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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: kit0kat



Considering himself a wise man, why is Mukhi so keen to get Mishri married to such a f'd up family who are just greedy people. These people who live abroad has such low lifer thinking. I would just kick them so far that they will land up in another state. If Mishri does get married to Deep, imagine what she has to go through day and night with the in-laws. They are greedy as it is, and later they will keep demanding more and Mukhi, who wants to see his sister happy no matter what, will keep giving in. Idiot. That is why Aru is indeed needed in his life to fix his low mentality brain.



Yeah.. here Mukhi cannot is poor judge of character.. he thinks two can make a happy couple but tht an understanding husband is required. Here we didn't even see Deep stand for his beliefs against his parents let alone for Mishri. Future with such a man is bleak and definitely not happy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kit0kat



So do I... and when I see these serials.. I just wonder ..which century we are in.. What are the writers even thinking.. I refuse to see Indian movies.. majority of them are so fake.. No wonder, I am hooked on to Criminal Minds, Law and Order SVU, Blue Blood...and so on..

If I were to write a script.. I would be banned from the industry..



I wudnt disregard indian mentality right away, bcoz it is not as individualistic as western culture. for us family is imp if not izzat. Izzat here in India is identified both with false dignity and true self-respect. Some ppl does understand the difference.

Closely woven always staying together Asian families make ppl more tolerant, accepting and helps in need of crises and society helps ppl come out depression easily but fake pretences also put undue pressure (eg social networking) .

but thr r mixed bag of ppl when it comes to regressive and progressive thoughts and I think it has majorly to do with less education and certain fixed attitudes. TV is showcasing these mentalities.

Oh! I love criminal minds.

agreed tht most hindi films or any film is not worth watching, too much emotional drama. Now I feel I cud watch any earlier govinda-david Dhawan film jst for sheer factor called entertainment! 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kit0kat



I agree.. but I dont think Mukhi sees the greedypan of the inlaws. Just want to see Mishri happy.. Poor Mishri will suffer .. Deep looks like he is a mamas boy.. ( I cant stand men when they can't stand on their own, always have to ask mommies opinion)..Its better to get rid of the problem now than getting into it deeper. But living in village has a complete different environment.. panchayat...get beaten and suffer, but live with the same man.. ughh For me, my happiness is more than izzat.. what good is izzat when one is tortured..



For me any person who cannot stand for his/her own belief, will not stand for anyone else. It's deep's test. will he stay true to the words he spoke to Mishri and give his definite opinion to his parents?

I have no problem in boy asking mommies opinion, the problem lies in whether he listens to everyone (including his wife's opinion/points) and uses his own judgement or jst blindly follows other's advice (irrespective of being mother's or wife's or anyone's)?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -RadhaMohan-



me agree with you...Aru now not only Gaurani she is now married she should be very careful😳



Dhwani and Radha, agree Gaurani lacks the tactics as a person.

but if u r suggesting she shud behave in a certain way bcoz she is a bahu of a family, I disagree. Taking stance for what is right is never wrong. In fact Aru has courage (mind you she is not defiant or rude) to stand for her friend. she also thought herself as executive counsellor.

But I get what you are saying, coz me and my MIL are diametrically opposite when it comes to taking a stance for a inflamed issue. My MIL is like Aru, who jumps in with all guns blazing, she cannot stand injustice, ill treatment, question on her self respect and innately has a tendency to play hero/savior for everyone and to everything.

I on the other hand I am a peace loving person and wudnt bother myself with anything unless absolutely necessary. Still I wud keep my opinion with myself till I have fully judged the situation and perspective and intentions of ppl involved. But then thy r all my loved ones and I consider thm equal. I respect, love and care for them equally and put blind trust on thm hence wud always seek happiness for both the parties and wud not b biased.

but if its an outsider, I wud go all guns blazing for my family like Aru. Wud b very protective and combative, jst like my MIL 😆

the only difference is my MIL is a noble creature wud stand for anyone, I on the otherhand wud not interfere for a stranger unless specifically asked for or the situation is critical.

