is akshara an ideal bahu and patni? - Page 2

Originally posted by: --Sari--

I think they are compromising Akshara's character so that the actor who plays G3 can have a major role🤢 The only other plausible explanation would be that the creative seriously believes marriage is about keeping your m-i-l happy; ghar mein shanthi banaye rakne maybe😕

But until what point? Kabhi na kabhi the husband will give up & just go about his business This whole week Akshara has given indications like it's going to be about the baby & maa. Abhi se yeh haal, tho bacchonke aane ke baad...😲

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Akshara's heart is in the right place, but her actions speak differently particularly when it come to Naitik. She strives to the 'ideal' bahu, which in her mind seems to be one who serves her family & is always there to pick-up the slack--its beyond being a perfectionist...I equate her to a marathon runner--she keeps going & going for each member of the household, BUT when it comes to Naitik (in that final mile of the marathon), she is exhausted & he has to make do with what little reserves she's got left--which in most instances is next to nothing & is mostly negative (tears, rude remarks, the golgappa face)...

Coming to the point of G3, she is absolutely insolent & amazingly self absorbed when it comes to her son & d-i-l...I agree with Sari; I think the CVs have (unnecessarily) given Sonali Verma a bigger role than she should have...G3's behavior most of the time is no different than that of a 5 year old's... I know, I am the mother of one! I can say my son behaves better than her on most days...Akshara has no choice but to put up with this sort of childishness which everyone has to endure, but she faces the brunt of it...

Naitik now comprehends that his mother is difficult & that his wife has a lot to put up with...he sees it from both ends...but yes, Akshara has to make a concerted effort to channel some of her positive energy into Naitik...her Maaa is in her life because of him, afterall...😵

Anyway, I like that she has a surprise planned for him for their anniversary...finally a step in the right direction...

Originally posted by: harinihari

😊😊i can't agree tis sometimes it may seem tat is not sharing her views vth naitik but c always want 2 c naitik happy tat is true fact c is ideal as patini and bhau and even beti😊

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Can anyone be ideal bahu or patni? No, we are all human & sometime or the other we will fall short in some aspects. If the expectations are really low, maybe.


But in Akshara's case the S's have such high expectations for their bahu & so does Naitik from his wife. Balancing the 2 sides is not as easy it seems & clearly Akshara falls short from time to time. It's very human😊


There is no way Akshara can be both an ideal bahu & an ideal patni considering her circumstances. She wants to be a perfectionist when it comes to her in-laws tho kahi na kahi she has to compromise on her relationship with her husband, hoping that he would understand. If Naitik does, good for her👍🏼 If not, like we have seen in the past, we will have MU's galore😆


Once in a while she needs to stop trying so hard, let it go & try to be more of an ideal patni & less of an ideal bahu & just enjoy the moment😳 😍 It's only fair to Naitik especially with a snooty saas like G3😆

Originally posted by: gutky

Completely agree wid u di...👏 nobody can be perfect here.. we all have our share of flaws n hence theres no shame to admit it too..😉😆

Akshi's philosophy of happy life lies in others happiness.. and than be it anyone her inlaws, her mayka ppl including outsiders like sneha.. She always think, act n analyze by keeping herself in other person's shoes n perspective... she never intend to hurt anybody's sentiment n gets easily carried away in emotions.. n in this process she completely overlook her needs and wants.. now same things she's started with naitik too.🥱 Cant say if she's right or wrong coz at some point of time we'll come across such situation where it's a tug of war between mother, son n bahu... I think only solution to this problem is to keep quiet 😆

Initial 3-4 months each and every girl needs to adjust n give her 100% so that its easy for her to dwell in new environment n hence she looks for help n guidance but after a period of time maturity comes automatically. But here even after completing 2 years to her marriage she's still clueless n cant differentiate situations? ...😲 Nobody here is blind or immature to understand wats right or wrong?? Naitik is very much aware of her mother's troublesome n unpredictable nature.. let him sort out his indifferences in opinion alone but don't know why she always needs to get involved into the arguments unnecessarily.. n prove herself as MAATE

Every house same story... Problem arises when we fail to ignore small small issues n take it to heart.. .. coz if someone protects his self esteem n respect and make himself loud n clear he's referred as egoistic (like Naitik) n if one scarifies all her feelings and emotions for other's sake she is referred as timid n dumb..(like our beloved akshi) 🤢 or else u should be blessed enough to portray your view in such a way that its impossible for others to negotiate it in any terms.. like PAYAL 😎 🤣

Kisi ki team change hone wali hai...

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Can anyone be ideal bahu or patni? No, we are all human & sometime or the other we will fall short in some aspects. If the expectations are really low, maybe.


But in Akshara's case the S's have such high expectations for their bahu & so does Naitik from his wife. Balancing the 2 sides is not as easy it seems & clearly Akshara falls short from time to time. It's very human😊


There is no way Akshara can be both an ideal bahu & an ideal patni considering her circumstances. She wants to be a perfectionist when it comes to her in-laws tho kahi na kahi she has to compromise on her relationship with her husband, hoping that he would understand. If Naitik does, good for her👍🏼 If not, like we have seen in the past, we will have MU's galore😆


Once in a while she needs to stop trying so hard, let it go & try to be more of an ideal patni & less of an ideal bahu & just enjoy the moment😳 😍 It's only fair to Naitik especially with a snooty saas like G3😆