Originally posted by: freelancer
Sorry no sympathy. Its ok to be angry. but not trust him is not correct. She dosent know amything about sneha...but she wants to meet her and understand her that is ridiculous. Naitik has helped her many times during her initial days. he loves her and she knows that. everytime when naitik wud behave like this she always said aap nahi samajte naitik. then what is it now. is she understanding now.
I know she is hurt. but naitik never went behind her back. he always answered all her questions. this is not what a marriage is. if we accuse naitik of not supporting and understanding his wife then now akshara is doing the same.
But rather if she understands him nowand supports him rather than running off t o her mother's then he will have a new restpect for her (hope so). and people get a new perspective on marriage that . somewhere in some article akshara said that married life do have mu....true but not always and husband wife talk is out not just get angry at each other.
Akshara can be angry with him but she shud get the facts straight.and i feel when time comes she shud support him.
just my perspective.
wow my first post and so long. but i am just frustrated by these mu.
first tell me the exact reason WHY she's acting this way? does she think naitik cheated on her? that he lied to sneha and kept flirting with her to gain akshara's attention? or does she believe naitik ke he didn't do anything and she's upset with him ONLY for his jealousy plan??????
i wud have sympathized with her if she was right..if naitik was guilty....she knows everything yet she cannot understand ! has she ever thought abt naitik the way she thinks for his family? she started thinking abt him only when she got insecure abt sneha isn't it? the fear of losing him gripped her mind...if she really really loved naitik and understood his love then she wouldn't have trusted shankari tai and find the truth on her own....when naitik told her that he went to sneha's b'day on his family's insistence, did she ask his family this is true or no???? if she's that intelligent, when she got suspicious abt sneha's intention, why didn't she ask naitik whether or not sneha knows abt his marital status???? or meet sneha that day in the office???
getting angry is alright but she thinks his love is artificial ?? that nullifies everything that naitik ever did for her ! then what do we expect from guys? in a conservative family where therez so much interference from each family member, naitik tried his best to make akshara happy..he didn't take her to maayka for any selfish reason...he didn't wanna watch movies or eat golgappas..he didn't wanna live in that house alone...yes, akshara never liked him doing anything for her bec. she never saw the complete picture..she just saw gayitri getting upset with her for various reasons but never realized that naitik went against his family to make her happy...complaints from gayitri, vishambhar and rajshri were taken seriously but not naitik's ! when he said i'm out of your priority list, was she bothered? the next day she's telling him MA gave me the permission t hat's why i came to watch the movie otherwise i wouldn't have come !
when she hid nandini's truth from naitik, she gave 100 explanations but when naitik got late in revealing the jealousy plan and sneha's reality, issue was made out of it ! all this while she blamed naitik for not trusting her and now when she's repeating the same mistake, why this sympathy?
Edited by _charu_ - 14 years ago
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