~~DOTW 6th Jan 2012~~ - Page 3

awesome DOTW ss..! i forgot to comment here :( sowie!
superb post..

res awsome discussion topic saru di will comment after eating 😆

Originally posted by: naksh-SnN

The parents get their children married n also a couple comes to the conclusion that ok its time 4 us to become one is when they feel mature enough to manage their affairs by them selves so parents interfering in to the children life is not very good the best way is to keep a distance then it helps to keep the relationships going rather than making them bitter

mainly parents must know that they a big enough to know what right n what suits 4 them so interfering more is not good let them live the way they want but this does not mean that they can not correct them but they should know there limits

Distance brings everyone closer... well said

Originally posted by: Apoorshan_ilma

Distance brings everyone closer... well said

Even if everyone are together, if all knows their limits upto where they can interfere in others matters it will be fine... but this is the ideal case may be very few can be able to do it...

Originally posted by: saru.g

Even if everyone are together, if all knows their limits upto where they can interfere in others matters it will be fine... but this is the ideal case may be very few can be able to do it...

yes saru it is d ideal case as it is said jahan 4 bartan honge khankenge hi but stil i feel staying apart is d only option wen al d xtreme limits r crosed n 4 staying each n every has 2 n shud make reqd adjustments n help in maintaining peace n affection in d family

Originally posted by: pree4ru

Nice topic Saru this is biggest question not oly in show but faced in real life too...
After marriage ppl say girls life is changed but boys life also equally changes before marriage they can spend time with friends go around having fun with them but after mariage it changes so changes happen equally,coming to becoming sandwich well Naitik a person who is frank and tells things he feels he doesnt think what will the person he is talking to will think and akshara is person who want evryone to happy she doesnt want anyone specially gaya3 to feel that his son has changed bcoz of akshara in this process she hurts naitik indirectly hurts him,she thinks gaya3 wont understand as much as Naitik does .Gaya3 unka kya kehna😆she is just like a small kid sabko wahi karna chaiye jo woh chahe nahi kiya toh bas hogaya 😆aur sab aise hi hote hai ab yeh bhi pati-patni par depend karta hai as kuch log cant stand and complain and kuch dont so it depends on nature of the wife and husband pati jake maa ko bolta hai ya samjhata hai is on him 😃

u said it right pree... even boys life also changes... his priorities changes... that too if they live in a joint family and have mother like G3, then he will be like a sandwich between the two... may be he has to be careful while handling both... n also BM and DJ being elders in the family or atleast RB should say G3 that she has to give some freedom for her son n bahu... y dont these 3 elders make her to understand... BM goes with whatever G3 says... she being elder its her responsibility to say G3 dat some things should be left for the children to decide on their own...