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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Hinakshara
But dont u think so that this naksh matter is vry close 2 reality?i already seen these like arguments in real life.my own parents r best example.they always fights 4 vry small issues like our vry own naksh.but nxt day we can see all is well btw them.i think this is called life.it is normal btw couples.i think so.im loving naksh more.they r so real.

yes, fights r always for irrelevant issues...the time the couple have spent together doesn't matter..it actually gets worse with time bec. the patience runs out..intially we r able to adjust bec. we r prepared psycologically that we have to ! but not after a few years of marriage...

Although, i understand Naitik but he's acting stupid here...he should be knowing by now how akshara is, he was never her priority, she wants everything perfect and naitik is already set toh she's always busy looking after the other issues..she thinks naitik needs her in the bedroom only, the duty which she performs perfectly toh he should not be complaining...outside the bedroom, she's a bahu more than a wife & everything else takes precedence once she steps out ! yes she's a bahu and a wife but when did she learn to balance ?

he's mature enuf to understand that if he has a fractured foot, unluckily, he cannot do anything in his sister's marriage..yes, he can crib, which he's doing ! (i also reacted the same way in my brother's wedding..i was pregnant n cud not dance or do much work n endless cribbing resulted in endless misunderstandings..whoever talked to me thought that i'm angry with him 😆 ) BTW how is akshara supposed to make him feel better? hold his hand and make him do all the work ? 🤢 this IS a reality that he cannot move so be it...will this change by some chamatkar? no ! what will he get by moving around with a swollen face? nothing but repentence that he cud not enjoy Rashmi's wedding , at least thoda sa which was possible ! along with that he's spoiling maate's mood, who needs a reason to cry and crib tht nobody understands her.

Also, if he knows that RR was responsible, why not tell his family and maate? RR should be punished, he will be exposed..baat khatam.

Edited by _charu_ - 14 years ago

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Picasso9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

One big thing irking Naitik is the fact that his wife makes better arrangements than him. In typical Indian male mentality (most Indian men, not all) he doesn't want his wife to be more successful than him. That's why he used the line 'har baat mein mujhse aage nikalne chahiye'. His ego has been hurt. I am so sick of watching the male leads get away with everything on these serials, while the poor females leads run themselves ragged trying to do chores for the family and husband. Geez!!!!

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Deepshi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

i don't find anyone wrong...dono hi sahi hai...neither naitik nor akshara i wud say is wrong or correct...i find that naitik is truly irritated of the fracture n his eye infection n so he's cribbing over things...akshara where as is telling him to rest but not naitik's fault rr n mamaji are making him realise that he hasn't done anything...it has happened wid me...i also cribbed a lot...i'd got hurt on my head n had got stitches n my wound was svere n the time i got hurt our school was going on an annual picnic...i wanted to go but my teachers didn't allow me n whenever i used to go near the teachers to ask them sumthing they used to feel that i m touched n they used to say that they were sorry...😆leaving me apart in families it happens...very best example are our own parents who too have nok-jhok fr a min n the other min everything is f9...!

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Shweta agarwal

@shweta31

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

is baar mistake akshara ki thi bhale hi usne anjaane mai hi ki ho...par nhe jada nahi khichna chaiye is track ko aur jaldi se solve kar dena chaiye...

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shayal kumar

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

i think they both were right in diffrent ways so i dont think koi ke galthi hai agar kissi ke galthi hai toh sirf rituraj😡

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mahwishsolanki

@mahwishsolanki

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

actually naitik is n insecure and n immature husband who has a big ego problem n he has not realizd yet that if u need a successful marriage then u need to throw ur ego out of ur system...he all the time need praise n time of his wife which he doesnot realize that marriage is not only boy n a girl its the whole family bahu has to take care of...he will never grow up...n the main thing is that he doesnot trust his wife..he is over possessive at times he actually wants his wife only to meet those whom he likes otherwise he becomes insecure n fights...

