Remember me? ... I once posted a topic here. Anyways, I am really facinated because this serial is almost a reconstruction of my France Waale Uncle and his correlation with Naitik Singhanya Bhaijaan's life...
See ... my uncle's family was strict. I mean ... traditional.... nice people, but want the most out of their Bahu.
Bahu was a total traditional person. She was always busy to please her Sasuraal people ... serving Sasur, Saas, and grandpa, grandma ...
She was always trying to be a good bahu .. helping to maintain the house ... all the things that Akshara had to do...
But all this left very less time for her to spend with my Uncle... which really dismayed him.
Since his marriage ... a whole year ... he felt neglected. She loved him, but was always found prioritizing her Sasural ... daadima ki dawaii and maalish and stuff ... etc...
My uncle loved her alot ... but to him ... it seemed that he was the last on the list of his wife's priorities.
Over that ... the family really demanded the fulfillment of some traditional duties from the BAHU ...
This was ofcourse an arranged marriage ... my uncle agreed to marry arranged ... and he talked with his to be wife, found her pleasing...
My uncle is a wonderful man, a very bright student throughout his life ... modern in his ways ... not very traditional, but always respectful.
He consistently tried with his wife ... to tell her that he should be her first priority. He booked a house, but she never wanted to live away from the sasural. He requested. She seemed to agree ... but when infront of the family, she exclaimed that she can never think of seperating, and that she and her husband will always be in that house ...
My uncle was shocked with this ... hopeless and tired of it all.
He got a scholarship in France ... he said he would take her ... but she asked him to prioritize the family. Still he went ... as she didnt get the scholarship she stayed.
He used to talk with her from France, but the volume of words started declining.
In France ... he fell in love with a French girl ... and now he is married there. He got a son too ... and its not been accepted by the family.
He never talks with this wife with whom he married as arranged marriage, I dont think there is any legal doc there ... it was all very traditional ... I dont think they go beyond the tradition (this part is the hazy one ... I dont know if it was through registered or not)...
As he does have a son ... the family eventually talks with him ... and even reportedly heard the voice of their WARIS ...
The BAHU stays in Sasuraal yet ... and I wonder how she must be feeling. Because as per we can see ... the French wife of his got a son (something very prized) ... and so wonder how long she will be out of the family ... I can only see the BAHU going ...
I basically live in Sweden ... on a visit to India... and things like this keep happening.
SHOULD THE WIFE BE MORE AWARE AND GIVE ATTENTION TO HER HUSBAND?
DO YOU GUYS THINK MY UNCLE (or if Naytik takes this step) IS WRONG???
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