Originally posted by: aksharanaitik
<FONT color=#cc0066>Lathika I am on the same page on u with this...all jokes aside....Akshara is handeling everything pretty well....Except 4 the crying...I am really proud of how she is managing everything...👏....and another thing we have to give her props 4 is the fact that she understands naitik so well...even we as viewers we are getting frustrated with naitik...but akshara is really 4 giving with him..becuz she understands and acceptshim as he is...this is something all of us married girls can relate 2...we dont just luv our hubby's 4 their qualities we learn to love and except their flaws as well....and when u can do that ...it makes ur relationship stronger and ur love deeper and more meaningful....So Akshara's luv 4 naitik is a little deeper and more mature then Naitik's....so thats y there such a gap between them...(guys tend 2 take longer 2 getthere emotionally)...lol...but he will....</FONT>
Shanta, he loves her as much as she loves him....a girl and a boy want to be loved in different ways..their concept of love is different...i read an article this sunday..it said that love can manifest itself in 3 forms..romantic love, attachment & lust...we can connect to our partners in one or more ways or at all the 3 levels..it depends on person to person.....tht's the reason they gave for bigamy....tht a person can be in love with more than one person at a time......
Naitik loves her a lot , and if he gets angry with her , that's doesn't mean therez some defect there....his temperament is like tht , he had adjustment problems with almost everyone , according to him, just his mom understands him well....we can know a person only when we live with him/her & slowly and steadily accept his faults and weaknesses and with time, the trust and understanding will automatically come...Naitik & Akshara's relationship will always be blow hot blow cold.....they r 2 very very different personalities...just a husband or a wife cannot build a strong relationship..BOTH have to work on it in their own way ......everybody hopes and wants a perfect relationship but it's not possible till the time they accept each others weaknesses...for naitik, akshara was more than perfect...he said aap mein koi kami nahi ho sakti....after marriage , they will discover something new abt each other everyday which may not be according to their expectations so this process takes time......it becomes easier when we're in love but whether or not Naitik & Akshara are in love, can't say..at least they r not sure of it...may be we took it wrongly...may be tht was attachment, before their marriage....