wife or waitress?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-

lathika, ofcourse i love to cook, serve .....do everything else for my husband............when he's back from work, obviously i serve him, we marwaris have elaborate meals...........but i MOST DEFINITELY DO NOT STAND AS A WAITRESS BEHIND HIS CHAIR when he is eating...........my maids helps me to lay the table......i get the serving process rolling and soon i too join the rest of the family on the table..........my hub, my mil, my 2 boys n me ......... we catch up on our day's activities with each other......my mil and i make sure that nobody's plate is empty.........we all have hot rotis which my maids ensure............

SO WHERE IS THEQUESTION OF SHOWING DISRESPECT OR SOMETHING WRONG IN THE RELATIONSHIP???????????

infact, if he's back very late, and the rest of us have already eaten........then too, after heating everything in the microwave and laying the table, i SIT next to him at the table while he is eating..........not STAND BEHIND HIS CHAIR.......

And let me also take this oppurtunity to clear this myth which many people have.........."housewives only gossip"..............being a house wife is a full fledged job, especially when your kids are small........and very, very often......... u almost tend to break down.................it requires great management skills for smoothly running the home........................don't the words "just gossiping all day" derogate the wonderful and very beautiful role played by a house-wife?................her whole world revolves around her home.............totally unconditinal and unselfish devotion......

but anyways each one is entitled to his or her own opinion...................so CHEERS........👍🏼.....

that is nice..

my analysis based on the story line.. gossip i mean here is gaya3 and bhabima.. as they don't have much work to do .. they don't stand behind their husbands though..

dey r showing 2 uch nly....jyaada hi badh chadha kar dikha rahein hai...dey r degrading d position of women itna jyaada ki bas poocho mat...i dnt lyk dat and aisa cheez aaj ke tym pe to nt at all....aur jis tarikense dey hv shown naitiks family and all adn phir ye sab shit diha raha hia ..no use..

Originally posted by: lathika4u

that is nice..

my analysis based on the story line.. gossip i mean here is gaya3 and bhabima.. as they don't have much work to do .. they don't stand behind their husbands though..

Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-

well, they may not stand BEHIND their husbands literally, but they do STAND......thruout.......

Bma and G3 are probably in their 50s...............i think it is extremely disrespectful to them............it is just meant to show superiority of husbands over their wives..............

akshara and rashmi can be shown as serving ....... g3 and bma supervising while sitting and eating with the others, once things are settled and rolling smoothly...........AKSHARA AND RASHMI JOINING THE OTHERS GRADUALLY....

BUT.......this is too much to expect from yrkkh cvs..........right?????? 😛

that ...acc to me......is RESPECT............

you are talking about progression here, which got long way to go for singhania's

Agreed, they are mentally disturbed

Originally posted by: lathika4u

<br><br>you are talking about progression here, which got long way to go for singhania's<br>

yup..........singhania sadan's DICTIONARY.........one more missing word........

1) privacy
2)honeymoon
3)progression

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Well...it all depends on the attitude of the wife...

a Smart Wife will handle the house responsibilities as well as try to maintain peace in the home.

Like someone mentioned in the promo today that , G3 will ask Aksh to mow the lawn.. and Naitik will get angry at her retort where she will say ajj kal ki ladkiyon ko sajnay kay siway aur kuch nahi atha something of that nature..

There is nothing wrong in G3 wanting her daughter in law to mow the lawn..
and we saw how varsha tried to keep all of her family happy to the extent that she ignored shaurya and he got upset with her but the end result was that he understood her and the family loves her.

This is kind of what Aksh needs to do.. find the balance.. yes they are newly wed but so was varsha.

Change is not always good when it happens suddenly. It usually results in revolts.. and in this case G3, BM and DJ drama usually its best when done in a slow and steady pace.

I have always learnt that.. for you to convince someone of something which is totally new to them then you need to first win their hearts. If someone were to come to your house and start breaking it (even if you give them million reasons that it has lead in its walls its dangerous etc. etc.) naturally you will resist the best thing is to first give them an option, an alternative ( another house, rent what ever) and then break their already existing house. Such is the case with thinking of a man. If you directly say that you are wrong or your actions are wrong .. they will not listen rather first give them alternatives by winning their heart so this way what change you ask it will be easier for htem to digest.

like the example where Naitik totally worked real hard so that Dadaji will let them go to the movies.
He wants to get his way done but by winning the hearts thats the proper way to do it. This is what Akshara needs to do...learn to win the hearts of the family and then they can introduce the change they want.