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Posted: 15 years ago

#241

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

nahi yaar...I'm good with my poker face...I usually dont do this stuff in mtgs unless its so boring...and vaise bhi I'm generally smiling and positive so no 1 will get any wrong ideas 😛

by saying that they will get the wrong idea......i meant that they will think that u enjoy the meetings...🤣

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Posted: 15 years ago

#242

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh
Charu I dont think it was an idealistic situation that Naitik did...its very real and I'm telling u na that it happened to me...I was also trying very hard to "fit in" to the family after marriage and I was trying so hard forgetting the fact that these things take time....so hubby stepped in and explained to his mom that she is trying and to me that I should take it slowly and not stress myself out since that was making things worse...and it really helped me coz then instead of anticipating things like voh hoga toh mai voh karungi etc etc, I took one day at a time and still do that :)....and now I dont need hubby to fight any of my battles....so as Tina said, that initial bridge needs to be built by an internal person coz they understand and generally listen to Naitik, but the same thing coming from the new bahu Akshara would be hard to fathom.....

but aage se she should try to fend for herself and not have to depend on Naitik....

I am so happy to read that ritu

if thats the case, then the best internal person to do the bridging is the husband

so guys need to watch this & take necessary steps so that the girl they get in the family for themselves and the family is not treated as an outsider/servant, but one whom they have got to be a life partner