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djree

@djree

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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

I come from a marwari family and yes girls do get married at 19-20 and boys at 22-23. So its not a surprise for me. And seriously boys have been brought up this way...the way they showed naitik. And we say India is a free country.....

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Preeti

@-Preeti-

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Posted: 16 years ago

#12

well i agree to one thing
that marriage at 20 is early ... as i feel that marriages should take place one's ur mentally prepared for it. Prepared to take the responsibilty of a married life which includes husband and his family😳

and abt maturity well i believe maturity definately does'n come with age. I know ppl who at the age of 16-18 are quiet matured and also of ppl who at the age of 25-28 behave immatured and childish. So i dont think that Naithik and Akshara are immatured but its thier character.....
Naithik being the only son ...might have always had ppl at his home listening to him and agreeing to all that he says so in a way he did'nt like the fact that Akshara does'nt agree to him
Akshara who though is the only grl child but has been made to understand that we must respect others view and understand others ...but she def did'nt feel like apologising as she was'nt wrong

So in a way i dont think that they behaved immature but the convo flew in such a way that it ended up in clashes on thier views

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eirah

@eirah

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Posted: 16 years ago

#13

im 25 but my parent dont want me to get married ...and im a women...

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cherrypansy

@cherrypansy

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Posted: 16 years ago

#14

Very true maturity is not related to age but it's more related to one's circumstances........

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cherrypansy

@cherrypansy

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Posted: 16 years ago

#15

Very true maturity is not related to age but to circumstances e.g. Varsha

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blueash

@blueash

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Posted: 16 years ago

#16

I love tht scene where naitik says i am not saying sorry i am waiting for ur sorry😆 too cute loved him there.....20-22 is not tht small age to get married.....

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PARIJA

@free2ryme

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Posted: 16 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: piyualka
Very true maturity is not related to age but to circumstances e.g. Varsha

I totally agree , but why force your kids into such circumstances at such an early age would be a better questions? Yea they are gonna be matured once they get married, but why ask them to face such circumstances and responsibilities soo early in life.. As with akshara, it seems like her parents were only waiting for her to reach the legal age limit for marriage to get her married!

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ihateif

@fckif

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Posted: 16 years ago

#18

lol haha yea she is 19 actually ... well in shows you can't expect the ages to make sense always

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Riya

@Riya.pk

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Posted: 16 years ago

#19

I agree, Naitik seemed like an immature child, he should have been the one saying sorry. These two are supposed to get married and it doesn't even seem like they're adults. Akshara as well, she's so sheltered, she hasn't been exposed to the world at all.