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Aparaajita Mehra

@aparakshitij

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Posted: 14 years ago

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All is seemingly well at the Singhanias' and Maheshwaris' right now. Atleast for the time being,we've got some relief from the Sneha-Sharda drama.Whereas,the Singhanias' have got the solution to their problem in the new jewellery designer.Naitik has realized that Akshara went to her mother's place,not bcoz she was angry,but bcoz Varsha was not well.So now he will try his best to bridge the gap between NaKsh.He's already taken the first step by planning to take Akshara out of town for a few days.Whereas,at the Maheshwaris',everyone is delighted as Rajshri has given her consent for Varsha's further studies.Shaurya and Varsha r certainly on cloud nine!But amidst all of this there is someone who is still gloomy and depressed-Akshara.On the one hand,she told Sharda that whatever happened between Sneha and Naitik was a MU , on the other hand,she's still not ready to forgive and forget everything and says that she needs some more time to think about the whole issue.Now,we know that Naitik has told the Maheshwaris' about his plan and they have agreed and r also sending ShaVa with NaKSh.

Do u feel that if Akshara gets some time to think,she will back to her normal behaviour soon?Had u been in Akshara's place,what would u do?Would u behave dryly with Naitik even after going out?Or would u appreciate his efforts for reconciliation and try ur best as well to leave whatever happened behind and look forward to a fresh beginning?

We r aware,that since day one,Varsha has tried to make Akshara understand that it was a MU and Naitik is not to be blamed for breaking Sneha's heart.She has been convincing Akshara to try and understand things from Naitik's POV.Now that she's getting a chance to go out with NaKsh,away from the families,should she cash in on the opportunity and try to bring NaKsh closer?Or should she leave the matter in their hands and expect them to deal with their own problems like a mature couple?

Post in ur views and have a happy discussion!😊

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JAYA_09

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Posted: 14 years ago

akshara should forget everything and first she should listen what naitik want to say to her and only solution is they should sit and talk when naitik want to akshi she is not in mood to listen to him and when akshi is in mood to talk naitik is ready to talk to her. they should show some maturity between them and both of them should not hide anything from each other. they need a privacy first of all. hope akshi listen to naitik and clear all their MU and live happily. i want akshi to be calmand understand the situation and make naitik happy

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Posted: 14 years ago

itz not easy to forget things.. i agree. wounds of a broken heart heal only with time.. i agree to the fullest.. she should take her time.. if she wants.. but the main problem here is lack of communication between the couple..

if i wud hav been akshara.. i'd certainly not let naitik be in the dark for so long.. i wud xpect him to understand my condition.. but.. that wud be only after telling him wat i want from him exactly.. i'd certainly not beat around the bush n would directly to me him.. ki "naitik.. this is my problem.. and i need some tym".. naitik wud hav understood me.. i'm sure he wud give me sum space n tym..

here.. akshara is not letting him noe wat she is feeling rite now.. n dat's y misunderstandings are increasing day by day... she should open up.. atleast with her husband.. talking to varsha about all the problems will give her a morale boost.. but she needs to tell naitik wat all expectations she has from him.. in order to lead a happy marital lyf.. keeping things in ur heart won't work..

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: moonlight08
itz not easy to forget things.. i agree. wounds of a broken heart heal only with time.. i agree to the fullest.. she should take her time.. if she wants.. but the main problem here is lack of communication between the couple..

if i wud hav been akshara.. i'd certainly not let naitik be in the dark for so long.. i wud xpect him to understand my condition.. but.. that wud be only after telling him wat i want from him exactly.. i'd certainly not beat around the bush n would directly to me him.. ki "naitik.. this is my problem.. and i need some tym".. naitik wud hav understood me.. i'm sure he wud give me sum space n tym..

here.. akshara is not letting him noe wat she is feeling rite now.. n dat's y misunderstandings are increasing day by day... she should open up.. atleast with her husband.. talking to varsha about all the problems will give her a morale boost.. but she needs to tell naitik wat all expectations she has from him.. in order to lead a happy marital lyf.. keeping things in ur heart won't work..

my feelings exactly.......she has full right to be angry on him but at least let him know why is she angry ! at least discuss the matter with him and tell him what is worrying her...i dun think that needs a lot of effort...she just has to repeat the same dialogues in front of naitik which she did with varsha...........and if she doesn't trust him then well, there won't be ANY moment in future when that trust is gonna come back..in my opinion, the trust was NEVER there , hence this situation has arisen....she's acting just like Naitik did ...he saw some guy giving her pen and he thought akshara is giving him wrong signals....akshara heard naitik praising some girl , meeting her often and jumped to the conclusion that he's flirting with her, he likes her and he's cheating that girl and his wife 🤢

also , she must decide the future course of action ! she wants to sit in maayka and THINK? she tHINKS this is gonna solve any issue? she needs an Einstein brain to find the solution? how long does she think she's gonna sit in the maayka and THINK? today or tomorrow she'll have to come back and face the same person day in day out ! can't she THINK in his presence?

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Starry

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Posted: 14 years ago

very nice topic dear... guyz.. discuss a bit on ths hr...

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457639

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_

my feelings exactly.......she has full right to be angry on him but at least let him know why is she angry ! at least discuss the matter with him and tell him what is worrying her...i dun think that needs a lot of effort...she just has to repeat the same dialogues in front of naitik which she did with varsha...........and if she doesn't trust him then well, there won't be ANY moment in future when that trust is gonna come back..in my opinion, the trust was NEVER there , hence this situation has arisen....she's acting just like Naitik did ...he saw some guy giving her pen and he thought akshara is giving him wrong signals....akshara heard naitik praising some girl , meeting her often and jumped to the conclusion that he's flirting with her, he likes her and he's cheating that girl and his wife 🤢

also , she must decide the future course of action ! she wants to sit in maayka and THINK? she tHINKS this is gonna solve any issue? she needs an Einstein brain to find the solution? how long does she think she's gonna sit in the maayka and THINK? today or tomorrow she'll have to come back and face the same person day in day out ! can't she THINK in his presence?

yes.. i agree di.. she needs to clarify her stand first.. and then she needs to tell naitik about wat all she feels.. keeping mum wont solve her problems.. it will only aggrevate it more..

i think varsha can be of help to akshara here.. she shud convince her to open up in front of naitik.. only that will help.. because on her own.. if akshara wishes.. she won't talk to naitik whole life.. even at her death bed.. she'll be saying.. "i need some tym".. i hate to see character of akshara ruining day by day..

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aastha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: moonlight08
yes.. i agree di.. she needs to clarify her stand first.. and then she needs to tell naitik about wat all she feels.. keeping mum wont solve her problems.. it will only aggrevate it more..

i think varsha can be of help to akshara here.. she shud convince her to open up in front of naitik.. only that will help.. because on her own.. if akshara wishes.. she won't talk to naitik whole life.. even at her death bed.. she'll be saying.. "i need some tym".. i hate to see character of akshara ruining day by day..

agreed wid both of u.........naitik is takin so many steps 2 bring the things in normal......he iz asking her 2 forgive him widout any mistake........n c wat akshara is doin c is nt tryin 2 undestand naitik a bit also....i m nt tellin tat akshara is nt hurt,,,c is definately....bt nw look forward dear,,,,tat wil give u solution...

why is she nt openin her mouth 2 naitik????jst tl him everythin,,,,wat u think,,,wat has hurt u,,,,,n wat u want him to do now.....dis is nt the problem which is 2 b solved by sittin alone n takin sch a tym.....

i think 1 who really needs tym is naitik.....he has gone throug such a shokin period of lyf n in dis tym also akshara is nt wid him....

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