Does every guy has only one thing on his mind?

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Mansi bhatia

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Posted: 16 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: _charu_

if i'm not mistaken, u were active on this forum when yrkkh started.. right? 😕

Yes! 😳

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Fouzia

@FAMS

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Posted: 16 years ago

#22

In a marraige with emotional connection Physical intimacy is also important. And I do agree with Charu that physical intimacy without Love is call 'Lust'.

Both Emotional and Physical part are important.

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San

@sanw

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Posted: 16 years ago

#23

No I dont think

even naitik is not doing anything wrong

he is just getting attracted by akshi's charm

just touching her hand (that's for comforting only) doesnt make anything we should object to.

or even asking her to say those 3 magical words. its not wrong at all. he has read the letter & knows how much she loves him.

more than that he hasnt taken a drastic step.

if he wanted , he could have done anything on the first night itself. he was even v angry then. in anger one can loose ones own self and take such drastic step & commit mistake.

but he is v sober boy & has given akshi her space yet getting attracted to her but all so decent

& like him there are other boys too!!!!!

Edited by sanw - 16 years ago

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San

@sanw

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Posted: 16 years ago

#24

& as charu & others say, physical attraction would come up which is important but now I think it is 'maan ka milap'

Edited by sanw - 16 years ago

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Siham

@sihu

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Posted: 16 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: cimba
If you ask me every guy and a girl have only one thing in mind at a point in the life. It is a exploring unknowns at the teens and later with the loved one's. It is also a way to show that you love and care for your significant other. Girls are socially bound and gagged from showing their true feelings openly , but they are thinking same things.

I totally agree with your view....girls also have this on their mind....wouldnt they think it odd if her hubby did not try to get close to her or kiss her, specially considering their SR turned out to be a real fiasco. And did anyone notice that Akshara also closed her eyes in anticipation of the kiss. So she was equally willing.

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-Candy-

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Posted: 16 years ago

#26

rite.....agree wid u......every boy wen he knows a gal wants 2 kiss her..

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Charu

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Posted: 16 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: sssiham

I totally agree with your view....girls also have this on their mind....wouldnt they think it odd if her hubby did not try to get close to her or kiss her, specially considering their SR turned out to be a real fiasco. And did anyone notice that Akshara also closed her eyes in anticipation of the kiss. So she was equally willing.

and if the husband doesn't try to get close then the wife will think whatz wrong with this guy? he doesn't love me? i'm not attractive enuf? 😆

Edited by _charu_ - 16 years ago

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anu-s

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Posted: 16 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: _charu_
I'll not talk abt Naitik and akshara here bec. the poor guy is just doing what a normal married guy wud do..he was stopping himself from long, he was not allowed to even meet her before marriage and now tht he's got the licence, then why not...but the way he was in his courtship period was commendable..he never crossed his limit, nor he expected nything from Akshara tht she should do nything which will make her feel awkward..

yes, the idea of love is different for a girl and for a boy...earlier in our society, girls never made the first move right? we're so used to watching (on tv and in bollywood) the man do everything, take the first step, hold her hand, whatever...and the girl has to do nothing but sharmao and more sharmao but things are different in reality..girls also have the same needs , that's nothing to be ashamed of..tht's why girls are so open about everything these days..aajkal ki ladkiyan 😲 they have the capability to make the boys dance to their tunes !

coming back to the main topic, tht's how we all are biologically..if the girl and boy don't feel the attraction for each other then how will the cycle of life move? the idea of love is different for each individual and everybody has a different concept in mind abt how he should be loved... physical intimacy is also a way of showing your love...but it's not right that it's everything for a man...love is incomplete without physical intimacy..tht's bec. you want to give ur everything to just one person who u love..what u call "poorna samarpan"

Naitik and Akshara experienced the love at emotional level..they are emotionally involved with each other , and now they will be taking the next step.....and AFTER this, they will go through the test of REAL UNCONDITIONAL love....

charu. you have said everything. I don't think that there is any thing left.

Edited by anu-s - 16 years ago

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Lathika

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Posted: 16 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: _charu_

and if the husband doesn't try to get close then the wife will think whatz wrong with this guy? he doesn't love me? i'm not attractive enuf? 😆

please add is he a gay ?? 🤣