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Originally posted by: Polki_Zofi

Your Geography is very good 😊. Although Bulgaria is nearer, but it had no touch with our culture or tradition. We are more similar to Czech or Slovak... you know, the "Slavic" states.

yeah, yeah.. i do realise it now..😆 i have not visited europe, just one country, bulgaria.. otherwise i have heard, it's a beautiful place!😃

Yes, in december it gets really cold and very gloomy because of that. We are more refreshed in the spring 😆. But, comparatively to India or other places in Europe too, Polish people tend to live within themselves.

it's okk perhaps, to live like that.. every place follows a different culture and why should poland be left behind..😊

Our population is very low, and we tend to be less social. But we have lovely towns, parks, gardens 😊, good streets and good environment to live in.

i think more than bonding, infrastucture should be strenghthened at a large scale.. here in india, there's so much poverty - it hurts to see that..

but even then, i love the fact that we people celebrate our joys and sorrows together, no matter what the circumstances may be!😊

Yes, Fanaa was filmed in Poland, maybe because Kashmir is a cold place (with lots of mountains), and Poland is even more cold with many mountains 😆. Kashmir is a disputed land I think, and so maybe they didnt risk to make a movie there.

Thank you so much for the translation 😊😳, you are much talented. Where you live?

hehehe thanks for the compliment!😃

i stay in delhi, india.. im a rajasthani otherwise, but we live in delhi..😃

Originally posted by: Polki_Zofi

I understand, the bondings between relationships are precious. Europe is not the same.

I found many unique experiences in India. My in-laws also live in Delhi, we have a home there 😊. I am not sure the street name 😆, but its near Connaught Place I think, its Hailey Road maybe. My husband is on his way from work, so I will ask later 😊.

oh really? that's great..😃 im very poor with roads di.. i know where connaught place, but im not too sure about Hailey Road.. actually, the whole connought circle is so damn confusing that i forget the names of roads easily..😆

I will be in India next winter, maybe then I can go Rajasthan. Last time I were in India, I visited UP (my father in laws ancestral home). India gets so hot in Summer, and I get rashes without car AC and some shield . My skin don't have much melanin, and so it is not too good with the sun . Once, in Delhi, I came out in Sun on July, to visit the Lotus Temple ... and I was red like tomato, and my arms had rashes . Also back ... its painful. I don't get much tan, and when I get, it don't stay for long.

don't ask di.. India gets way too hot during summers.. that's why people here are a bit dusky.. the scorching summer heat.. i remember going to school was a tough task..

yeah it is certainly advisable to you to visit india only in winter.. Poland is a cold country, therefore u won't feel the cold.. but here, people say delhi's winters are also very harsh..😆

In Poland we remember those days when I heard the grand parent people were all having families. We lost it somewhere, but the youth (specially girls) wish there was more consistency.

A strange thing I noticed in India, among the youth ... some feel that their family value or authentic way of life is very regressive. They wish to follow hollywood! Some of them infact prefer live in relationships than marriages. Some movies I saw, which seem to suggest it. I was a bit surprised, because these are the same things we in Poland feel so tired and horrified about nowadays.

sadly enough, this is the reality.. the youth here is aping the west like anything!😲 they don't realise that people out there long for our culture and they are like just trying to shed off the burden og being an Indian..

i never associate moderninty with culture.. infact, amongst my peers, im still very conservative! i firmly believe that a woman is the beare of her house and she should not rely on her man to do so! a modern woman should be able to work, as well as take care of her household in an equally efficient manner.. too bad, the definiton of 'modernity' has changed here di..😔 the people out here feel that being modern refers to wok hard, party harder and leave the kids and the home in the hands of servants..

live-in relationship, well im strongly, strongly against it.. im sure there would be few people who would agree with me, but sadly enough only a small fraction of society thinks like me.. well i respect their views, but personally, this is not something i'd suggest someone of doing!

the films, well - they're crap.. really.. barring a few meaningful films, the other are just rubbish, really..

it is so so so nice to talk to you Di.. it's great to know you better and better with each post!😃

Originally posted by: Polki_Zofi

😆😃 ... today I was following the posts in this forum. Just reading as my little one just slept, and the big one (my husband) checking accounts.

