Is leaving home a solution to all the problems

Originally posted by: ruchi3179

A big no .This type of blabbering is common thing but yes CV's showed it too early & too much.But one shd always judge a person by heart & not what he says specially men.Men are very different from women & this i understood after many years of marriage .It is not easy to stay in marriage & it requires ones willingness from both sides.

Originally posted by: myprimechicago

There are 2 different perspective when a woman decides to pack and leave..

most of the time it's for taking a break from the fight or argument where she does not find a way to fix the issue or is hurt to an extend where she needs a breathing space + time for spouse to cool down... and that's relatable coz it helps to an extent instead of fighting further and tolerating constant taunts from hubby

But there is a rare ultimate case where wife is done with shaadi and decides to call it quits which is like last resort

For me Samaina's situation falls in 1st case and just coz they are taking a break does not mean they want to divorce each other

Originally posted by: ruchi3179

It is true taking break etc but it is too early in this case.See leaving husband when angry keeps a very bad taste & insecurities in a husbands mind.You can take break but not like this in anger & in middle of fighting etc.It increases misunderstanding.

Is leaving home a solution to all problems - at least I don't think so.

Threatening to leave for Maika is nothing but a manipulation tactic that some women use as weapon to have the upper hand during marital conflicts. I personally see it as poor communication skills within relationship and stubbornness to win the argument. Also I feel that it is lack of commitment from ones side to try to reach the middle ground. Naina already has threatened to leave earlier and Sameer already cried and stopped her. Does anybody think Sameer will keep on stopping her each time she threatens to walk away on him? Since they got married both have been wrong and instead of trying to sort out and reach a solution that works for both them, she is threatening to leave. I personally don't feel she should leave and at least let the situation clam down and try to have a conversation.