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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 16 years ago

Is it possible not to get jealous or possessive in love? aren't trust and understanding a part of love?

As we all saw in the promo that Naitik gets upset when he saw Akshara with that boy...and Akshara misunderstands him ..She thinks Naitik doesn't trust her...Can we expect a good level of understanding between them at this stage of their relationship?

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zarmeeno

@zarmeeno

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Posted: 16 years ago

In my opinion trust is the most important thing in any relationship. If there is trust love will grow and if there is no trust the love will become the hell in your life. When I got married I was still studying and continued after my marriage and I use to interact with the boys at my colllge my husband had no issues with that and once I asked him that Y it is like that and he said because I know u r mine. Even my male colleagues use to call me at home and he and/or my inlaws never had the issue with that. So i belive trust is the mostttttttttt important thing in any relationship.

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nisma arabi

@baby_sweet

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Posted: 16 years ago

yaa obv thre must be some understanding between them...and by the way naitik is quite posessive with akshara....which is 2 bad...as she cant even tok 2 any other male...this is rewli above the limit naitik must understand...

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Charu

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Posted: 16 years ago

but understand develops only after they start living with each other, know each other well right? it's been a few days since they met & thanks to their familes and their restrictions, they can't meet openly or even talk to each other When we love someone, we take the other for granted which is wrong...I just got engaged & it was my hubby's cousin's birthday..I called him to wish him ..when my hubby came to know, he asked me not to call him again ..I didn't give it a second thought why he told me this .....i was ok with it bec. i loved it tht he was possessive about me..but today if something like this happens, he won't even care to know who am i talking to..

There is no problem which can't be solved through discussion...n i'm glad Naitik said it which means that he has a clean heart, his intention is not bad..he's just a little possessive about Akshara and he doesn't like if that boy talks to her ....i mean he saw him with Akshara not once , twice but thrice ! any boy in his place wud have given it a thought if not react this way....trust & understanding comes with time only...

Also, Akshara cud have kept her cool & understood what he's going through..she cud have said it calmly tht she doesn't even know tht guy and she loves naitik only..... .....if she'll think that Naitik doesn't trust her, therez no harm if a boy and girl are friends, then instead of diffusing the tension, she'll increase it for both her and Naitik....If she was in her place, she wudn't have reacted or even thought or asked him who the girl is?

Edited by _charu_ - 16 years ago

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