Akshara loves being miserable

Ok guys please dont attack me just listen to my point of view first.

Maybe the wedding planner might be fraud and do things wrong. Although if she has done big weddings for famous people and now she becomes fraud is ridiculous but in this serial anything can happen.

During Nanadini's wedding all the responsibilities were on akshara and she never got spend time with Natik. This time everything is taken care of her shoulders but still she is not happy. Who made her the next DJ. She is never happy. Like who cares what the wedding planner does it is not your wedding. It is your SIL wedding let her deal with everything and worry. At least this time when something goes wrong no one will blame her. She is worried about gifts because it is some kind of Vases or glasses like thats whay they wanted so why do u care. Why cant she just go to the parlor get manicures, facials and get ready for the wedding. Try to spend time with her hubby and just enjoy herself. She is just the younger version of Rajeshri. What 20+ her age would take that much stress for her in law's who will blame her if any little thing goes wrong. She is soo worried about the cost. Like they are making her go work and pay for the wedding. Whatever the cost, G3 and Rb saved their money to spend it on their kids so why is akshara so worried.

I am sorry guys but she just likes creating problems for herself. She likes being a victim and everyone blaming her. She cannot be happy herself and doesnt let natik be happy either. Like open up and have some fun at the wedding and let the wedding planner worry about everything. Isnt that they reason people appoint them so on the wedding day the bride and groom and their families dont have to worry about anything.

lol i think all the herione in these soaps like being miserable about from Toasty i like her character.

i agree that akshara is tensed. but there is a fact in that..singhaniyas are not modern people and they are strict about their parambaras. and if any one complain about their gifts which was given by the wedding planners it will affect the good will of the family..because of that akshi is tensed.akshara is shown as a perfect bahu who cares the family a lots, so she should be aware of every thing happening..

guysa every oen tellign askhi is wrong and never blaming natiik and gay3 how one can believe anyone not akshi yaar now see she vl be behind the chori happend in ss

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

I am finding lot of post in this forum pretty one sided. No offence to anyone but they come across as if they are only here to blame and find faults in everything that Akshara does...

I know the image of wedding planner is completely tarnished in YR but whatever they are showing my views are based on that...I think in all this wedding planner scenario Akshara is the only sane voice in the singhania household. I found Akshara's concern over the wedding planner issue the most sensible.First of all who will get a wedding planner 4 days before the wedding that too no-interference from the hirer kind...don't know about the others but I won't. I believe no matter how many big weddings for famous people the planner might have done...but its their responsibility to consult the hirer for each and everything cause every wedding is different from others...choices differs...culture differs etc etc. No person in their right frame of mind will leave everything to wedding planners choice...so Akshara questioning is perfectly fine with me. Singhania's is a joint family...where bedroom is only thing personal otherwise everything is everyones business. So what if it is Akshara's SIL wedding as a bahu of the family she is concerned about the preparations...at the end of it all if something messes up it is the reputation of the family which will be hurt not any individuals.

No doubt they have lot of money to spend but that does not mean they can spend carelessly. They are a joint family so its everyones money not a single family's or persons...so Akshara's concern about the spending on chindi sarees in the name of designer wears is also fine with me.Gifting coloured glass showpieces to Samdhi's on wedding this is what Deora's want...I doubt. Yeah I agree she gets tensed and is not able to let go...but this is her basic nature.

Gayatri ka samajh aata hai...she is not getting this whole wedding planner concept...Nothing has happened according to her wish but still she is so much into competing with Rama bahen ke ignorance is bliss for her. What surprises me more is Naitik's attitude.He was so tensed for Rashmi's marriage preparations that he hired planner and now he is least concerned about what the wedding planners are doing.Leave aside saree matter as he don't know anything about it but he is not finding anything weired in gifting coloured glass showpieces to Deora's. Somebody from the family have to keep an eye on the preparations handled by planners...Naitik and Gayatri are least interested so I dont find anything wrong if Akshara looks into the same. If the marriage preparation does not go smoothly Singhani'a will have to face all the embaressment.

This is my POV some ppl can agree or agree to disagree. No offence to anyone so plzzz no bashing.

Nice post Asawari

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

I am finding lot of post in this forum pretty one sided. No offence to anyone but they come across as if they are only here to blame and find faults in everything that Akshara does...

I know the image of wedding planner is completely tarnished in YR but whatever they are showing my views are based on that...I think in all this wedding planner scenario Akshara is the only sane voice in the singhania household. I found Akshara's concern over the wedding planner issue the most sensible.First of all who will get a wedding planner 4 days before the wedding that too no-interference from the hirer kind...don't know about the others but I won't. I believe no matter how many big weddings for famous people the planner might have done...but its their responsibility to consult the hirer for each and everything cause every wedding is different from others...choices differs...culture differs etc etc. No person in their right frame of mind will leave everything to wedding planners choice...so Akshara questioning is perfectly fine with me. Singhania's is a joint family...where bedroom is only thing personal otherwise everything is everyones business. So what if it is Akshara's SIL wedding as a bahu of the family she is concerned about the preparations...at the end of it all if something messes up it is the reputation of the family which will be hurt not any individuals.

No doubt they have lot of money to spend but that does not mean they can spend carelessly. They are a joint family so its everyones money not a single family's or persons...so Akshara's concern about the spending on chindi sarees in the name of designer wears is also fine with me.Gifting coloured glass showpieces to Samdhi's on wedding this is what Deora's want...I doubt. Yeah I agree she gets tensed and is not able to let go...but this is her basic nature.

Gayatri ka samajh aata hai...she is not getting this whole wedding planner concept...Nothing has happened according to her wish but still she is so much into competing with Rama bahen ke ignorance is bliss for her. What surprises me more is Naitik's attitude.He was so tensed for Rashmi's marriage preparations that he hired planner and now he is least concerned about what the wedding planners are doing.Leave aside saree matter as he don't know anything about it but he is not finding anything weired in gifting coloured glass showpieces to Deora's. Somebody from the family have to keep an eye on the preparations handled by planners...Naitik and Gayatri are least interested so I dont find anything wrong if Akshara looks into the same. If the marriage preparation does not go smoothly Singhani'a will have to face all the embaressment.

This is my POV some ppl can agree or agree to disagree. No offence to anyone so plzzz no bashing.

akhara apni jagah sahi hai...us wedding planner ka face dekhke saaf pata cal raha tha ki woh behka rahi hai...aur sahi mai itni light saaris to nahi achi lagengi gayatri ke character par...akshi ka sochna apni jagah sahi hai...

gayatri is the one wrong here and akshara is trying to control the reins...and even though she is nosy, she is the voice of reason as naitik only seems to have his mind on one thing these days,.