Is kartik purva relationship right?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I have a weird feeling about this relationship/friendship whatever. Not regarding their age difference. Anu is 26 so kartik is 26 too. Purva should be 20? I think she is 7-8 years younger then sid (he's 28) so karpur are 6 years apart maybe? I dnt see anything wrong with a 26 y/o and 20 y/o being together.. but I just can't see them in an extramarital affair or smth😕 purva is so innocent nd I dnt want her to face any trouble. Kartik is full on lattoo on her but ugg he's like freaking married first nupur and kartik should divorce and then karpur is fine😉
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Maybe it's the age that I am sceptical about. If she'dbeen older, working or having her own business then it would have been amazing.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi dear.. just forget about Kartik being married.. than you will not see anything wrong in it.
Now yes extra marital affairs are not a good thing in society. They are wrong. Cheating is wrong. But sometimes when people are stuck in a marriage where there is no love and respect for each other , no on mending their way for compromise than heart searches happiness outside marriage.
Now back to Karthik purva.. Nupur is not providing any emotional bonding to him and I find his short temper issue is disturbing their relationship too. Kartik if mend his way even now and control his feelings toward purva and try to please nupur how she likes than there is still hope for their relationship to improve..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Khushbooloves

Hi dear.. just forget about Kartik being married.. than you will not see anything wrong in it.

Now yes extra marital affairs are not a good thing in society. They are wrong. Cheating is wrong. But sometimes when people are stuck in a marriage where there is no love and respect for each other , no on mending their way for compromise than heart searches happiness outside marriage.
Now back to Karthik purva.. Nupur is not providing any emotional bonding to him and I find his short temper issue is disturbing their relationship too. Kartik if mend his way even now and control his feelings toward purva and try to please nupur how she likes than there is still hope for their relationship to improve..


Hmm you're right. Btw kartik's situation kinda reminds me of sharukh and rani in kabhi alvida na kehna😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think it is totally wrong! Not because of the age or anything but Kartik is a married man. An affair isn't the solution, confronting the situation is, if he's not happy with Nupur, he needs to face it. Obviously he won't because his appa's business is tied to Nupur's dad! Fact being he has no choice but to compromise with Nupur, however since he isn't getting love or care from her, he is looking at someone else i.e. Purva, who he should have before rushing into this marriage.
The whole point is how much ever you try to justify an affair it is wrong in my eyes at least. A divorce is the only solution if he isn't happy with her though it won't be happening due to the business angle I feel and we will get an extra-marital affair or if the makers keep on surprising us, then Purva won't give in to this :)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mmans


Hmm you're right. Btw kartik's situation kinda reminds me of sharukh and rani in kabhi alvida na kehna😆

Hmm the thing is kartik has got married just now so nupur has not been that bad , of course not good as a partner either , but they need to work on it. It's too early too part ways with divorce
Without even trying . But seems like both are no way mending their way
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If it goes beyond friendship for either of them then definitely wrong. If he feels stuck in marriage then he should divorce his wife and then start relationship with Purva.
But, only friendship like they had before is perfectly fine.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I didn't like that he came over.. because Purva didn't pick up her phone. I felt that it was kind of crossing a line a bit. I get he has some kind of feelings for her.. but unless he plans to divorce his wife he shouldn't act on his emotions.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: mmans



Hmm you're right. Btw kartik's situation kinda reminds me of sharukh and rani in kabhi alvida na kehna😆


SRK was wrong in Kabhi Albida too
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Posted: 7 years ago
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marriage and registration are society rules. ur brain is conditioned for this and understands this. but ur heart does what it has to and what it wants to.
we cant say something is wrong or right. somethings are beyind our control.
its exactly that over here. they r not doing it intentionally. its not in their control. ab universe ki kuch marzi ho toh koi kya kare?
even today karthik came home to meet purva...it may look wrong but its innocent actually coz he was willing to meet her infront of sid n gayatri.
and love and age ka kya lena dena?
shahid mira are 9yrs apart btw 😆

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