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Originally posted by: violette

@Pom:

I think thy r jst being childish over this issue.. both shud b sitting and talking it out like two mature individuals bt No thy chose to fight and blame each other like two kids...😆

I guess bcoz its still quite very much thr, running in back of Aru's mind.. 😆.. Even tho Mukhi has dispelled all her dbts.. and given her ultimate authority to decide on the future course of thr relationship.. imagine suddenly sharing a bed with a man.. initially it all started with a tease.. which later got all serious.. 😆 and thn all such signals.. remember mukhi started it all by imprudently mentioning abt the "jhumka" thing...😆😆😆.. OMG such buddhuram our Mukhiji is.. agar aise hi sahi signals galat time pe denge to koi bhi confuse ho hi jayega..😆

Poor Aru she really wants it bt is really confused abt it.. 😆 bt utterly normal for any girl to get hyper abt it..😆 certainly its not abt the trust as much as it is abt getting scared of Mukhiji's sudden advances.. and the fear of getting into actually doing it.. she is afraid of the journey bt she wants to reach the goal..😆 😆

Aur hamare Mukhiji to mukhiji hai.. he is utmost gentleman.. ultimate bhole Bhandari.. so he is obviously scandalized and petrified by Aru's allegations...😆😆😆 bt he didn't shy away from putting her in spot as well..😆 it proves tht he knows his Aru very well.. uski soch kahan kahan jaa sakti hai.. he knows she is no sati savitri.. his izzat is already in khatre mein..😆.. I really love his innocence.. clearly with all those ripped off clothes he cud've put her in fix..and in very very embarrassed situation bt he didn't. he is too bhola.. 😆 and true gentleman of rare breed..👍🏼

Also I think this is by far not at all stretched track.. if u consider and compare it with other serials..😆

I feel this track is deliberately introduced in keeping in view of future Dharmi track.. Aru needed to b absolutely sure abt Mukhi's character, integrity, and innocence.. and value of his words spoken..(like Saanvi track) ... jo aadmi khud ki biwi ko buri nazar se nahi dekh sakta vo Dharmi etc to kya dekhega/touch karega.. Dharmi has already lost her battle before even starting.. by introducing this "with-proof" plot thy have established in Aru's eyes tht Mukhi's character is indeed tht of Gold.. 😎

Thus I believe like Saanvi track was essential to establish her faith in his love, this track is essential for Aru to put her absolute blind faith on Mukhi's "words/promises" and to put her laurels on his integrity and character over anything in this world..👍🏼

Thus here proof was absolutely necessary to make Aru realize 1. Tht its she who has deep down such desires.. 2. Mukhi is man of his words and absolutely pure "saintly" character tht no one can ever question, let alone her.

bt I really wanna c the other side of Mukhi now.. his naughty.. desperate.. all-in-love.. side

Bt Aru has so petrified Mukhi.. tht he wud b scared as hell to touch his own wife now.. 🤣

Bt this scenario really interests me a lot..🤣

Originally posted by: angelic8219

Felt like a filler episode, I know serials need them but when you have few good episodes it's like taking a step back. They over stretched Aru's intimacy issues, it was probably accusation after accusation that probably ruined the episode and stopped being funny. I hope it just Aru's dirty mind and the hormones have gotten the better of her that she can't admit she's feels like that hence she places blame on Mukhi. Feel every issue will be dragged just like Aru's confession. There's a pattern here.

Originally posted by: vidi263

Hi Pom

I posted this on your other thread this morning. Doing it here again

@pom

I think it's a welcome back for a lot of us since many of us were missing over the last few days. And feel better. Hope everything gets well.

Coming to the episodes, As you rightly put it, just loved how they are dealing with the physical intimacy topic here. It's open yet subtle, honest and at the right time. Just because they confessed their love for each other doesn't mean that they have to jump in bed at the first available opportunity. It's a progression, increasing physical comfort level with each other, gradually heightened desires. In short it's a process. I like that they are dealing with it realistically. The actors are doing a fantastic job and We can see it on the screen.

Having said that, I did feel that it was a little inconsistent to show such a beautiful, heart warming conversation when Mukhi dismissed all of Aru's fears with that one promise and then in the next episode Aru constantly blaming him of trying to get physical with her. Make up your mind girl!! That discussion was so so beautiful and then she suddenly doesn't trust him the next day. I mean what is that? I am not saying that they should never talk about it. But in the last two episodes it seemed like she is constantly on guard about this and is reprimanding the poor guy for something that he is not even doing. Once you develop that trust you don't constantly question it. It's either there or not.

