Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh
Charu I dont think it was an idealistic situation that Naitik did...its very real and I'm telling u na that it happened to me...I was also trying very hard to "fit in"to the family after marriage and I was trying so hard forgetting the fact that these things take time....so hubby stepped in and explained to his mom that she is trying and to me that I should take it slowly and not stress myself out since that was making things worse...and it really helped me coz then instead of anticipating things like voh hoga toh mai voh karungi etc etc, I took one day at a time and still do that :)....and now I dont need hubby to fight any of my battles....so as Tina said, that initial bridge needs to be built by an internal person coz they understand and generally listen to Naitik, but the same thing coming from the new bahu Akshara would be hard to fathom.....
but aage se she should try to fend for herself and not have to depend on Naitik....
gr8 ! i said na Ritu it was idealistic for ME bec. i cud never do it (i tried hard but no)..that's why i'm happy tht yrkkh is showing this bec. thoda sa inspiration milta hai aisa banne ke liye..although i think it will not solve ALL the problems..in many cases, husband speaking up for his wife (and interfering in day to day issues of the house..eg. servants and kitchen) creates a lot of problems for the wife..but the way naitik did it, it's worth applauding..that's the right way to do it...G got the point...
in yrkkh, servants r treated like family members but in my opinion, they should be treated like servants..fine ! they r humans and i have loads of sympathy for them but that's it ! how can they not trust their own family member against their servants? 🤢 tht's where the line should be drawn ! bec. Gayitri and Bhabhi ma don't stop Gulabo, she's become tht badtameez to talk in front of akshara
Edited by _charu_ - 15 years ago
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