its everything about the atmosphere at home, how do elders behave wen kids are wrong , do they neglect it or do they rectify the mistakes done by kids, explain them wat is right is wrong.

If u neglect it kids wont understand and they end up doing it again and again.

Its better to strike while iron is hot, so they dont repeat it.

ya...agree wid u...!!!