Another thing I am a little disappointed with is the constant dealing with physical proximity. If they want to show their relationship growing then they have to know each other better. How much does Mukhi know about Aru and vice versa? Comedy is good but constant nagging and fighting isn't funny. I really wish they would show a scene where Mukhi opens up to Aru about his parents, who i think he lost at an early age, his journey of becoming a Mukhi or something like that. We know about Aru but we don't know anything about Mukhi. These interactions are going to bring them closer mentally, emotionally and physically. And then they won't need to set a cut of date and use a curtain to decide when they want to completely surrender themselves to each other.

Sorry if my observations are a little on the critical side. But for once I had high hopes of this beautiful relationship progressing in a very subtle, loving and yet passionate manner. If they want to fight great evils in the form of Rami, Arjan and above all Dharmi, their bond, their trust on each other and their love will really need to be a lot more stronger. As Mukhi rightly put it, a time when they know each other so well that they don't need words to communicate. And I honestly didn't see that in the last two episodes.

Take care

Vidi

Originally posted by: ZAHARA.

DAMN IT. This show is bringing back the older man crush feels all over again. 🤣

Originally posted by: pomegranate

This was my reaction while watching the episode and well...it wasn't the good kind.

I don't know about you guys but I'm tired of this "aru doubts mukhi" phase. He had an honest conversation where he putt all her fears to rest. so what is she so angry about? yes he wants her and cannot wait,just like any man but that doesn't mean he will force her into anything.in fact. she should be flattered that her husband wants her so much. Instead she is freaking out over nothing, all those instances where she thought he was hinting at sex was misinterpreted by her. what is the value of trust here? she should have enough respect for her husband to not come such dramatic conclusions. The benefit of doubt and trust goes a long way . and even if he feels sexual attracted, he is a human with functional hormones, doesn't mean he will pounce on her at a given chance.

I know it's bit irritating..her doubts have become quite repetitive now..but I strongly feel she feigns anger..see even Aru wants it..in fact SHE wants it more than Mukhiji! but is still unaware of her own desires..she keeps putting ilzam on Mukhiji..she's in full denial ke woh khud karti hai..kyukii she is confused..she is like main karu toh thik hai lekin Mukhiji the gabru he is would be little u know that for her😉😆 she scares of that only..varna saraa chipakna, paas ana wohi karti hai😛

today's episode...seriously? does aru know how hard it is to have sex while drunk out of one's wits? I get that she doubts mukhi because he too was drunk, but the most obvious logic was provided by mukhi--they were both fully clothed. If anything happened, aru would have felt different or she could just go examine herself in the washroom-all doubts put to rest. It is not fair that she keeps lashing out at mukhi when the guy is a true saint.

yaar it was for comedy purpose😆 Indian TV or filmo mein toh yehi hota hai..drunk means did "it"😆 no one bothers to check him/herself if anything happened or not...esp. a girl would definitely know par yeh logic TV/films mein apply kahan hoti hai?😆 drunken, cuddling, slept together maltab hawww hogaya kaand😆😆

That video will obviously clarify everything, nothing happened and whatever little occured- was initiated by aru herself. The last is either Mukhi's imagination or aru is messing with him. so I hope tomorrow she realizes how stupid she was being, accepts the desire flowing between them and closes this chap which has become so silly and repetitive. Looking at the precap,it looks like creatives are ready to move onto something more serious

I know writers are doing this for comedy but it is no longer funny. especially after aru and mukhi's conversation that night. In trying to show comedy, they are ruining their relationship progress. in addition...it is just not funny(in my opinion) overall, I found the episode loud, annoying and hyper.

yes it was bit too much..Mukhiji maroing thumka made me angry actually😡😭 I dont even want to imagine him in that state🤢 comedy is ok but over comedy gets on nerves.

Now coming to the good things. ArMu were adorable and mukhi is hot hot hot😉 I never imagined I will find a character as rustic as him atractive, with the mustache an all. I loved his disheveled look in the morning and the shower...☺️

Just like in the dori tying scene,I want the intensity back between them. i need to realize they are grown up couple. feeling the love and first pangs of desire. enough with the childlike behaviour.

Mukhi is always hot no matter what☺️ the morning after scene with messy hair and navy blue kurta and later bathroom scene...he killed it☺️ shayad issi liye Aru se control nahi hota😆😆