Originally posted by: sssiham
Yes, it is difficult to decide which way you have to decide about any issues, but then it is always better/wiser to have your husband updated with these issues, specially when your in-laws are as stern and rigid in their ways as Akshara's are. She should have understood that for people who are so strict about every single thing, would definitely not accept a love arrangement happening under their nose.
i had a lot of hopes with this track but really, THIS is not the yrkkh which i liked..i came to write this particular msg on the board tht i dun think i'll stick to yrkkh for too long now....in very simple words, "pyaar haar gaya aur parampara jeet gayi" 😭 😭 that parampara which doesn't have any respect for women, whether she's a bahu, a beti or ma ! the parampara which doesn't allow the member of the family to have a opinion of her own and punish her for having it !
Naitik & akshara have their share of mistakes which led to their seperation but this is clearly the defeat of their relationship..none of them cared to nurture this relation and put the family in the forefront 😭 for Akshara, the most imp. relationship which she had was with her husband which she ignored throughout & paid the price...Naitik, even if he didn't agree with Akshara's opinions, it was his duty to forgive her & explain her rather than telling her tht she was a complete failure as a bahu and biwi and she's free to go her maayka if she wants....I dun know how much will Akshara learn from this tragedy but there r MORE lessons for Naitik starting with how to respect your wife and a female, respect her individuality & her opinions and her POV......
this is not the Akshara that Naitik loves ! the Akshara that naitik loves is a perfect human being who cannot make a mistake by mistake ! Naitik will have to let go of THAT Akshara and KNOW THIS Akshara who is his life partner.....and therez something which we all can learn from HIS mistakes and that is, NEVER say anything strong in ur anger bec. u might have to pay for it the rest of ur life...gusse mein kahi hui baat can destroy relationships..rishte kache dhaage jaise hote hai , never take anyone for granted..THIS was the test of their relationship & i expected them to pass it bec. i always expected Naitik to support Akshara......both of them failed miserably.....love is beyond every right and wrong of life and if akshara loved naitik, she wud have confided in him and if Naitik loved Akshara, he wud have forgiven her and start afresh.... 😭
After this point, all apologies are useless..they aren't of any value ! ..these things stay for u forever...re-conciliation in such cases is difficult in real life, in RS shows anything is possible 😡
I was shocked to read someone frm yrkkh team mentioned in some article that "our protagonist Akshara put her foot down and completed her studies before getting married" and Mr. Shahi saying "our serials don't have any over the top drama that's why they r so succesful" 😡 either they don't watch YRKKH or think we all r fools 🤢
Edited by _charu_ - 15 years ago
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