are naitik's fears justified?

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JAYA_09

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Guys thisa cc synop naksh may be in MU again nk may eb not able tell ak or,ak mite able to ask nk y he is angry or fer,so this week end vl not be good .may be first three synop is good not last one 13th oct nk ka tho watt lagne wala fans se if he is not chgned or may be ak aslo may be get bashing [hahaha]she is not able to understand week days vl be good but not week end dear

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Charu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: --Sari--
hhi he didnt say he dont want become a father dear only he fear more alreadyak not giving him enough time,if baby comes he saw his friends life changed completely dear.so he is ready to be a father,but fear for his life going to get changed.

Nope, it's not that Naitik never wants a baby. Naitik has always been supportive during the MC & now again during the first few months of this pregnancy. All of a sudden, Naitik who has been the voice of reason is suddenly fearful😕

It's not a justified track by the CV's. Yes, before the MC, he wasn't sure but during this second pregnancy, Naitik having second thoughts is not justified at least for me. Some fear is justified coz it's a whole new experience for any parent but I think in Naitik's case this time I thought he was more ready than Akshara.

he never had second thoughts abt having the baby 😕 but getting tensed tht the baby will do this n this is just so foolish 🤢 whenever he will have a baby, he/she is gonna be like this only and changes will occur in his life...he doesn't share good rapport with the kids (many ppl. do not) but that won't be the case with his child...this he will understand only when the child comes..

when he shed his bachelor status, he was confused but then didn't he adjust? he did...abhi bhi he will and woh bhi khushi se...the base of his fear can also be that akshara never had time for him and now toh he cannot even ask/complain ! toh in a way his life is finished...kid brings in new set of responsibilities and obviously husband wife take a backseat...everything starts and end with the baby...the husband has to show more understanding towards his wife bec. she's totally stressed out, for min. 2 years n uske baad 2nd baby 😆 this is what family life is..abhi bhi if they will show naitik booking tickets for maate (surprise movie 🤢) or planning a get together with friends and maate doesn't oblige , then i will break my tv 🤢 on a positive note, hopefully ,i wud have left YR for good 👍🏼

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JAYA_09

@JAYA_09

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Posted: 13 years ago

#63

i agree charu yaa, its true after his marraige he is nto even ready to share his cupboard they had a huge argument,and wehn coem to nk's room renovation alos he had problem but allowed ak to do it.

def he vl eb good father i feel but oct 13th sp synop really felt y he get angry on youngsters and ak gettign shocked .

i dotn understand may eb ak should make him understand or he should confront his i fear or porblems with ak correct na

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San

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Posted: 13 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: _charu_

hoping for the best dear but what makes u think akshara will be a gr8 mom? 😕 bec. she loves kids? love for the child automatically comes in each girl when they become a mother ! which mother does not love her child? her way of tackling problems is totally unrealistic ! agree to whatever the other person is saying to keep him happy ! how far is this succesful? pehle gayitri, daddaji and now her children ! gayitri is always right bec. woh ma hai...bache ko sab karne do bec, woh toh bacha hai...n in the case of kids, this comes naturally..we agree to their demands hence making them more stubborn and more naitik like 😆 is gayitri a good mother? munna munna munna..SICK 🤢 in this regard, shaurya n varsha are a far better couple and will make better parents..more so bec. the family atmosphere in M house is better than S's ! also bec. shaurya is very particular abt certain things and he makes himself clear n varsha also understands him and listen to him !

i think rational thinking is what is missing in maate...parenthood does not mean motherhood ! the role of naitik as a parent should also be emphasized here...nobody can balance perfectly but it should not be one sided also...i dun mind watching transformation of naitik from naitik to rajbanna 😆 but what abt akshara? she'll become a confused personality..a good combo of rajshri+gayitri+dadi !

great reading your opinion but the best part 1st -----Akshi as a combo of G3+Rajshri+ Dadi well if she can get a bit of dadi------I would be very happy. She recalls dadi's words so many times but I dont know if she implements them. But for me-----I feel akshi can be a good mom considering the fact that she has taken steps to become a greta mom--started writing a diary. I dont mean that itself can make her e good mom. but the 1st step taken is an important thing done. we ill see more of it---------hopefully. even if ' love for the child automatically comes in each girl when they become a mother ' I feel that akshi had this quality since long. not that she just loved ananya---but her love for other children have been potrayed on and off... thta time she wasnt gonna be a mother. well we need to see. I am very hopeful of seeing a great mom in akshi-----------& not to forget with the support of naitik... we r already on the line...naitik's initial hitch will make him more freindly with children in due course of time. Cant say anything about this----------------' transformation of naitik from naitik to rajbanna 😆'--------but yes surely I can imagine it & laugh too

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smrth

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Posted: 13 years ago

#65

Hi Kaumudi,

I wanted to reply earlier on this thread- some reflection on how men feel in general, esp. Naitik. But didn't get enf time...but today's episode (13^th Octo.) covered mostly all that I wanted to say- so reflection with corroborations?!😃 Cvs were really good today (why so rarely?!😕👏😕)...script, leg pulling, all with a strong undercurrent of mutual bonding...much realistic too, this is more near to how a young couple would behave, especially one who are experiencing first sensations of blessed bliss...

