Hormonal Overload :O - Page 11

Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

<FONT color=#cc0099>charu the gusha "hai vharosa thik hai scene was so cute"... and even when he was taking off his shoes...hehehehehe....he seemed mad at the shoes and socks 2.....hahaahhahaha...</FONT>

and his watch...and he doesn't wanna look at the food as if saari galti khaane ki hai 😆 so naitik in his "kopbhawan" and Akshara ke paas koi 2 wishes bhi nahi hai ..she'll have to wait till mohit knocks some sense in him....

it's surprising isn't it that the family members don't understand nandini but mohit does..infact mohit knows all of them better than they know each other 🤣 he tried reverse psychology on nandini and it worked....nandini doesn't want any sympathy and wants everybody to treat her normally but sometimes it's not possible..i think all of them try to make her feel the best all the time.....they never made her feel that she's handicap..it's there in nandini's mind....nyways i hope she agrees to marry & give herself a chance.....after 1 or 2 refusals, she'll surely get there.....

Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

<FONT color=#cc0099>exactly the point i was trying to make earlier....love is not perfect.....it is also the imperfections that define love....we are so hard on them...when we are not realizing that they have been married 4 only 4 days......although the amount od tears that akshara had 2 shed is unrealistic...but the fact of the matter is that these misunderstanding and miscommunications are part of that journey....4 entertainment purposes we are picking them...😆...but realistically this is not far from the truth...the first fewweeks are the toughest 4 a girl....I have to give akshara high praise 4 handeling everything so well...she has shown tremendous growth on her part...she still has a long way 2 go...but bravo👏...Naitik has also shownsome signs of maturity...ok let it put it this way.."yoh accha student bhi hai"....so he is learning SLOWLY...😆...but surely....</FONT>

i'm in a good mood & i'm all praises for Akshara today....RS other show "swarg" had this scene where Shub is telling some girl (dun know she was his wife or a guest) that the girls should be awarded a medal for whatever they do for their families and their husbands..leave their parents for some stranger & try to find her place, adjust in her sasural without any help from anybody..and tht girl said that God gave us this responsibility bec. he knows boys can never do this 😆

not that i didn't know this before.....we all got married & faced so many different kinds of problems, and still facing it....but therez a support system which keeps us going..our husbands ( i can assume it right?) as long we we have somebody with us who loves us , cares for us, these adjustment problems don't stand anywhere....after my mom, it's my husband only who asks me "did u have food properly?" or when i'm not having it he's concerned "should i get something else for you?" 😭

Hats off to this girl Akshara, she was so attached to her parents , yet she left everything behind her for this thankless family ...she didn't even turn back and look at her family.... she accepted all their traditions , rules and regulations with an open heart...never even cribbed abt it....for a young girl like her who's so emotional, vulnerable & sensitive, this is worth applauding ...👏 ....it took me 2-3 yrs to get over this fact tht now i'll not be known as somebody's daughter but as somebody's daughter in law......i really want Naitik to stand by her in thick and thin, i can't see her suffering alone.... 😭 😭 😭 i want her to fight with him argue with him but make him understand her point of view...

Originally posted by: _charu_

and his watch...and he doesn't wanna look at the food as if saari galti khaane ki hai 😆 so naitik in his "kopbhawan" and Akshara ke paas koi 2 wishes bhi nahi hai ..she'll have to wait till mohit knocks some sense in him....

it's surprising isn't it that the family members don't understand nandini but mohit does..infact mohit knows all of them better than they know each other 🤣 he tried reverse psychology on nandini and it worked....nandini doesn't want any sympathy and wants everybody to treat her normally but sometimes it's not possible..i think all of them try to make her feel the best all the time.....they never made her feel that she's handicap..it's there in nandini's mind....nyways i hope she agrees to marry & give herself a chance.....after 1 or 2 refusals, she'll surely get there.....

Originally posted by: _charu_

i'm in a good mood & i'm all praises for Akshara today....RS other show "swarg" had this scene where Shub is telling some girl (dun know she was his wife or a guest) that the girls should be awarded a medal for whatever they do for their families and their husbands..leave their parents for some stranger & try to find her place, adjust in her sasural without any help from anybody..and tht girl said that God gave us this responsibility bec. he knows boys can never do this 😆

not that i didn't know this before.....we all got married & faced so many different kinds of problems, and still facing it....but therez a support system which keeps us going..our husbands ( i can assume it right?) as long we we have somebody with us who loves us , cares for us, these adjustment problems don't stand anywhere....after my mom, it's my husband only who asks me "did u have food properly?" or when i'm not having it he's concerned "should i get something else for you?" 😭

Hats off to this girl Akshara, she was so attached to her parents , yet she left everything behind her for this thankless family ...she didn't even turn back and look at her family.... she accepted all their traditions , rules and regulations with an open heart...never even cribbed abt it....for a young girl like her who's so emotional, vulnerable & sensitive, this is worth applauding ...👏 ....it took me 2-3 yrs to get over this fact tht now i'll not be known as somebody's daughter but as somebody's daughter in law......i really want Naitik to stand by her in thick and thin, i can't see her suffering alone.... 😭 😭 😭 i want her to fight with him argue with him but make him understand her point of view...

Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

<FONT color=#990033>I was saying the same thing in my post earlier...Can u believe the goofy Mohit is the only one that utilizes his brain....😆</FONT>

<FONT color=#990033>OMG what is going to happen to Akshara and Naitiks relationship if Mohit has 2 go somewhere....😲....hehhee.....</FONT>

<FONT color=#990033>He is going t2 marry her watch...heheheh...I have been saying that 4 months....lets c...if it comes true..</FONT>

shanta, i think he'll lose his senses as soon as he gets married 🤣

Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

<FONT color=#990066>CHARU reading ur post made me sooo emotional...tears have started welling up ...😭</FONT>

<FONT color=#990066>It is soo true what u have stated here....Akshara's Journey is every girls story in some way...trying to find a place in her husbands heart and a place in her sasural...not looking back on the family she left behind...but accepting it in a different dynamic...I dont think we give our husbands the appreciations that they deserve either...they do alot 4 us in their own way..and they have adjusted 2 a new life as well...we dont usually c the guys side....Girls deal with a lot more adjustments but that shouldnt take away from what our guys do 4 us as well...Naitik and Akshara will set the correct example 4 us all....if we look past all the drama and tearswe can see the the little foundations of a realtionship they have started building..</FONT>

i dun know abt others but i give my husband the appreciation he deserves...actually it's bec. of him tht i was able to adjust so well in my sasural....bec. i felt guilty tht he's fighting with his parents for my stupid mistakes, tht too when he knew tht i'm wrong...i am what i am bec. of him..he's pampered me more than my parents..i always tell him tht...in return he just expects me to keep his family happy (woh bhi he never said it...he says don't do anything tht u don't like..i'll handle the rest...but i felt it's my duty to keep the family together ) so i supressed my ego and changed myself for their sake...i was just like Naitik.....if naitik had to marry and go to his sasural , uski akal thikane aa gayi hoti abhi tak..but these boys never mend their ways bec. they r so used to their home atmosphere.... 😆

i hope creatives listen to us..Akshara must do whatever she can but explain him her point of view..by hook or by crook... 😈

Originally posted by: _charu_

shanta, i think he'll lose his senses as soon as he gets married 🤣

Originally posted by: _charu_

i dun know abt others but i give my husband the appreciation he deserves...actually it's bec. of him tht i was able to adjust so well in my sasural....bec. i felt guilty tht he's fighting with his parents for my stupid mistakes, tht too when he knew tht i'm wrong...i am what i am bec. of him..he's pampered me more than my parents..i always tell him tht...in return he just expects me to keep his family happy (woh bhi he never said it...he says don't do anything tht u don't like..i'll handle the rest...but i felt it's my duty to keep the family together ) so i supressed my ego and changed myself for their sake...i was just like Naitik.....if naitik had to marry and go to his sasural , uski akal thikane aa gayi hoti abhi tak..but these boys never mend their ways bec. they r so used to their home atmosphere.... 😆

i hope creatives listen to us..Akshara must do whatever she can but explain him her point of view..by hook or by crook... 😈

Originally posted by: _charu_

i'm in a good mood & i'm all praises for Akshara today....RS other show "swarg" had this scene where Shub is telling some girl (dun know she was his wife or a guest) that the girls should be awarded a medal for whatever they do for their families and their husbands..leave their parents for some stranger & try to find her place, adjust in her sasural without any help from anybody..and tht girl said that God gave us this responsibility bec. he knows boys can never do this 😆

not that i didn't know this before.....we all got married & faced so many different kinds of problems, and still facing it....but therez a support system which keeps us going..our husbands ( i can assume it right?) as long we we have somebody with us who loves us , cares for us, these adjustment problems don't stand anywhere....after my mom, it's my husband only who asks me "did u have food properly?" or when i'm not having it he's concerned "should i get something else for you?" 😭

Hats off to this girl Akshara, she was so attached to her parents , yet she left everything behind her for this thankless family ...she didn't even turn back and look at her family.... she accepted all their traditions , rules and regulations with an open heart...never even cribbed abt it....for a young girl like her who's so emotional, vulnerable & sensitive, this is worth applauding ...👏 ....it took me 2-3 yrs to get over this fact tht now i'll not be known as somebody's daughter but as somebody's daughter in law......i really want Naitik to stand by her in thick and thin, i can't see her suffering alone.... 😭 😭 😭 i want her to fight with him argue with him but make him understand her point of view...

be always in this mood charu...👏👏