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Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

I think Akshara was in love even during the so called "akarshan" phase...she didnt know it coz it was a new feekling for her...something totally different from the feeling with any other rishta she had...hence she didnt undertand what that feling was...until the stones danced 😊.

And I think the creatives were trying to show that its not like the stones just danced.....there was some inner power in her that truly made that happen....and that inner thing couldnt have happened overnite....

initially she was very hesitant and needed Varsha to keep pushing her, but slowly over time as she got to know Naitik more from their small conversations, she started to fall in love with him....and even became comfortable with him to the extent of talking about the Dhaniya problem, mamaji's financial problem etc....and she herself wanted to meet him but was tied due to her family....

so when she went to the police station, it was out of her love...granted that earleir Varsha nudged her to take the 1st step but when she heard of Naitik in the police station, she forgot about everything else and went straight there....coz thats what her heart wanted her to do...

and about couples argueing...I think thats completly natural and required to keep the momentum of the relationship and openly express our thoughts...otherwise it would get closterophobic since there is a limit to subdueing our thoughts and blindly following our spouse....and I dont think we are gods or goddesses to understand khamoshi ki bhasha or quietly listen and accept everything...Sitiuations of repent and forgivness are a part of life and as long as we dont hold the grudge and move on after emptying our heart its perfectly fine.....otherwise its not a husband-wife relationship but more of a master-slave relationship...

I'm ready to buy any argument but not this ke Akshara didn't love Naitik..She fell in love with after talking to him on the phone (when he said he likes her) and when they met and after that meeting when they talked..Varsha told her ke she's in love...she tried to subdue it, hide it, avoid it, that she's in love (specially in front of Naitik) but she was in love....

and in the police station case, Varsha just asked her to meet Naitik..Akshara going to police station was her decision which she took when she reached the park and knew Naitik is in trouble...and there were many instances before and after which proved that she was in love...

But I wanna know one thing....the stages of love which they're talking about, is it for Naitik only? Has Akshara learnt that true love which Naitik was talking about? does she know what it is?

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

ya she messed up here and I hope Naitik opens his heart out on this one and not get back to being lovey dovey.....not the way to handle this one....

pravachans bhi suno and jhooth bhi saho

yeah all pravachans for satya vachan for naitik..he does milavat in sach, makhan maar ke..now what has she done? 🤣 so ACCEPT it Akshara that this is the right method

Originally posted by: _charu_

I'm ready to buy any argument but not this ke Akshara didn't love Naitik..She fell in love with after talking to him on the phone (when he said he likes her) and when they met and after that meeting when they talked..Varsha told her ke she's in love...she tried to subdue it, hide it, avoid it, that she's in love (specially in front of Naitik) but she was in love....

and in the police station case, Varsha just asked her to meet Naitik..Akshara going to police station was her decision which she took when she reached the park and knew Naitik is in trouble...and there were many instances before and after which proved that she was in love...

But I wanna know one thing....the stages of love which they're talking about, is it for Naitik only? Has Akshara learnt that true love which Naitik was talking about? does she know what it is?

Originally posted by: _charu_

yeah all pravachans for satya vachan for naitik..he does milavat in sach, makhan maar ke..now what has she done? 🤣 so ACCEPT it Akshara that this is the right method

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

Akshara loved Naitik....infact she truly loved Naitik before Naitik loved her...I think he was longer in the akarshan phase than her....

I truly dont know what is that "true" love they keep talking about...I think both of them are there now....their actions have proven it time and time again...so I dont understand how they will understand that...infact I must say how will Akshara understand that??? I dont get why she thinks that she is not truly in love with him already?? Then what did the stone dance mean?? Partial love??? What was all that Othello love letter crap if she doesnt think that she is in love.....or if she thinks she is in love but Naitik is not, then how does she expect him to prove it.....isnt all the past instancesand the fact that he has openly said it from the depth of his heart enough...or does she want him to jump off a cliff to prove his love??? I just dont get it.....

Ritu, well somebody told me that i don't know what true love is..so i don't have an answer to this 😆

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

honestly I'm confused these days what they are trying to show with Akshara's character...its one thing to keep her unpredictable but here she is contradicting herself more than anything 😕

right..if she wanted him to join business, she should have shown him the rejection letter and convinced him to join the business..she cud have told him that you can look after ur business for sometime and see if you like it..if you don't develop interest then look out for some other job..but why not tell him abt the letter? 😕

Originally posted by: _charu_

Ritu, well somebody told me that i don't know what true love is..so i don't have an answer to this 😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

right..if she wanted him to join business, she should have shown him the rejection letter and convinced him to join the business..she cud have told him that you can look after ur business for sometime and see if you like it..if you don't develop interest then look out for some other job..but why not tell him abt the letter? 😕

for me, love is love..if therez any "milavat" then it's not love...if you try to find a perfect relationship , true love, you will never achieve it..but if u change ur perspective and try to be happy in what you have and not think about what you don't have, you might just find it...

Originally posted by: _charu_

for me, love is love..if therez any "milavat" then it's not love...if you try to find a perfect relationship , true love, you will never achieve it..but if u change ur perspective and try to be happy in what you have and not think about what you don't have, you might just find it...