Also I don't believe in taking blame for anyone or being a sacrificial lamb. Everyone shud b responsible for their own actions and behaviour and shud b ready to learn the hard way if necessary.

so I guess Mukhi needs to give Aru the credit for acting right perhaps not at right time and stop telling her that she is an outsider. Agar outsider hoti to itna karti hi nahi. He shud pinpoint the correct problem with her behaviour if he wants her to improve on it warna vo galtiyaan karti rahegi.. aur Mukhiji ka para chadhta rahega.. aur gusse mein to unka dimag hi band ho jaata hai... 😆 and he starts acting worse agar Aru ne kisi din bura laga liya na to bahot bhari padega mukhiji ko... waise bhi dhere dhere kuch kuch hone laga hai unko.. aru chali jaayegi to bahut dard hoga phir... sambhal jaao..😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Just saw the episode.. Damn that Rami.. Now next week, Aru thrown out.. while Aru will mend the issues between Deep and Mishri...Maybe after all Deep might listen to his own guts than his parents.. But that Rami...(in precap) Misleading Mukhi, felt like punching her..😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kit0kat

Just saw the episode.. Damn that Rami.. Now next week, Aru thrown out.. while Aru will mend the issues between Deep and Mishri...Maybe after all Deep might listen to his own guts than his parents.. But that Rami...(in precap) Misleading Mukhi, felt like punching her..😡



actually u r overlooking her talent of manipulating ppl and situation to her favour.. 😆😆 😆

Strategically planning and scheming karne ke liye bahut dimag lagana padta hai.. 😆

I don't mind Rami as long as the leads don't start acting utterly stupid and fall prey like a dumb fool to vamps ridiculous schemes.😆

arre Aru-Mukhi ladenge to accha hai na.. accha patch up scene bhi milega.. and oh an apologetic Mukhi is such a gentleman aur ab to unke romantic traits bhi bahag aayenge.

for now thrs no threat of separation or heart break so we can enjoy romance. Rami is no real threat for now. 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: violette



Dhwani and Radha, agree Gaurani lacks the tactics as a person.

@being Gaurani easy for Aru not easy for her to behave like married person.

but if u r suggesting she shud behave in a certain way bcoz she is a bahu of a family, I disagree. Taking stance for what is right is never wrong. In fact Aru has courage (mind you she is not defiant or rude) to stand for her friend. she also thought herself as executive counsellor.

Bahu? still so much time to be babu for Aru.. but she knows that she married that's why she is here for Mishri ! and what if mukhi ji do same thing with Dharmi break her rishta etc? so Aru also will be same like mukhi ji today.

But I get what you are saying, coz me and my MIL are diametrically opposite when it comes to taking a stance for a inflamed issue. My MIL is like Aru, who jumps in with all guns blazing, she cannot stand injustice, ill treatment, question on her self respect and innately has a tendency to play hero/savior for everyone and to everything.

sounds like brave woman 👍🏼

I on the other hand I am a peace loving person and wudnt bother myself with anything unless absolutely necessary. Still I wud keep my opinion with myself till I have fully judged the situation and perspective and intentions of ppl involved. But then thy r all my loved ones and I consider thm equal. I respect, love and care for them equally and put blind trust on thm hence wud always seek happiness for both the parties and wud not b biased.

same me too here😳

but if its an outsider, I wud go all guns blazing for my family like Aru. Wud b very protective and combative, jst like my MIL 😆


the only difference is my MIL is a noble creature wud stand for anyone, I on the otherhand wud not interfere for a stranger unless specifically asked for or the situation is critical.

@if outsider interfere in someones family matter ..soon family will be hum saath saath hai and outsider will be monster for them that's what i learn in life😆

Also I don't believe in taking blame for anyone or being a sacrificial lamb. Everyone shud b responsible for their own actions and behaviour and shud b ready to learn the hard way if necessary.

@Right 😊

so I guess Mukhi needs to give Aru the credit for acting right perhaps not at right time and stop telling her that she is an outsider. Agar outsider hoti to itna karti hi nahi. He shud pinpoint the correct problem with her behaviour if he wants her to improve on it warna vo galtiyaan karti rahegi.. aur Mukhiji ka para chadhta rahega.. aur gusse mein to unka dimag hi band ho jaata hai... 😆 and he starts acting worse agar Aru ne kisi din bura laga liya na to bahot bhari padega mukhiji ko... waise bhi dhere dhere kuch kuch hone laga hai unko.. aru chali jaayegi to bahut dard hoga phir... sambhal jaao..😆@main problem is ArMu still think there marriage for only few days? 🤔😆here not there fault the way marriage happen it will take time to accept everything till than they will be behave like this only

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