Naksh Argument...:-( - Page 2

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

When I woke up this morning...I saw lot of threads blaming Naitik...defending Naitik etc etc...I got lil confuse where to post my views...😕 so here I am...😆
Charu Di I read ur post in one of these threads...I simply loved it the way u wrote...😃🤗
Chalo enough of my bak bak lets come back to the topic...😆😆
As far as y'day's argument goes I think both r wrong and right at the same time. Its high time Naksh should understand each other or atleast try to... Naitik should understand Akshara is not only his wife but also the bahu of the house and Akshara should also understand that she is bahu of the house only because she is Naitik's wife... Moral of the story is they need to maintain balance in their relationship...keeping aside their egos and stubborness. Today their relationship equilibrium was disturbed leading to this argument.
Akshara should know Naitik needs her love,care and attention not only in their bedroom but outside as well...only smp's won't do. Naitik should know Akshara has other house responsibilities as well...sply when he knows how rigid and paramparavadi his dino family is. Basically what went wrong y'day was they took each other for granted which normally happens in married couples life. Naitik thought Akshara will understand his irritation and frustration. Akshara thought Naitik will understand that she has work pressure. Sometimes you need to spell out and thats what happened but in a ugly way. In a way I am glad that they vomited out instead of keeping it inside which is more harmful. I just hope they don't become nasty in this blame game.
This is my POV...no offence intended... 😊

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Asawari, I agree w/u...just commented on this topic on Sab's thread. Honestly, I don't think the wedding is the right forum for these two to start tuning into each other's feelings in general...its a pressure cooker, yaar... I don't blame Aksh for trying to defend herself & all her responsibilities (even though the wedding is not the right venue to do this, but she felt compelled to.) However, I do believe, that Aksh should have been sensitive to Naitik & his RR hangup...she should have privately talked to Mohit or anyone else abt her concern; she knows RR is the one person who sets Naitik off completely, (and to make things worse, inadvertently, Naitik was alienated from the conversation, where all the other younger members of the family were present!) I think It would be like Gma commenting to someone within Aksh's earshot that Aksh did not follow thru on a given responsibility--it would tear her apart!

Originally posted by: moonlight08

yar di..

ek aur topic.??

ab aur kya likhu..

but i agree with u..

taali ek haath se nhi bajti..

galti dono ki ho sakti hai..

but has akshara ever tried to understand why is naitik so irritated.?? kaam kaam kaam kaam.. saara din kaam.?? do pal nhi hai uske pas apne pati ke liye..

this is what i wrote in some other thread..😛

"naitik is just irritated..

i mean he fractured his foot with absolutely no fault of his.. he has an eye infection.. everyone at his house thinks he's just good for nothing.. to bechara kya karega.. to top it all.. he overheard akshara telling RR that he cannot do anything..

he's just so frustrated.. angry.. and hurt ki use kuch samajh hi nhi aa rha hai.. i don't blame him for this.. it's all very spontaneous and natural.. yeah.. kuch words bahut harsh the.. but he's angry.. u cannot stop ur emotions!!

but yes.. akshara could have made him feel better.. instead of saying naitik aap aaram kariye.. she could have framed the sentence in some other way.. just shifting of some words were required.. akshara has organised the wedding.. kudos!! but wedding hai to kya her personal life takes a back seat?? shadi ki tayariyon mein use ye to dhyaan raha ki kaki pareshaan hai.. anshu kahi hai nhi.. to use ye dhyan kyon nhi rha ki naitik is also there and he's also equally tensed.. if not more than kaki.. just few words of appreciation, care was enough to make naitik realise that akshara was still there for him..

but nhi.. our maate chose to solve anshu's problems (unnecassarily) than her own husband's.. to ab koi kya kare.. naitik put it right.. akshara ko 7 kadam aage chalne ki adat hai.. obviously naitik would feel bad.. usne itne din sab seh liya.. obviously jab paani sir ke upar se jaaega to he would react.."

it got two likes..😉😛😆

Originally posted by: beautiful16

anji bt it was RR who came & started convo... aksh toh uske aas paas bhi nahi bhatakti... aur aise mein aksh kya karti??? 😕 shayad main bhi hoti toh yehi karti...

Originally posted by: --Nishita--

Agreed that RR came and started the convo...Aksh could have told him that if he wanted the girls side to win then he could go and get it. The convo should have stopped there...there was no need to bring Naitik into the picture (as he was not the only guy there...Shaurya and Mohit were also part of the group). I understand it was said unintentionally but looking at Naitik's current state of mind, he was bound to get annoyed

Originally posted by: beautiful16

👏 exactly my views... 😃😃😃 ab aur kuch bolna nahi bas dono pyaar se suljha lo itna hi kaafi hai mere liye...😃

Originally posted by: Tafseer

hum teeno ki soch kitni milti hai...😃 u toh know what are my views, exactly like urs so i would consider ki Ashi ne mere mann ki baat keh di...😃

Originally posted by: beautiful16

haan tilu bt these thngs cant b controlled yaa...is it??? & naitik kya itna bhi jaanta aksh ko? he is blaming her for evrythng evn varmaala which was totally his fault... 😔

Originally posted by: beautiful16

😆 haan baba jaanti hu... hehe
i really loved ashi post... mast likhi hai... exactly wat we talk.. hai na??

Originally posted by: --Nishita--

There has always been a communication gap in their relationship...neither of them understand each other. One thing I could not understand was that why were they arguing at the wedding? 😕. Also, every single thing Naitik wanted could not happen...it started with Chandini then the necklace he wanted to get for Rashmi phir uska taang toot gaya. He wanted the decorations as per his taste but Aksh didnt like it...He wanted a particular varmala lekin Aksh wanted to have a say in that also. When somebody is being corrected at each and every step it isnt easy to deal with it...you either have to be so mature that you ignore all of it or you snap back and Naitik has done just that...some of his points were exaggerated and it hurt Aksh. Ab bas manane ki der hai 😳