akshara was wrong - Page 4

Originally posted by: indian_chick

i kinda felt she was wrong at first buhh finkk abouhh itt...teej iz suppose2 be a festival for married women..rytt?!nn gayatri iz lykk de onlii married woman left in dah house if akshara went...wheras aksharaz mum has her younger sister-in-law n varsha!i fort she did a rellie sensible fingg...as babhi maa has gone2!!nn she did fone2 explain2 her mum y she has stayed bkk homee..n2 make sure shez ite!!

I think akshara did the right thing..espp since shes newly married, she looked out for the MIL and noticed how she would be all alone..i do however feel bad for rajshri but she should understand..

shaadi ke baad ur sasusral is really ur ghar.. bt u dunt really treat ur mother's house as paraiya either..she shud have explained to her mother d reason she cudnt go...then her mother wud understand n wudnt feel bad.. it was wrong of her to jus not show up like that😕

Originally posted by: sang_hari

<br><br>I am married but I will say what AKS did was wrong.u have to spend time with in-laws and husband and everybody ,but in the process should not forget your mother.varsha called her mother and asked her to come to her house so that she would not hurt her mother and her MIL.But what aks did was, not even call her to tell her privately about her situation or aleast tell her that she would come one of these days when she is free.she did none of those and this is not called balancing relationships.when a girl gets married she forms new relationships,to make them happy u cannot hurt the other old relationship esp u're parents.when u are married sasural becomes imp in the scheme of things but u dont hurt u're mother .the least aks could done was to explain her situation.her mother would feel sad that her daughter is not coming but also will feel happy that she told this and is following my teachings.u're parents are equally imp as u're husbands parents.that is how u're relatioships should work<br>

i don' agree with this..She called her mom but Shaurya told her that Rajshri is very upset and at this time, Akshara must not talk to her....Akshara was saying that she wants to talk to Rajshri....and then Dadi explained Rajshri the whole situation...when Varsha stayed to agree with her in laws to keep Rajshri happy then why not Akshara ? Akshara took that decision after hearing abt Varsha's decision and she sent Shaurya back...and called up Rajshri thereafter ..

If Akshara did this today , that doesn't mean she doesn't respect her mom or love her..tht's ridiculous to think...love is beyond these things..it never fades off..specially for ur parents..they have a special place in ur life...

Originally posted by: _charu_

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If Akshara did this today , that doesn't mean she doesn't respect her mom or love her..tht's ridiculous to think...love is beyond these things..it never fades off..specially for ur parents..they have a special place in ur life...

i dont mean to say she doesnt love her mum..i mean to say she hurt her mothers feelings..just to keep her mother-in-law happy...which is wrong...she shud have gone to her mothers house as she knows dey were all waitin for her...

her mother is having her bahu her in laws and many other people.
but there was only nandini and reshmi with gayatri maa.
she was the only suhaagan so it was good that akshar stayed in the absence of bhabhimaa .
with this she has managed to get the love of her in laws.
whereas if she had gone only rajshri wuld have been happy ,gayatri maa nd naitik wuld have been sad

akshara was both wrong and ryt at da same tym...neither she could leave her sasuma...as she was all alone...and did not do a good job in hurting her mother's feelings..
rajshree only wanted varsha to stay for akshara's company..and also in this cndition that sulekha behen will join them in teej!!!!!! 😛

Originally posted by: amisha1

i dont mean to say she doesnt love her mum..i mean to say she hurt her mothers feelings..just to keep her mother-in-law happy...which is wrong...she shud have gone to her mothers house as she knows dey were all waitin for her...

as for varsha's case...varsha didnt hurt her mother, she called up her mother n explained tt she shud come over to d house instead...

but akshara just refused to go..she didnt call her mother to tell her 1st b4 shaurya went home, tt was wrong on her part

she hurted her feelings but there wasn't any other option..I can't say whether she was right or wrong, but if she took this decision, for whatever reason, Rajshri must support her instead of behaving this way bec. then she'll be making it difficult for Akshara...how will she be able to balance her in laws and maayka if Rajshri start acting this way on small small things? earlier she got upset on their Reception...this incident added to her sadness and insecurity...

that's the precise reason we all were bashing Gayitri right? why get possessive over something which is yours? or you want it to be exclusive to you? a person has so many relationships to cater to...Akshara is a bahu, beti, wife, bhabhi, sister and she's playing so many roles at the same time..even the most intelligent girls cannot balance their life with so many ppl. around her then how can you except Akshara to do it so soon? If she gives importance to one person doesn't mean the other one is neglected...every relationship has it's special place ..it's just that the priorities differ for every person..for akshara, her priority is her mom in law so it's okay..for some, their priority is just their husband, not even in laws