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Akshara's Column: Forgetful me!

My biggest concern this week is how to deal with an infuriated Sneha and her mother. They think that Naitik is a cheat and has duped them which isn't true.

I know Naitik and I can vouch that he can't think of hurting anyone on purpose. There has been a confusion. Yes, his approach was wrong but he didn't wish anything bad for anyone. But Sneha feels rejected and her mother is in no mood to let things go. She wants to speak to Daddaji and I fear the worst- he will come to know what has been transpiring all along and might misunderstand. Dear readers, the situation is tricky and I will have to save Naitik from daddaji's ire and Sharda ji's allegations. She had called me but somehow I managed to avoid her by telling her that she had dialled the wrong number. But she wouldn't rest till she got to meet Daddaji as it concerns her daughter's happiness. I don't know how to avoid the repercussions. The only solution, I can think of is to confess everything to Sharda. I am sure the truth will anger her and she might blast me for making her daughter suffer amid the melee. But I will have to do something to salvage the situation. I can't ask Naitik to apologise to Sharda ji as it might worsen the situation for she won't believe him. Now the onus is on me to solve the problem. Please tell me what I should do – Do I stand up for my husband and vouch for his innocence or should I just let the matter run its course?


Amidst all this confusion and concern, I forgot my mother-in-law's birthday. I was so occupied with my personal issues that I had not been able to concentrate on anything. As expected my mother-in-law is upset with me. I wish I had taken Naitik's calls as he wanted me to remind me of her birthday. It just didn't strike me and I couldn't believe I actually forgot her birthday. As a mother-in-law, she expects a lot from me and remembering her important days tops the list. I did apologise to her profusely but she didn't relent. I know I have erred as a bahu, I am expected to take care of all my family members and remember all their important days. And I am regretting my folly. As told by wise men that anger can be destructive and it had its affect on me. In anger, I didn't answer Naitik and Rashmi's call and angered the most important people in my life. But my mother-in-law who looks aggressive is very nice and soft from within. I tried to pacify her by buying her a beautiful silk sari. She agreed to wear it but is still upset with me. She missed me a lot and is disappointed that I forgot to wish her.

Well to camouflage my error and pacify her, my mother has invited them over for lunch. I am praying hard that she forgets everything and forgives me. I also hope that we manage to convince her to attend the surprise we have planned for her.

Mistakes are bound to happen when you are disturbed and being the younger member of the family, its no harm to apologise and admit your mistake. It doesn't make you small. It only helps mend bridges and clears the confusion. I hope my mother-in-law will accept my sincere apologies and am looking forward to a grand bash and fun on her birthday. Please be a part of the merry-making and keep those wishes coming in.

To support or advise me, something that I look forward to every day, please write to me at akshara@starplus.in. Your suggestions help me to tackle with tricky and trivial situations. They always pull me off through difficult situations. Please keep writing to me dear readers.

1. Dear Akshara, I'm Fatima from New York. I love the drama on YRKKH. My advice for you is that you should forgive Naitik. It isn't his fault. He only wanted to draw your attention. Sneha took him in the wrong way. I think you should support your husband and talk directly to Sneha about it. GOOD LUCK!

From -Fatima Malik

Ans. Hi! Fatima, thanks for your concern and indeed I am supporting Naitik. But he has been wrong with his approach and only I can make him realise that. I wouldn't like if someone other than him tells him his folly. He must know so that such confusion doesn't take place in the future.

2. Hi Akshara! my name is Nima Patel,I am 14 years old and live in America.I love your show a lot, and you and Naitik make a wonderful on screen couple! You are a very beautiful girl andI love love love your long hair.I watch your show everyday after school and you doa great job at acting!!I always look forward to seeing you on TV. Please reply...wish you all the best and lots of love!!! --Nima.

Nima, first of all thanks for watching my show religiously. It's really overwhelming to know that you love my acting and yes my hair too. Thanks for writing to me but do not neglect your studies.

3. Hi Akshara akka, I'm Sangeeta , belated happy b'day actuallyI'm really sorryI didn't know it was your b'day. If you think if it is right then please give one chance to Naitik what he explains to you. I'm your fan naa I'm asking you please give one chance to Naitik. Actually why I'm saying because your so good thatif you hurt then I'm to get hurt, please don't hurt me. If you feel hurt to hear me say this then please forgive me, I'm really sorry. Regards your fan Sangeeta.

Ans. Sangeeta, I truly value and appreciate your concern and love for us. As a doting wife, I am always with Naitik but I have to stand for my values too. I know Naitik has met Sneha only once, but he did try to grab my attention by drawing her close to him, which I don't appreciate. This is something that he has accepted too. My worry is that things must not reach Daddaji else it will spell havoc for Naitik and me.

4. Hi Akshara! How are you? I am Karan(nick name) from Gurgaon(NCR) and doing B.tech from computer science. This is the first showI like so much andwatch itregularly. Best wishes for this show to be at the top. And i request u to add me in your friends please. Bye!!
From- Himanshu Choudhary

Ans. i am highly obliged Himanshu. Thanks for loving our show and for your good wishes. We hope to keep you entertained.

5. Hi Akshara!Thanx for your reply. I fully agree with your situation and lend you full support. I think the problem occurred due to a communication gap between you and Naitik which rose to such a big hiccup in your life. I personally feel that Naitik, himself, is very confused at this point of time and may not be able to face Sneha's mother, and if he still faces her, she may not be able to understand anything from him as she considers him a cheat.So, I guess it would be better, that you meet Sneha's mother personally and explain the entire situation to her. She would easily connect to you and understand your view point.We are always with you. Hope the situation gets better day by day..All the Best. Regards Nidhi.

Ans. Thank you so much Nidhi for understanding and supporting me. I know Naitik is confused and is so as hehas realised his fault. Also the situation has gone out ofour hands and we don't know how to handle it. Ireally appreciateyour suggestion and would like to confess to Sneha's mother.ButI wonder if she would understand me and will forgive Naitik. Please pray for us.


6. Yes Naitik has done the mistake and he is also saying sorry to you. But you should take some more time to solve this problem and you should investigate about it and please listen to what Naitik is telling because he would be telling you the truth.
From - Abbas Sadriwala

Ans. Yes, Abbas I know Naitik won't lie to me and I need to sort this out to avoid any ugly situation for my family. I would like to clear the confusion with Sneha and her mother so that they don't mistake Naitik as a cheat. He isn't a cheat but is a nice human being who can't think of hurting anyone.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanx for sharing... i hope akshara tries to clear stuffs... but ths article is contradictng the currnt scenes wher akshara is not ready to listen munna.... if she dosent beleive wat munna is sayng.. how will she convince shaarda???
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Hina looks beautiful in this pic.
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thanks for the article......................the last comment inthe article says u need to take some more time.........................pls my sincere request to cv's is that pls sort out the issue as soon as possible.............................coz i can't tolerate it anymore😡

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