Yes, On surface, Munna baba is baffled. He doesn't want 'competition'!😆😆 spousal attention is bound to take a plunge, demands will be greater😲...Undisputed 'Lion prince' of the house will be dethroned and hence perplexed😃...but circle of life is inexorably moving and cub is himself turning a ferocious protector if his beloved or an oncoming progeny is so much as remotely threatened. It's natural and instinctive. You need not be even a recognized champion!... 'Munna' is slipping into history and 'Naitik' is emerging singular...There will be many trials and travails. Some personal sacrifices and lots of anxiety; 'how is the baby feeling, is it alright?' ... 'why is he/her not feeding or why is he so restless?' 'Is he growing well?' Is it alright to medicine?... ' Oh God! Make him able to communicate quickly-at least able to say what ails him'...The nights are half slept and days are half tuned to home...BUT, over and above all these, when you saw your loved one with an indescribable joy of fulfilled motherhood, her face glowing with a maternal pride, her bundle of joy safe and secure in her lap you don't even remember those discomfits...You simply want to dare any challenge and ward off any exposure that comes their way...The day feels like made, when tender skin touches you, or an unfocused stare tries to define you and store in his pristine memory as a recognized figure and then gives a small smile through red, unteethed lips as a great favour!😛...The future is worth its all struggles...

In Mumbai, On way to airport, at the flyover of Western express highway towards Sea link bridge, there is a mother- child sculpture with a cute cliche... " A child gives birth to a mother"...turn it little for Naitik (or any other father)... " A baby prepares a father too!"...

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smrth

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Posted: 13 years ago

#66

More on Thursday...Akshara too is evolving. Her managerial or Naitik reading skills are improving. She was thrilled at her man's sudden outburst though not out rightly surprised- she interprets it correctly. How sustained she stays is another matter...G3 is somewhat mellowed but it appears somewhat like a concessional indulgence to 'breeder' of her pota...How indulgent she stays after arrival of baby is another matter. Though, better she stays less interfering, more a vigilant supporter in background, like Dadi, unlikely though. Two matriarchs' constant 'mothering' to the pregnant bahu is now turning OTT instead of a pampering. Meanwhile Nikhilji somehow spells 'trouble', every time he enters the frame...

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Shanthi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Nice post.

Well, Naitik has always been a possessive and quick to get angry if things don't work out the way he wants. So he will have a tough time adjusting to the amount of time Akshara spends with the baby. One hopes eventually he will become a good father.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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sari dii.. thanks for commenting, though we all know u have left YR behind..😊

sandhya di, charu di, and jaya di.. great discussion..👍🏼

divi di..😡 it's been ages since i opened this thread.. edit ur post ASAP!😆

@sImu.. thanks for commenting..😊 n i do agree with u.. but then i guess he's habitual of that now.. his wife doesn't give him time even before the arrival of baby..😆 after the baby is born? all his expectations will be futile..😆

samarth bhai..🤗

where were u these days? u missed my 18th birthday as well..😭 u know i'l be active only till mid-november, after that will go on a hibernation till march because of my exams.. truely speaking, this was thread was made only for u.. coz only once in a while im lucky enough to have a chat with u..😛

so, again.. an awesome post! loved the quote u wrote at the end.. it brought a smile to my face..😊 yess, yesterday's episode was a beautiful one.. the way akshara handled the awkwardness of naitik post that dhishum dhishum..😆 loved her dialogue as well.. 'u don;t know, but i know this very well that it was ur love towards the baby and me which forced u to behave in such a manner'.. great job on this Dimri!👏

u put it soo right samarth bhai, munna is now becoming a thing of past, and naitik is surfacing to the horizon.. hope Dimri does no mistake this time..😕

about g3, only this comes my mind - too much of anything is bad - even if it is love.. (i used to say this about cong. earlier, par now she isn't getting enough screen space - i miss her😉 toh thought of chipka-oing this line on g3😆)

nikhil, sorry did not notice him.. was busy drooling over munna/naitik..😍😆

Edited by moonlight08 - 13 years ago