Its interesting that Akshara now had her son Duggu, and she even found some sociopath lover for her 😆... well, I guess the show people add these stuff to make things exciting.

Yeah absolutely! but i must tell you, YR is much, much toned down when we compare to other serials..😲 in others shows that were really famous, people marry, get divorced and then marry again! people die, come back and then die again!😲🤣 not as a YR fan im saying this, but even generally, YR is almost sans drama.. just daily life situations mixed with a few twists and turns to make the story intriguing!😊 no vamps, no over the top drama, just simple and sober..😃

My cousin had such a man once calling her. At first she thought it was her boyfriend (and they are engaged now). But later she was confused. He used to call her, and then hung up. It scared her to death and she informed the police, who never really got hold of the person who used to call. Later, strangely, when the neighbors left for the UK (as the husband of the neighbor family got a job there), suddenly the call stopped. The neighbor family was a man his wife and twins. Now my sister remembers that she used to get calls only on weekends. Many other things make her feel it was the neighbor man.

Its so wicked really. Who needs ghosts when such people are around?

how true it is Di.. people just don't care about others these days.. and issues like stalking and rapes are some of the horrendous crimes one can commit.. i find murder holier than these rapes and other cases which we hear of..

If a girl is unfortunate enough to get a stalker, life can take the most miserable turns. So its sometimes best to keep the "smile" away 😉😆😃...

Life is so unpredictable di.. but it really hurts when life takes a complete u-turn when you're nowhere at fault..😔

I learn so much about India from you! How is the temperature now? ... Hailey street is near canning street, which is near AP Bhawan and Ashoka Road 😃 ... God bless I don't know so much really. All I know is that we have home there, my in laws live, its a nice secure and clean little place to be in. I used to really get scared of Delhi dogs though 😕.

Temperature is reaching new heights everyday di.. just don't ask.. 47 degree Celsius - the highest this summer.. even on somewhat cooler days, temperature lurks around 45-46 degrees very easily.. it's too damn hot here..

yeah i know Ashoka Road..😃 Hailey Road must be around, never been there..😊 dogs, and even cows.. though the municipal authority is really working hard on making Delhi animal free..😆

Contrary to many websites, I never got too many stares for being a white girl in Delhi.

You are lucky to have married a guy who lives in Delhi..😆 Delhi, since it is the capital, is more advance than other cities of India, and ofcourse, cleaner too..😃 in other states like UP and Bihar and some more, people are really like that - you know, those see-a-foriegner-and-exploit-her types..

I've seen other white people around. However, ofcourse, when in those shopping places like Nehru Place or another such place which I forget ... the little street urchin or begger would surround be. I still vividly remember, I once gave my half eaten icecream, and I was surrounded. Later I gave some money, and more came... my husband warned me but I was foolishly saddened... later we literally had to run to the car! ... they actually ran after me, until some policeman (or guard) came to stop, but even they couldnt and I ran off to the car and we drove away 😆😃 ... I've not donating anything anymore in Delhi streets thats for sure 😆

hahaha, these street urchins very well understand us - who will give them something and who will not..😆

Originally posted by: Polki_Zofi

Thank you so much for all the news moon 😊. I couldn't respond earlier as you know, with a little baby it is sometimes like this, plus my husband was home for 2 days! He does business so when there is a holiday and when its time to work is very random 😆. When we are all at home, we dont even watch TV 😆.

But I miss the new songs and dances, the folk ones. If they show more such songs can you upload the youtube link please?

I don't watch the show now, still I can follow from here 😳, but I surely wish to see the songs 😉