Originally posted by: -RadhaMohan-
me agree with you...Aru now not only Gaurani she is now married she should be very careful😳
Dhwani and Radha, agree Gaurani lacks the tactics as a person.
but if u r suggesting she shud behave in a certain way bcoz she is a bahu of a family, I disagree. Taking stance for what is right is never wrong. In fact Aru has courage (mind you she is not defiant or rude) to stand for her friend. she also thought herself as executive counsellor.
But I get what you are saying, coz me and my MIL are diametrically opposite when it comes to taking a stance for a inflamed issue. My MIL is like Aru, who jumps in with all guns blazing, she cannot stand injustice, ill treatment, question on her self respect and innately has a tendency to play hero/savior for everyone and to everything.
I on the other hand I am a peace loving person and wudnt bother myself with anything unless absolutely necessary. Still I wud keep my opinion with myself till I have fully judged the situation and perspective and intentions of ppl involved. But then thy r all my loved ones and I consider thm equal. I respect, love and care for them equally and put blind trust on thm hence wud always seek happiness for both the parties and wud not b biased.
but if its an outsider, I wud go all guns blazing for my family like Aru. Wud b very protective and combative, jst like my MIL 😆
the only difference is my MIL is a noble creature wud stand for anyone, I on the otherhand wud not interfere for a stranger unless specifically asked for or the situation is critical.
Also I don't believe in taking blame for anyone or being a sacrificial lamb. Everyone shud b responsible for their own actions and behaviour and shud b ready to learn the hard way if necessary.
so I guess Mukhi needs to give Aru the credit for acting right perhaps not at right time and stop telling her that she is an outsider. Agar outsider hoti to itna karti hi nahi. He shud pinpoint the correct problem with her behaviour if he wants her to improve on it warna vo galtiyaan karti rahegi.. aur Mukhiji ka para chadhta rahega.. aur gusse mein to unka dimag hi band ho jaata hai... 😆 and he starts acting worse agar Aru ne kisi din bura laga liya na to bahot bhari padega mukhiji ko... waise bhi dhere dhere kuch kuch hone laga hai unko.. aru chali jaayegi to bahut dard hoga phir... sambhal jaao..😆