Originally posted by: desertrose21
omg it was too sad =( i don't know what i am gonna do...let me just say one thing LATA has been acting superb these days...her crying is sooo natural, it feels like she IS really hina khan's mother(way too young for that tho!)
we are all crying so much...it just tells you how dear and close to our hearts we hold these characters.
ok but all this got me thinking...would akshara be crying a little less if things between her and naitik ji were normal? the wedding would've been completely different. her heart would be doing somersaults at very second. (its doing that now too, but from anxiety and worry) if naitik looked at her loving at every step in their wedding..i think akshara would be a little more composed.
...so my conclusion is that some of akshara's tears are definitely for naitik ji and their situation..anyone agree?
It was a very touching scene..I was watching the repeat n i noticed how well Lata and Sanjeev acted..Both Vishambhar and Akshara are saying "i'm not crying" and both of them couldn't hold their tears 😭
I was thinking the same.....will it make any difference if Naitik's attitude was normal? I don't think so....For parents to do bidai of her daughter is extremely tough...dil patthar ka karna padta hai.....i remember my mom telling me that you can never understand how we are going to send you.....ha ha In Ramayan, Janak was shaken up by the thought of bidai of his daughter Sita..even when her groom was Ram 😆 Sita was asking the same question to her father "why do i have to leave you" ..and now Akshara ..
It's very very very very tough for a girl and her parents but then they have to go through this ...It's an irony of life...that parents get their daughters marry with a heavy heart but after marriage, uska ek din maayke mein rehna logon ke nazron mein kharab hota hai....the very next day after bidai, they say "go back to your sasural..that's your home"
It's difficult for the groom & his family also....leaving something is still easy ..u leave ur home, ur parents , ek baar ho gaya , ho gaya...but accepting something is slightly more difficult....the girl has to accept the groom's family as her own and the groom and his family has to accept the bride and do the necessary adjustments..
Edited by _charu_ - 16 years ago
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