What is....'a SANSKAARI BAHU ? '

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Renu

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Posted: 15 years ago

Last Friday PRECAP......... 🤡 DJ 🤡 was ..... ........😡 😡 😡 😡 😡 😡 😡 😡 angry ....about the fact that....Akshara is not a SANSKARI BAHU........😲 🤢 😲 🤢 i am wondering...what EXACTLY is a "SANSKAARI BAHU ????? " ....

MY take on this "SANSKAARI BAHU" 😃

1) A BAHU......who considers her sasuraal as her "first home".....😛

2) one who considers her parents -in-law....over n above....her own parents....😛

3) one who considers her husband's siblings as her own........from day 1.........😛

4) one who has high morals....both of character n principles.......such high....SUCH HIGH MORALS.....that even if a HRITHIK ROSHAN falls madly in love with her......n begs her to ELOPE with him...she refuses.....🤣

5) one who considers....that her marriage is for "KEEPS".....overcoming even MAJOR HURDLES like......"mentally retarded" in-laws....( eg. Akshara's case..)...🤣

..after all....if you have physically handicapped people in your sasuraal.....u would take care of them....then y not take care of mentally handicapped people ? 🤣

6) one who realises that she is responsible for her sasuraal's reputation....in a big way......😛

HAVING SAID ALL THIS..........

A SANSKARI BAHU is also an individual......who has a right to have her own opinion.....who can still visit her maayka n parents.....when the need arises...after a suitable arrangement with in-laws....

..n defInitely........NO SANSKAAR IN THE WORLD TELLS A WOMAN....TO COMPROMISE ON HER SELF ESTEEM WHEN HER OWN HUSBAND TURNS OUT TO BE A MADMAN......who changes colours faster than a CHAMELEON......who has no SPINE......n is not willing to even have a mature CONVO....over a mis-understanding.....🤢

....Akshi was def at fault.......N NEEDED A GOOD SCOLDING.......but....the DINOS...n THE CHIMPANZEE.....need a good WHIPPING......from their " SANSKAARI BAHU ".....🤣

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musenartist

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Posted: 15 years ago

Sanskaari bahu ek machine ki tarah hoti hai.................jo kaam de do, ek dum perfect karegi......................bina kisi emotions ke, kisi shikayat ke etc etc...............Sanskaari bahu woh hai, jo human effort ko kam karthe hai!bahar ke duniya se koi connection nahi...............circuit mein koi jagah khulla nahi hoga................sab ek dum bandh!
Sanskaari bahu woh hai, jo apne pati ke haan se hai milati rehthi hai(Like the President signing all the bills, chupchap, passed by the parliament)................and the rest u can add!

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--Nishita--

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree Renu. Akshara was at fault but was not the ONLY one at fault. Yes, she should have thought of the consequences, she should have told Naitik and blah blah but what amazes me is how Nandini has been let off so easily. The family may be angry with her but nobody emotionally abused her. Nandini did not go to the family members asking for forgiveness. She knows her parents better than Akshara so even if Akshara was asking her to think of Mohit, she should have stood firm. Even if she was taken to the park to meet Mohit, she should have told Mohit about the decision she had taken...instead she changed her mind.

Anyway, the entire Singhania parivaar is mad. They all need treatment 🤢

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Renu

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Nishitah512
I agree Renu. Akshara was at fault but was not the ONLY one at fault. Yes, she should have thought of the consequences, she should have told Naitik and blah blah but what amazes me is how Nandini has been let off so easily. The family may be angry with her but nobody emotionally abused her. Nandini did not go to the family members asking for forgiveness. She knows her parents better than Akshara so even if Akshara was asking her to think of Mohit, she should have stood firm. Even if she was taken to the park to meet Mohit, she should have told Mohit about the decision she had taken...instead she changed her mind.

Anyway, the entire Singhania parivaar is mad. They all need treatment 🤢

SANSKAARS R EXPECTED OF.....BAHUS ONLY.....

...even if Nandini were to go n get preggo to-morrow....it would obviously be due to "AKSHARA'S ......FAULTY SANSKAARS......." 😃

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--Nishita--

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-

SANSKAARS R EXPECTED OF.....BAHUS ONLY.....

...even if Nandini were to go n get preggo to-morrow....it would obviously be due to "AKSHARA'S ......FAULTY SANSKAARS......." 😃

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Renu

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: yrkkhluvinangel
Sanskaari bahu ek machine ki tarah hoti hai.................jo kaam de do, ek dum perfect karegi......................bina kisi emotions ke, kisi shikayat ke etc etc...............Sanskaari bahu woh hai, jo human effort ko kam karthe hai!bahar ke duniya se koi connection nahi...............circuit mein koi jagah khulla nahi hoga................sab ek dum bandh!
Sanskaari bahu woh hai, jo apne pati ke haan se hai milati rehthi hai(Like the President signing all the bills, chupchap, passed by the parliament)................and the rest u can add!

LONG FORM NAHI....SHORT FORM MAIN BOLO, APPU..........

Sanskaari Bahu....is a "ROBOT"............expected to ....

......do all domestic chores........😕

.......have no emotions n opinions........🥱

.........n ofcourse.....BEJEWELLED....n DECKED up...as she also has to fulfill her husbands "desires"..........😃

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--Nishita--

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-

LONG FORM NAHI<FONT size=4>....SHORT FORM </FONT>MAIN BOLO, APPU..........

Sanskaari Bahu....is a "<FONT size=4>ROBOT</FONT>"............expected to ....

......do all domestic chores........😕

.......have no emotions n opinions........🥱

.........n ofcourse.....BEJEWELLED....n DECKED up...as she also has to fulfill her husbands "desires"..........😃

Yuck...I hope this is not the case in reality.

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Renu

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Nishitah512

Yuck...I hope this is not the case in reality.

seriously, nishi....i have always maintained that.......in-laws kitne bhi mental or unsupportive ho...the undying support of the hubby can tide u thru.......but if the husband is only a gone case...like in akshi's case.....what does a bahu do ??????????

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Tafseer

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-

SANSKAARS R EXPECTED OF.....BAHUS ONLY.....

...even if Nandini were to go n get preggo to-morrow....it would obviously be due to "AKSHARA'S ......FAULTY SANSKAARS......." 😃

yeah...... 😆 😆 😆 ...these Dinos race have totally mad us mad.........they have made Akshara's fault as the only one...n Nandini ki saari galti RIN safedi se dhul gayi........... 😡 😡

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--Nishita--

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Tafseer

yeah...... 😆 😆 😆 ...these Dinos race have totally mad us mad.........they have made Akshara's fault as the only one...n Nandini ki saari galti RIN safedi se dhul gayi........... 😡 😡

Akshara's fault: For keeping quiet and not telling Naitik about Nandini and Mohit's affair, for going to her parents house time and again, for lying to Naitik and breaking his so called trust which he had on her
Nandini's fault: For actually falling in love with Mohit (according to the Dinos), continuing to have feelings for him despite knowing that her parents are STRICT and ORTHODOX and will never agree to this relationship, keeping her brother out of the loop, forcing her sister-in law to hide the truth from her husband, getting her SIL into trouble time and again.
Naitik's fault: Telling the truth in front of the entire family...actually extended family which includes mamaji and Shankari tai, for blaming Akshara for tarnishing the family's reputation, for being extremely harsh on Akshara.

How can Akshara be the only one to be blamed 😕

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