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Originally posted by: sona_naksh
hello asawari ...i was missing ur long posts frm a long time, so thnx u decided to post...do continue it in future also...
Glad to know that there still some ppl who miss my long boring post...😃😆coming back to pt...i as usual agree wid each n every word of urs...till d time naitik-shaurya ver fighting over nbusiness it was quite digestable but in dat argument it was shaurya who who crossed d maryada of his relationship wid naitik n dat time jab shaurya ne uske puraane zakhmo ko kureda naitik reacted likewise though he was rude but it was quite obvious for him to react like dat in such situation...I agree, Shaurya was rude, no very rude but that does not nullify Naitik's mistake or faults. Naitik didn't kept quiet, he too reacted and I don't blame him for that anyone in his shoes would have done the same including moi. But, to say that it is only Shaurya's fault and Naitik is saint just cause Shaurya spoke some rude, harsh words then I don't agree with it. You can't clap with one hand there needs o be two.i agree akshara tried talking to naitik but he was very angry so he denied dat time but after dat akshara also dint try talking to him...n dj was also pressurising naitik for d patch up whereas on d other hand shaurya was getting to hear frm varsha wat he wanted to hear n frm rest he was nt talking n dey also dint pressurize him...so at home after crossing d limits also shaurya is nt getting any sort of bad treatment or daant frm his elders...@Bold- How are you suppose to talk to a person who presumes that you are against him????Mind you, I'm not blaming anyone here neither Naitik nor Akshara. The situation became such that they reacted in the way they did.\
- Naitik from the minute of the fight presumed that Akshara won't understand him and stand by her maayka ppl which she never indicated in any of her act.
- She tried to talk to him immediately after the fight which he denied.
- Then, she tried making him and Shaurya to talk it out by preparing lunch for them, which didn't materialize cause of Shaurya's ego. Which angered Naitik even more. Was it Akshara's fault??
- Naitik misunderstood her that she went to meet Shaurya and blamed her for taking his side without allowing Akshara to present her side of story. Even after this, She didn't mind his shouting and anger cause she understood what was he going through.
- When Shaurya was ill, Akshara saw her hubby complaining to his mom that Shaurya was acting to be ill. She was scared to even call Varsha to inquire how her brother was.
- One thing or the other lead them to the situation where normal talks were awkward.
- I agree, that when Naitik was trying to be normal with her the other day she reacted in the most immature way.
@Bold- Yup, I agree that Singhania elders were unreasonable while dealing with Naitik. When he wanted to pour his heart out no one wanted to listen and they were just pushing him to sort out the issue without knowing the root of it. But then you can't expect anything sensible from Singhania's...😆@Bold- As I already said that it was easier for Varsha as she is just the wife in this situation not anyone's daughter or sister.at d meet for d soln also wen shaurya said d same thing...vish although dint mean it but due to selection of wrong words was interpreted wrong hurted naitik more ...I agree...words once spoken cannot be taken back. Vish needed to be extra careful careful as his son was ruining the life long relationship with his sharp words.i agree in dis situation akshara did nt commit any fault as she has her dear ones on both sides n does nt want to hurt or loose any1 but she unknowingly she in front of naitik she seemed 2 support shaurya which even worsened d conditions...I don't know when she showed Naitik that she favours Shaurya more??😕 In my opinion, She was more neutral in this situation than anyone else..😆on d other hand naitik is in a state of mind where he has been targeted again n again n dats y he is very hurt n dis is cuming out in form of anger frm him...I agree, that he is hurt, frustrated et all and removing it all on Akshara as she is the closest to him but that does not mean Akshara is to be blamed for the situation.no offence to any1...
No offence taken..😆
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