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

naitik is just irritated..

i mean he fractured his foot with absolutely no fault of his.. he has an eye infection.. everyone at his house thinks he's just good for nothing.. to bechara kya karega.. to top it all.. he overheard akshara telling RR that he cannot do anything..

he's just so frustrated.. angry.. and hurt ki use kuch samajh hi nhi aa rha hai.. i don't blame him for this.. it's all very spontaneous and natural.. yeah.. kuch words bahut harsh the.. but he's angry.. u cannot stop ur emotions!!

but yes.. akshara could have made him feel better.. instead of saying naitik aap aaram kariye.. she could have framed the sentence in some other way.. just shifting of some words were required.. akshara has organised the wedding.. kudos!! but wedding hai to kya her personal life takes a back seat?? shadi ki tayariyon mein use ye to dhyaan raha ki kaki pareshaan hai.. anshu kahi hai nhi.. to use ye dhyan kyon nhi rha ki naitik is also there and he's also equally tensed.. if not more than kaki.. just few words of appreciation, care was enough to make naitik realise that akshara was still there for him..

but nhi.. our maate chose to solve anshu's problems (unnecassarily) than her own husband's.. to ab koi kya kare.. naitik put it right.. akshara ko 7 kadam aage chalne ki adat hai.. obviously naitik would feel bad.. usne itne din sab seh liya.. obviously jab paani sir ke upar se jaaega to he would react..

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Charu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Indomitable
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😡😡😡Well Said, i feel like giving tight slap to Naitik, Oh God he is so irritating, always waits for a situation to taunt Akshara, even today on such an auspicious & happy occasion also he didn't leave a stone to taunt Akshara neither allowed her to enjoy. I don't understand that this creep, good for nothing guy at last wants from Akshara. A special attention & appreciation from her in this busy situation also. If he is feeling inferior that he unable to perform his responsibilities properly then what's wrong in akshara, why always blame her. He doesn't have any guts to say RR but pours all his anger on Akshara. Why always he want's that Akshara shud understand him, for once can't he understand her situation. He is so selfish & what for he want attention & appreciation for his own sister's wedding. Well that is his duty & he shud not expect any thing. In fact akshara is the real credit taker & need to be appreciated the way she handled the situation. The way she adopted Naitik's family. It's not an easy task. Akshara never backed out of her responsibilities and duties towards Naitik & his family...👏👏But this dumb never understands. For once if he steps in the shoes of Akshara then he comes to know how hard task it is & for one day only he wud be pissed off...🤢

I really want that this time Akshara shudn't keep quite, she shud give a good answer to Naitik which shud be like giving a tight slap on his face that he shud never open his mouth in life time against akshara. And i also want that this time she shud never excuse Naitik for what he said & felt for akshara..If Naitik won't change his behivour & think maturely Akshara shouldn't talk to him...She shud show him that if she is not concerned for Naitik how his life wud be like a hell...

😆 haan, ye theek hai. this will solve all the problems b/w naksh. akshara should have slapped naitik instead of anshu.

Edited by _charu_ - 14 years ago

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Charu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: moonlight08
naitik is just irritated..
i mean he fractured his foot with absolutely no fault of his.. he has an eye infection.. everyone at his house thinks he's just good for nothing.. to bechara kya karega.. to top it all.. he overheard akshara telling RR that he cannot do anything..

he's just so frustrated.. angry.. and hurt ki use kuch samajh hi nhi aa rha hai.. i don't blame him for this.. it's all very spontaneous and natural.. yeah.. kuch words bahut harsh the.. but he's angry.. u cannot stop ur emotions!!

but yes.. akshara could have made him feel better.. instead of saying naitik aap aaram kariye.. she could have framed the sentence in some other way.. just shifting of some words were required.. akshara has organised the wedding.. kudos!! but wedding hai to kya her personal life takes a back seat?? shadi ki tayariyon mein use ye to dhyaan raha ki kaki pareshaan hai.. anshu kahi hai nhi.. to use ye dhyan kyon nhi rha ki naitik is also there and he's also equally tensed.. if not more than kaki.. just few words of appreciation, care was enough to make naitik realise that akshara was still there for him..

but nhi.. our maate chose to solve anshu's problems (unnecassarily) than her own husband's.. to ab koi kya kare.. naitik put it right.. akshara ko 7 kadam aage chalne ki adat hai.. obviously naitik would feel bad.. usne itne din sab seh liya.. obviously jab paani sir ke upar se jaaega to he would react..

super like ur post 👏